Resource Information

BDSM, D/s, the lifestyle, Master, Dominant submissive, so many topics, so many pages to peruse.  While there are a good many topics covered here, I assure you, these are but a few.  I've tried to select topics that I think might be beneficial to you in helping you to find your way around.  Take the time to read these as well as other articles you come across.  Whether you are Dom or sub you'll find useful information here.  If it's been awhile since you've read one of these, stop and reread it, see if your opinion of the article has changed since you first read it. 

 I'll try to keep this section current and up to date, placing fresh articles  here as I find them.  If you don't find them here, stop by our library and  check there or the Asj archives.  Or, check our site index located in  Chapter 10.  Take advantage of our site seach engines located  around the Asj website..

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 Resource Topics (you can click on the major

 heading, or scroll down to find the subject you are

 looking for).

1. Safety within the Lifestyle

2. Emotions and feelings

3. Submission

4. Domination

5. Scening, toys, and How to's

6. Other topics

Safety within the lifestyle

[ These articles generally deal with safety issues or medical concerns that are common to the D/s or BDSM lifestyles.]

Condoms and Sexually Transmitted Diseases

D/s Medical advice

How to use medical information on the internet

Online Red flags

The Facts About Aphrodisiacs

Online Safety

Reducing the Risks of Meeting an Online Acquaintance

Safe Calls

Safe Call Network

Safer Sex

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Emotions and feelings

Dealing with emotions

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Submission

[ These articles generally deal with submission, or topics that are

 especially of interest to slaves and subs.]

About your Mentor

Finding your Dom

your journal

Asj's Recommended journal website

So you want to be a slave?

sub/slave register

Ten rules for submissives

The subbie's couch

Questions for your Dom

Responsibilities of a submissive

A submissives creed

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Domination

[ These articles generally deal with domination, or topics that are

 especially of interest to Dominants.]

Advice for the Novice Dominant

The Dom's Creed

Master vs. Dom

Qualities of a successful Dominant

Register as a Dom in Asj's Registry

Slave Training 101

So you want to be an owner

Ten Rules for Dominants

What is a Dominant

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Scening, toys and How to's

[ These articles generally deal with a variety of topics including

information on "how to", scening or play issues and other relevant

topics, generally of interest to all.]

Breath Control

Clothespins, Using

Electrical Play

Flogging

Guide to Sensuous Caning

Guide to Steel Bondage (handcuffs)

Introduction to Erotic Flogging

Performing Fellatio

Shaving, A how to

Use Clothespins

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Other Topics

[ These articles deal with different aspects of the D/s lifestyle and

are generally of interest to all.]

Common Mistakes People Make

Communication

Discipline

Entering a D/s relationship

Finding a kinky lover

Finding your way

From virtual to real time, the first meeting

G-Spot, Fact or Fiction, The

Learning the Ropes

National Resource Listing

Terms and definitions

Trust

Trust - The foundation

What slaves need

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