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Taken In Hand (TiH) #1
Taken In Hand (TiH) #2
Temporary Consensual Agreement
Ten Things femsubs do to Mess Up Their Lives
Ten
Rules of D/s
Ten
rules for submissives
Ten Tips for the Novice, Single, Heterosexual, Submissive
Woman
The Collar
The
gift
The Power of Submission
The
subbie's couch
Things to know about approaching a Dominant
Tips on Being a Good Submissive
Total Power Exchange (TPE)
Types of Power Exchange Relationships
The Unowned submissive
Was That Dominant Or Was That Rude?
Weekly Class/Discussion Topic Notes/Logs:
(Index)
What
a Master should be
What is a Dom
What
makes a good Dominant?
What Makes a Great Dominant Partner for a submissive
What
slaves need
Why Do Strong Women Like to be Dominated?
Why is D/s Compelling?
Why
the hurry?
Who You Become
Why Choose to Train Outside of a Relationship
Words of a Master
Writing a Kinky Relationship Into Being
your
journal
your Dominant's Owners Manual
Your Responsibilities as a Submissive
Asj's
Recommended journal website
Advice
for the Novice Dominant
Available
submissive/slave register listing
A
Good Spanking
The Awakening
The Basics of Flogging
BDSM Guide for Nice Guys
The Beginners Guide to D/s
Blue balls (congested prostate or vasocongestion)
Brat Out of Control (or How to Spank a Brat)
Condoms
and Sexually Transmitted Diseases
Discipline
Discipline and Punishment in Dominant / submissive
Relationships
Discipline - Punishment
Dominant by Day, submissive by Night
Dominant Keys
Dominant Types and their sub Counterparts
Dom's
Prayer, The
Discipline Versus Punishment in the D/s World
Duties of a Dominant
D/S 101 - Training Methods
Ending a D/s Relationship
Entering
a D/s relationship
Everything I Know About Dominance, I Learned From My Dog
Fistin g Made Easy
The
G-Spot, Fact or Fiction
If
You Want a slave
Ignoring
as a Form of Punishment
Important
Questions a Dominant Needs to Ask His Submissive
Learning
the Ropes
The
Dom's Creed
The
Dom's Lounge
The
Falconer
How Can I Develop a More Dominant Personality?
How to
BDSM How to Dominate a submissive; Eve When You are a New
Dominant
Breath
Control
Fire
Play
Guide
to Sensuous Caning
Guide
to Steel Bondage (handcuffs)
Humiliation
Introduction
to Erotic Flogging
The Making of a Dominant
A
Master's Aw Shit!
A
Masters Feast - Formal D/s Banquet
Overcoming Negative Emotions
A
Pledge to My submissive
The
Power Within Journaling
Projects, structure and protocol: three mechanisms for 24/7 d/s
Punishment
The
Master's Pain
Master, A Cooperative Art
Master
vs. Dom
Needs vs. Wants
Oh, The Shame of it All
Online D/s Relationships: How to Start a Relationship with
that Perfect submissive
P.M.S. and the submissive
Psychological Domination
Punishment and Conflict within a D/s Relationship
Punishment:
Is It Part of the Package?
Punishment ~ Must it Always be so Physical?
Punishment of a submissive, The
Qualities
of a successful Dominant
Reactance in the Process of Internal Enslavement
Register
as a Dom in Asj's Registry
Relaxed Domination
Requirements for Your Slave or Submissive
Responsibilities of a Dominant
Selecting the right girl
Simplicity
Slave
Training 101
So You Want to be a Dom
So
You Want to be an Owner
Successful Master
Ten
Rules for Dominants
The Bonsai Theory
The
illusion of control
The Process of Selection
The Seven Principles of Mastery
The 10 Commandments of a Lady's Pleasure
Things to Know About Training a Slave
The
Three Legged Stool
Thoughts
on submission
Training a submissive: Drawing up a Contract
The Training of a Consensual Slave
Training of a Consensual Slave or Submissive Sex Slave
Training Theory
When
A Master Speaks
When Dominants Crash
What
is a Dominant
What a Master/Dom should be
What to do When the "New" Wears Off
What to Look for Finding a submissive
When A Dominant submissive Relationship Ends
When
A Submissive Is No Longer Able To Serve
Why
Am I a Master
Why
Spanking?
