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Starting your journal...
Just exactly what is a "submissives journal" and should "every submissive or slave keep one", are two questions I'm frequently asked. Answering the latter question first, a simple answer, yes, every submissive or slave should keep a written account of the things she learns and experiences, including her emotions and inner thoughts. As you read this, I think it will become apparent why this is so. To understand why you need to keep this record, you need to understand a bit more about what a journal is and what it's used for.
Generally speaking, a submissive's journal should be kept up daily. It can include minute details of every action, thought, emotion etc the submissive had throughout a single day. Or it can just encompass those times the submissive needs
to clear some thoughts from her mind
and
heart. Unless your Dom or Master has instructed you otherwise, there really isn't a standard format for your entries. It can consist of multiple "'bullet" type entries, or it can be more of a narrative style.
Don't worry about being grammatically perfect, or having the punctuation textbook accurate! Concentrate more on what you write, making sure you include all of the feelings or thoughts you are having about the lifestyle. Don't forget, this is also a place where you can share your emotions or concerns with your Master or Dom.
A submissives journal (if done properly) is a very personal thing, it's not meant to be shared with anyone except your Master or Dom and perhaps for some issues, with your Mentor. Always be completely open and honest with your self in your journal. Don't try holding things back, and don't try writing "what you think your Master or Dom wants to hear. This record is your place to express yourself without any fear or concern of retribution or punishment from your Master or Dom. Both you and He will use this journal as a tool to monitor your growth within the lifestyle. CJ
I'm pleased to recommend http://My-diary.org as a good website for a sub's online entries, click on the link, or the picture to go there! Easy to use, fairly secure, and no, Asj doesn't make anything for referrals to this site... give them a visit, see what you think,,
your journal - Getting Started
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