A submissives journey


Chapter 1
The Asj Community

Chapter 2
Resource Information 



Chapter 3
Subbie's Couch


Chapter 4
The Dom's Lounge

Chapter 5

 The Library




Chapter 6



Chapter 7

 Useful Links




Chapter 8
Members share their thoughts



Chapter 9

 Members Only




Chapter 10
Asj's Site Index



Chapter 11
Asj's Online Store




Chapter 12
Recommended Reading List










The word Mentor comes from Homer (an ancient storyteller also author of the classic book "The Odyssey" and "The Iliad"). Mentor was the man whom Odysseus trusted with his household while he went off for ten years to fight the Trojan war.  A "Mentor" is someone you trust.


About your Mentor




1) Infallible...we are human

2) a Teacher or Guardian...we can only advise

3) Your Master, we can not tell you not to communicate or not to do something. Only you can decide.

4) Reference checker, only you should do that, only you know what you risk. We can show you how, but after that it is up to you.

5) Responsible for you...only you are responsible for your safety and decisions, once you have a Master then they become responsible as well, but you are your first guardian.





1) A listening ear, and a shoulder

2) Someone who can show you how to research, and learn safely. They can point out pitfalls but you will always find your own.

3) A caring friend.

4) Someone with their own experience who is willing to share that with you...not control or direct you by it.

5) Someone who can introduce you to a strange new world for you to explore...but who can not explore it for you.


Most of all a Mentor is there when you make those first steps with a new Dom, or new steps with an old one...ready to listen...and watch you take wing.






The meaning of submission             sub/slaves registry

A submissives creed                     submissives Do's and Don'ts

Responsibilities of a submissive     Finding your Dominant  

Questions for your Dominant        Safety in the lifestyle  

A submissives journal




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