A submissives journey - the subbie's (sub submissive) couch

Welcome to the subbie's couch. Here you can curl up your feet and make yourself comfy as you take a few minutes from your day to plan your exploration of the Dominant ~ submissive/ slave or BDSM lifestyle. Use the links below as tour guides to help you learn just a bit more on your continued discovery of this lifestyle.

The more you learn about this lifestyle the sooner you'll find yourself ready to savor the pleasures that await you as a submissive or slave. Each step you take on this journey brings you one step closer to that final destination of fulfillment and happiness.

A submissive or slave may not find herself in control of many situations, but the one situation she is always in control of is how much she learns about this lifestyle before she ventures into it, and how much she continues to learn to improve herself and her abilities to please her Master or Dominant.

There are many avenues open to you to explore your submissiveness, to seek more knowledge of this lifestyle. A bit of reading can often prepare you for many of the things you have yet to discover. Remember, trying to take shortcuts by skipping the basics will only end up with you getting lost and having to back track to get yourself on course again.

Did you know, the Asj Community hosts ‘Dominant submissive and BDSM Lifestyle Classes and Discussions’ here online every Sunday evening at 9:00 pm Eastern Time. The Classes and Discussions are open to all and Free to attend. Visit our Members Only Pages for more information, or click any of our “ask live” icons to ask for more information.

Questions about our the D/s lifestyle or the Asj web site? Click the ask live icon to chat live or leave a message with our site host. CJ isn't always available, but generally you can find Him here from about 8:30 - 11:00 pm Eastern time. Your questions about the site, the Asj community or just about the lifestyle in general are always welcome. If nothing else, take a moment and tell us what you think of this feature!

The meaning of submission sub/slaves registry

A submissives creed submissives Do's and Don'ts

Responsibilities of a submissive Finding your Dominant

Questions for your Dominant Safety in the lifestyle

A submissives journal About your Mentor

Excellent books for those in the lifestyle,,,