Submissive Do's and Don'ts
While this page is primarily
intended for guiding a
submissive
or a
slave
in their "online conduct" or "behavior", you'll
find quite a few of these things can actually
carry over into real life.
Whether you
are a
slave
or a
submissive,
you'll always be expected to show courtesy and
respect to anyone that you encounter online,
especially if you find yourself in the company
of, or talking to a
Dominant.
Remember, if you embarrass yourself, you also
embarrass your
Dominant.
The quickest way to find a novice
submissive
is to watch for the lack of respect she shows
to a
Dominant
in a
chat room.
A
submissive
or
slave
may not like a Dominant she comes across while
she's chatting, but that is still no reason
not to be courteous and respectful. And yes,
it goes without saying, as a
submissive
or
slave
you are also due appropriate respect from
anyone else you come across, including
Dominants.
First things
first, remember anytime you are online you
have a couple of inherent capabilities,
regardless of how submissive you are, you and
you alone always have control of your "off
switch, ignore button, and delete keys" on
your computer. Don't ever forget this! Keep in
mind the rule that for every 100 so called
Dom's you find online, if you're lucky,
perhaps one or two of them will turn out to be
a real Dominant or Master. With that in mind,
understand there are idiots and wannabe's out
there. A
submissive
or
slave
is under no obligation or commitment to honor
the instructions, discipline or domination of
anyone except her
Dominant.
As you
wander around the internet, you'll find there
are many chat rooms or communities that will
insist a submissive or especially a slave,
seek permission to enter the
chat room
before she begins to chat. Often these rooms
will expect the
submissive
slave
to state their "asl" (age, sex and location)
followed by a request to enter the room. While
personally, I disagree with this practice of
having to ask for permission to enter a room,
it is a policy of those rooms and should be
respected. Other
chat rooms
such as those found here on the Asj's web site
will welcome you with open arms as you enter
the chat room. Unless you've been to a
Dominant
submissive chat room
before, or someone has recommended you to the
room and told you of the policy there, it's
almost impossible to know in advance and
you'll have to play it by ear.
Once inside
of a dominant submissive chat room, the
keywords to remember are "respect" and
"courtesy". If you show respect and courtesy,
you'll soon find you get respect and courtesy
in return. Don't forget to greet all members
in the room, not just the Dominants! It's very
appropriate to say hello to the individuals
there that you already know, but it is equally
appropriate to say hello to those that you
don't know. If it's observed that you only
greet the Dominants in a room, you may soon
find yourself developing the reputation as a
bit of a troll.
Did you know, the Asj Community hosts
'BDSM and Dominant submissive (D/s) Lifestyle Classes and Discussions' here online
several times each week. The Classes and Discussions are open to all
and Free to attend.
Visit
our Members Only Pages for more information, or click any
of our Member/Visitor Support icons to ask for more information.
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Revised: September 10, 2019