Vibrators 

 What is a vibrator?

 A vibrator is an electric device that massages areas of the body,

 particularly the penis, vagina and anus. The most common use of

 vibrators is by women for masturbation, but many men use vibrators  to supplement their sexual experiences as well. Vibrators come in all  shapes, textures and sizes, each catering to a particular taste. With  the thousands of vibrators on the market today, you'll almost certainly  be able to find one that suits your taste. Those open to vibrators find  they add an exciting dimension to everyday sex or masturbation.  Some women describe the sexual feeling from a vibrator as one of  the most intense possible.

 Examples of Vibrators

 What is the difference between a vibrator and a dildo?   You may not have guessed it, but vibrators are not primarily used for  vaginal penetration. If you thought they were, you might have been  thinking about dildos, which are used for this purpose. Let's clarify the  distinction between the two. Vibrators are quivering, electrical  devices, and are used most  often on the exterior of a woman's  genitals for sexual stimulation.  They can sometimes resemble the  male sexual organ, but most popular brands do not represent any  part of the human body whatsoever. Women can use vibrators to  stimulate their clitoris, vulva, vagina and anus. Men can use vibrators to stimulate their penis and anus. Couples use vibrators together to  enhance the pleasure of sexual intimacy.

 On the other hand, dildos are often phallic in shape, although some

 models provide women and men alternative designs, such as

 figurines or even miniature statues. Since dildos don’t vibrate they

 are most often used for anal or vaginal penetration. However, some  women enjoy massaging their clitoris with their dildo as well.

 Why would I want to use a vibrator?

 For Women

 Vibrators are often quite helpful to women who can’t reach orgasm

 during masturbation or sex. Many women require constant,

 prolonged clitoral stimulation in order to achieve an orgasm, and the  vibrator can provide the required stimulation. The unwavering

 vibrations on the clitoris and surrounding areas send many women

 into orgasm much more quickly than a hand, tongue or penis and in

 addition, produce a more intense climax. The device, however, is not  just for sexual pleasure; vibrators also have many other sexual health  benefits. For those women who have decreased mobility due to  accident or disability, vibrators can be a wonderful, soothing

 addition. Women who have sore genitals because of a pregnancy

 can use a vibrator to ease their pain. Finally, women may experience  reduced sensitivity as they age and the vibrator can be just the  device to create the stimulation they were used to in their earlier  years. Vibrators are a simple, versatile sexual toy for women who  want to explore new avenues of sexual satisfaction.

 For Men

 Unfortunately, men have often overlooked the benefits of a vibrator.

 Men typically do not experience the same difficulty achieving orgasm  that women sometimes do, so vibrators are not needed or desired.   Yet, many men enjoy the vibrating sensation on their genitals. The  vibrators that are made for men include vibrating sleeves, vibrating  penis rings and anal toys but some men have no trouble using  traditional "women's" vibrators on themselves. Men who use  vibrators often describe similar experiences as women.

 For Couples

 For couples, vibrators enhance even the healthiest sexual 

 relationship. A vibrator can provide mutual pleasure when a woman

 presses it against her clitoris during intercourse as the vibrations can  also be felt by her mate. Vibrators can also be used to enhance oral  sex, by placing the vibrator on the genitals while oral stimulation is  being performed. Show your partner how you use your vibrator when  alone, so he or she can learn which techniques provide the most  intense sensations.

 What are some ways to enhance the use of my vibrator?

 Vibrators can produce some of the most profound sexual pleasure

 around (aside from your partner, of course!) You’re only limited by

 your imagination when you learn how to use it to its fullest.

 The first thing to do with a vibrator is to experiment with it. Test out

 the speeds and intensities of the different levels of vibrations (for

 those that are equipped) and find out what feels good for you. A

 vibrator can be pleasurable while you are on your back and directly

 massaging the erogenous area; on your stomach while your vibrator  is nestled into the bed; or any other variation you find exciting.

 If the vibrations are too powerful and you find them to be numbing

 rather than pleasurable, turn the speed of the motor down. If you can’t  change the speed of your vibrator, you can dull the vibrations by  wrapping the vibrator in a towel or even a small pillow. Conversely, if  you find the sensations too soft, try adding gentle pressure with the  vibrator against the body. You may still find this is not enough, in  which case you may want to get a more powerful vibrator.

 Once familiar with the sensations produced by your vibrator,

 experiment a little. Here are a few suggestions.

 Try to prolong stimulation. Use the vibrator until just before climax,

 take it away, relax, and begin again. Keep trying this until you can’t

 wait any longer, and enjoy your orgasm. Many people find this to be

 the most long-lasting and pleasurable way to use their vibrator.

 Enhance stimulation by other means. Some women enjoy using 

 a dildo in their vagina while the vibrator gently massages the clitoris.   Using some lubrication on the end of the vibrator will allow it to slide  around easier on the genitals, and enhances the feeling of the  vibrations. Use it on all of your body. Try using the vibrator in different  places, warming you up for your favorite spot. Many vibrators are powerful enough to use pleasurably on the back, face, legs and feet.

 Men may be a little apprehensive about trying a vibrator for the first 

 time because they may be asking, what do I do with this? A vibrator  is perfect for stimulating all areas of the genitals. The head, shaft and  base of the penis, as well as the testicles and anus can all be  stimulated enjoyably. Some men find that the vibrator is great to  massage the area underneath the scrotum as they give themselves  manual stimulation. This can produce a fantastic orgasm.

 What do I look for in a vibrator?

 When people are shopping for vibrators, they either do so from a

 mail-order catalog, pharmacy, department store or sex boutique. It

 may be difficult for you to ask questions about the attributes of each  vibrator to a salesperson because you will have to reveal a bit about  your own sexual preferences. There are literally thousands of

 vibrators available in North America, each with its own benefits and

 shortfalls. This section is designed to help you sift through the many

 options and find the vibrator that is right for you.

 Your tastes

 The vibrator that you choose will have to be compatible with those

 who are going to use it. Is the vibrator just for you or is it for you and

 your partner? If you plan to use this vibrator as a couple then be sure  that you and your partner shop for the vibrator together. Your partner  should feel included in the decision so that he or she can be most  comfortable with the purchase. Try to think of ways you would incorporate the vibrator into your lovemaking, or whether the vibrator  would offer you the new excitement you’re looking for.

 The most important attribute of a vibrator is its ability to stimulate. It is  your task to determine what type of stimulation you find most

 enjoyable. You should choose a vibrator that will massage the

 area(s) of the body that you want stimulated. Furthermore, think about  the strength of vibration that you find most enjoyable. The strength of  the vibrations will depend on what type of vibrator you choose.

 Electric plug-in vibrators usually produce the greatest intensity of

 vibration. These models typically come with a number of different

 settings, giving you a choice of intensities. Battery powered vibrators will usually not give as strong a vibration in comparison. You can  judge the amount of vibration output by the number of batteries  required. A vibrator that takes two C batteries will be stronger than  one that takes only AA batteries. Also, plug-in vibrators always  operate at full capacity while battery powered vibrators tend to slow  down as the batteries drain.

 Being a smart consumer

 The price, durability and portability of a vibrator will undoubtedly

 influence your decision to buy one model over another. Electric

 vibrators are usually more expensive than their battery powered

 counterparts but last longer. Name brand vibrators, commonly

 referred to by most larger companies as ‘personal massagers’ are of  the highest quality, but normally come at the highest price as well. As  for battery powered vibrators, their most appealing attribute is the  fact that they are portable. This means you can enjoy your toy at the  cottage, while on vacation or even on a date! Remember to stock up  on batteries, as these vibes tend to run themselves down quickly.