Yes Virginia, The Penis Does Have a Role
A
bit about pain
A
bit about rope
Action! Erotic Flicks You'll Both Like
Aftercare
- The Last Act of the BDSM Drama
A submissive is not a slave ~ more on the
discussion on the differences between the two.
A Whole Different World......24/7
About
your Mentor
Absolute Slavery
Aftercare
Aftercare,
What is
Anal Penetration
Anal Play
Anal
Sex
Anger ~ (Extracts from a girls journal )
An
Essay About the Old Days (Jay Wiseman )
Art
of Oral Sex, The
Asj's
Bookstore
Asj's Chat Room Rules and Protocols (Lobby)
Asj's
Library
Asj's
Recommended Reading List
Baby Oil Versus KY Warming Lubricant
The Baskin Robbins Theory
BDSM & Sanity
- SANITY: THE CENTRAL TENANT IN SAFE, SANE, & CONSENSUAL
Beginners
Guide To Dominance and submission
Birth
Control Methods, the effectiveness of
BDSM and Feminism: An Insider's View
BDSM, a how to
Adding BDSM to a Vanilla Relationship
Aging and your BDSM Relationship
Alcohol,
Drugs and BDSM play
Basic Scene Safety Tips
Basic
Spanking Guidelines
BDSM Communication
BDSM; Not just kinky sex
Bondage
Guide
Canes
The
emblem, what does it mean
So,
what is B.D.S.M.?
The
BDSM Lifestyle
BDSM
Checklist for submissives
BDSM
Checklist, how to use (transcript of chat log)
BDSM Establishing a Safe Word
BDSM Financial (Money) Play
BDSM Fisting
BDSM Gag Safety Tips: Safe, Sane, Consensual
BDSM Hair Bondage
BDSM How To: Dinner and a Movie Play
BDSM How To:
Interrogation Scene
BDSM How To: Night Security Guard Scene
BDSM How To: Plan a Schoolgirl Scene
BDSM Mummification: Saran Wrap
BDSM
~ my kink, your kink
BDSM Play Party Rules and Etiquette
BDSM - Play Safe
BDSM - Ponyplay
BDSM Protocol
BDSM Scene Negotiation
BDSM Techniques - Hot Wax Play
BDSM Toys and projects
Canes and Caning
Chastity Belts
Creative BDSM Toys
Dangers
of Ice Play
Dealing With Depression in a D/s Relationship
Domestic
violence in the BDSM community
Essay on Subspace
Ethics
in Bondage, Discipline and Sado-Masochism
Facts
about BDSM
Figging: The Art of Ginger Root Play
Finding a BDSM Partner
Flogging, an Introduction to
How to Care for Your Sex Toys
How to explain BDSM to a Vanilla partner or friend
Help your Dominant Recover from Play
Hurt
vs. Harm
Is It Worth It?
Nipple Play
Nipple Torture with Clamps
Obedience
Online BDSM
Painslut vs. Masochist
The Pain Threshold and Endorphins or, "No Pain, No Gain "
Play Party, Rules and Expectations
Pregnancy and BDSM
Rope, The Most Versatile Toy
Rules of Steel Bondage
Safety: Hard Limits, Soft Limits
Self Bondage
Self Bondage How to Begin
Should you tell the kids?
Spanking Positions
Strict versus Sensual - Self Bondage
Techniques
of Striking Sensation (vol
1- Under the Lash )
Techniques of Striking Sensation
(vol 2
- Single Tails ~ whips )
Ten Tips for Novice Dungeon Monitors (Jay Wiseman)
The Medical Realities of Breath Control Play (Jay Wiseman)
The Stages of Release ~ Ending a D/s / BDSM Relationship
The Ten Sins of D/s and BDSM
Whartenberg Wheel
What
is BDSM
What is so Nice
About Pain?
What You Don't See
Why
is Bondage Fun?
