A submissives journey

 

Chapter 1
The Asj Community


Chapter 2
Resource Information 

 

 

Chapter 3
The Subbie's Couch

 

Chapter 4
The Dom's Lounge


Chapter 5

 The Library

 

 

 

Chapter 6
BDSM

 

 

 

Chapter 7

 Useful Links

 

 

 

Chapter 8
Members share their thoughts

 

 

Chapter 9

 Members Only

 

 

 

Chapter 10
Asj's Site Index

 

 

 

Chapter 11
Asj's 

Online Store

 

 

 

Chapter 12
Recommended Reading List

 

Chapter 13
Asj submissive slave register

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 



 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

BDSM HOW TO: 

Plan A School Girl Scene

 

Like all BDSM scenes, a schoolgirl (or boy) scene can be approached in a variety of ways.  Imagination combined with desired results are the keys to follow. Look to your own past for inspiration.  Most of us at one time or another have had a teacher of our own that we can emulate.  And some of us have experienced the consequences of disobeying those teachers.  Take the memories and bring them into your scene in a positive way!

Visuals are an important aspect of this type of scene.  Don the classic tweed jacket, tie and/or trousers or skirt. (speaks Old English) or corduroy, if you don't have tweed.  Visit thrift shops for the best finds and affordability and remember "best fit" isn't essential here.  In fact you could purposely weaken the seams so they strategically "burst" during a moment of feigned teacherly indignation. Excellent for the intimidation factor.  For women, the classic tweed skirt can be tight and will work to your advantage of presenting a teasing exposure of thigh.  Also, a stiff collared suit and your hair pinned into a bun will work well. If you envision yourself the Headmaster, an old morning coat is perfect - include a crisp white shirt and tie.

  And don't forget about appropriate submissive attire.  For the male sub, dark shorts, dark loafers and socks and white shirt with bow tie will work nicely. For the female sub, any short skirt and pretty blouse, knee high socks and loafers

Any kind of business desk can work as a teacher's desk.  Be sure to clear the surface, leaving only items that would be realistically found in a classroom. The student's desk should be nice and low and a little too small for them.  One can get old fashioned student desks at flea markets, secondhand stores or simply posting to your favorite newsgroup/mailing list, and asking.  You can also use an uncomfortable old fashioned wood chair and a wood t.v. table.  Set all of the furniture in the classic schoolroom setting, teacher at the head of the room, all students facing her.

Remember, a lot of the needed props are 'catch as catch can'.  View everything as a potential pervert-able. For example, a substitute for the blackboard would be a sheet of flipchart paper taped to the wall. Any of the books around the house will fill in nicely as a textbook.  And your own hand in this instance can be a prop as well.  Remember the classic - being grabbed by the ear lobe and dragged to the front of the class?

The school scene is often about punishment - not necessarily age play.  One must gather a reason for administering said  punishment however.  Has the student been sent to the principal for an offense?  Or are they committing the offense during the course of the scene?  Do you want to incorporate humiliation, shame or simply some good old fashioned pain play?  The choice is up to you. 

Just remember to play safe and have fun!

 

 

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