A submissives journey - the subbie's (sub submissive) couch

A submissives journey

What's new

on Asj?

Chapter 1
The Asj

Community

Chapter 2
Resource Information

Chapter 3
Subbie's Couch

Chapter 4
The Dom's Lounge

Chapter 5

The Library

Chapter 6
BDSM

Chapter 7

Useful Links

Chapter 8
Members share their thoughts

Chapter 9

Members Only

Chapter 10
Asj's Site Index

Chapter 11
Asj's Book Store

Chapter 12
Recommended Reading List

Chapter 13
Asj submissive slave register

The "members only" section of the Asj website is now open! Visit our chat rooms, check the profiles of other members. and best of all, it's FREE!

The subbie's couch

Welcome to the subbie's couch. Here you can

curl up your feet and make yourself comfy as

you take a few minutes from your day to plan

your exploration of the Dominant ~ submissive/

slave or BDSM lifestyle. Use the links below as

tour guides to help you learn just a bit more on

your continued discovery of this lifestyle.

The more you learn about this lifestyle the

sooner you'll find yourself ready to savor the

pleasures that await you as a submissive or

slave. Each step you take on this journey brings

you one step closer to that final destination of fulfillment and happiness.

A submissive or slave may not find herself in

control of many situations, but the one situation

she is always in control of is how much she

learns about this lifestyle before she ventures

into it, and how much she continues to learn to

improve herself and her abilities to please her

Master or Dominant.

There are many avenues open to you to explore,

to seek more knowledge of this lifestyle. A bit of reading can often prepare you for many of the things you have yet to discover. Remember,

trying to take shortcuts by skipping the basics

will only end up with you getting lost and having

to back track to get yourself on course again.

Questions about our the D/s lifestyle or the Asj web site? Click the ask live icon to chat live or leave a message with our site host. CJ isn't always available, but generally you can find Him here from about 8:30 - 11:00 pm Eastern time. Your questions about the site, the Asj community or just about the lifestyle in general are always welcome. If nothing else, take a moment and tell us what you think of this feature!

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A submissives journal About your Mentor

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