BDSM and Kids
BDSM and a Vanilla Partner
BDSM - Forced Submission Versus Consensual Submission
BDSM General Legal Issues
BDSM General Legal Issues (Life/Death)
BDSM Relationships: Dominance and submission
BDSM: Signs it May be Time to Leave the Lifestyle
BDSM submissive vs. slave: Is there a difference?
BDSM Toy Box
Best Anal Lube... Ever?
Book Reviews (D/s,
M/s, BDSM & Poly) (Index)
Building
a portable massage table
Can A Dominant or submissive be Made?
Can D/s Survive Marriage
Canes,
On making
Christianity, Religion and the BDSM & D/s Lifestyle
CJ Suggests
Cleaning Leather
Cleaning
your sex toys
Clips
and Clamps
Collars
Collars, The Consideration Collar
Coming
out into S&M
Communication
Compatibility in D/s
Consensual Slavery
Consent With Awareness
Contracts ~ Do I really need a contract?
Control Dramas in the Lifestyle
Creative
BDSM Toys
Dealing with Disabilities in a BDSM Relationship
Death of a Community
Defining Absolute and Total Power Exchange
Defining Abuse in Absolute and Total Power Exchange
Defining Dominance and submission ~ types of relationships
Did you ask permission?
Discussion
of Dominance and submission
Does
D/s interfere with communication?
Domestic
Abuse/Violence Help Resources
Domestic Discipline
Dominance and submission: A
Dom's Point of View
Dominant Submissive, The
Dominant / submissive relationship contract
Dominants Council
Doms Are Infallible
Dom/sub Down Time
D/s Marriage Counseling
D/s
Medical advice
D/s (Dominant submissive) Philosophy
D/s and Sexual Politics
Dumped by your Dom
Embarrassment, Humiliation and Degradation
Emotional Safety
Enclave
Establishing Limits: Going Full Circle
Experiencing Subspace and Subdrop Safely
Exploring
the Phenomenon of Strong Female Submissives
The
Facts About Aphrodisiacs
Fellatio and the submissive
The Fetish Wardrobe
Part
1: Can't I Just Wear My Flannel Shirt? Why Fetish Wear is De Rigeur
Part
2: Developing a Fetish Wardrobe on a Budget
Part
3: Accessorizing for Pain & Pleasure
Finding
a kinky lover
First Steps in Sensory Deprivation
Flogging
Formal Collar (Slave Collar)
From
the Archives of Castle Realm
From
virtual to real time, the first meeting
Gender Roles Shift Over Time
Golden
Showers (Watersports)
Gor - Kajira
Gor
- The lowdown
Handling
your anger
Have you Ever?
Having a D/s Relationship
The Healthy submissive
He said, she said; PMS and being a slave
Historical Origins of BDSM, The
History
of Spanking
Honesty in a D/s Relationship
Honor and Trust
Honorifics, Titles and Respect
How
to enhance the Dominant or submissive traits of a vanilla partner
How
to tell your children
How
(Some) Poly People Meet Each Other
How Stress Can Affect Your Sex Life
How
to use medical information on the internet
HPD and the Lifestyle
Humiliation-Degredation
Humiliation
- things considered as humiliating
I
am submissive
Ideas About Home Made Toys (Adult Toys)
Initiating a Discussion About
BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner
Intimate Partner Violence (IPV)
Introducing
your Partner to D/s
Inventive BDSM Christmas Ideas
Is
BDSM Deviant Sexual Behavior?
Is
everyone either a top or a bottom?
What's a switch? Is
What I See On The Net Real?
Japanese Rope Bondage (Shibari)
The
Key to Kinky Happiness
The
kids - Daddy, what are you doing to mommy?
Kink
Aware Professionals
Knights vs. Gods
Jealousy
Jealousy and the Abyss
Jealousy in a Poly D/s Relationship
Let's Give Online D/s Some Credit for Reality
Lifestyle
Resources
Limitations and Personal Growth
Living
D/s with children in the home
Living the D/s Lifestyle
Living the Lifestyle within Reality: Part 1
Lubricant's - A Beginners Guide to
Online Predators
A Master and His sub/slave
A Matter of Balance
The Mindset of Safety
A Modern Application of Old Guard Philosophy
More on the G-Spot and Female Ejaculation
Munch
Do's and Don'ts
Munch
FAQ's
Munch
- What
is a munch?
The Needs of a slave
An
Oath to You my Master
Offline
Honesty
Old Fashioned BDSM Christmas
Old
Guard
Old
Guard? If you say so
Old
Guard - New Guard
Online to Real Life
Online
Safety
Online vs Real Life D/s
Oral Sex: Submissive Act?
Oral Sex and Throat Cancer?
Orgasm Control/Release Training
Orgasm Denial - Erotic Sexual Denial
Our Absolute Lifestyle
O/our
thoughts on a collar
Parents and
BDSM
Personal Labels in D/s
The Pleasure of
the Pain: Why some people need S&M
Polyamory
Polyamory
- Asj's Community Message Board, a thread on the subject of Polyamory
Polygamy
Polygamy - The Ultimate Feminist Lifestyle
Popular female sex toys
Power
Exchange
Practical Aspects of Polygamy
Progression of a D/s Relationship
Psychological Dimensions of Masochistic Surrender
Psychology of Sadomasochism
Punishment in a D/s Relationship
Reducing
the Risks of Meeting an Online Acquaintance
Reality Check
The Reality of Service
Religion, the Bible and the Dominant
submissive (D/s) Lifestyle
Resource
Listing - r/t BDSM activities & organizations USA wide
Returning to Vanilla
Rituals
Safer
Sex
Safe Words and Safe Guards
Sensuous
Spanking
Service-Oriented Collar (Relationship)
The Seven Common Types of Internet
Submissives
Sex Myths and Truths
Sex Research Surprises
Sex Toys
slave
contracts
slave vs. submissive, an opinion
Slaves and Limits
Slavery and Safe Words
Slavery in Word and Speech
A
slaves right
Some Facts About S/M
Spanking
Spanking for Stress Relief
Submissive Jealousy Within a BDSM Relationship
The submissives as a People Pleaser
Submissive vs. Slave ~ Why are we still debating?
Suspension Bondage
Terms
and definitions
Testing Pain Tolerance
The Pleasure of Pain - Why some people need S&M
The
reality of living 24/7
The Talk
Shows do D/s - Public Perceptions of BDSM
Thoughts on a D/s Relationship
The Ten Commandments of a Gentleman's Pleasure
The Three R's
Responsible Non-Monogamy
Topping from the Bottom
Trust
Trust
- The foundation
Twas the Night Before Christmas - BDSM
Twelve Days of Christmas - BDSM Style
Rope
- Using Rope, a how to
Safewords and Non-Verbal Cues
S&M For Beginners
Vibrators
Violet
Wands
Warning Sounded on Genital Piercings
Wax Play
What
is a D/s relationship?
(by Master Aegean )
What
is a D/s relationship? (by Rover )
What is a Daddy
Dom?
What
is and what makes a D/s relationship?
What
is a "safeword"
What
is a "Taws" (Tawse)
What is your Ideal Body Weight
What's
New on Asj?
When Protocol Becomes Boring
Why Being Poly Is More Natural Than We Give it Credit For
Why I am Poly and I am not Monogamous
Writings,
D/s and BDSM
A
story for Gregg
Soulmates
Submissive
Really Does Not Mean
The
Tree and the Gardner
Why
Am I a Master
A
Wheel of Balance
A World of Absolutes
Your Kink - My Kink
D/s, BDSM Erotic Writings and Prose
Index of erotic
writings and prose (note: some of these articles
may have strong sexual content. They are fictitious in nature and as such,
may not represent a realistic view of the BDSM or D/s Lifestyle.
Additional content may be found in the members only section of the Asj web site)
D/s Lifestyle Within a Spiritual Overtone or
Context
The
Meaning of Submission (A Study of Ephesians 5:22)
Pet Names
The Healing Power
of Sex
Marital
Discipline
Why
Being A Submissive Wife is Hot
Wifely
Submission in a Marriage is God's Plan
Women’s Liberation Through Submission: An Evangelical Anti-Feminism Is Born
The Gorean Lifestyle
The Gorean
Slave
Why Would
a Girl Want to be a Gorean Slave
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