A submissives journey
Why Am I a Master?
Why am I a master? Why do I want to own someone? What is it that makes me want to control her entire life, dictating rules, overseeing and approving her every action?
here's the secret: most men want to dominate, to master, because
they are insecure. They want to control their environment.
They want to control anything and everything that
affects their lives. They want to be sure that what they have
today they will also have tomorrow.
Wait a minute you say, isn't it about sex? Don't men want to have a willing woman available any time, day or night?
Sure, any man who denies it is lying, but there's more to it. Yes he does want to find you there whenever he rolls over in bed in the middle of the night, but he also wants to know you will be there tomorrow, and the next day, and the next.
wants you to be the friend who's always there, the one he
can share his secrets with, the one he can trust. Yes, trust;
surprised? You hear so much about how a good submissive
builds trust in her master, but you don't think about
the rest of it. He has to trust you as well, trust that you
will keep his secrets, trust that you will be there for him,
trust that you won't walk out or turn on him.
control, to make sure everything is done his way. Who can best answer that need? Someone who loves him, is devoted to him, wants to serve him, take care of him, but also someone who will obey him, defer to his judgment, be it right or wrong, someone who can allow herself to become dependent on him. What type of woman would best be suited to a role like that?
The answer is obvious: a deeply submissive woman. You choose to submit to your master. Why you choose to submit is another topic, but you submit knowing that it means you accept his unrestricted authority over your lives. Is it what he really wants? Yes, and don't ever doubt it. Your submission is like a powerful narcotic drug to him.
more he gets from you, the more he wants. It draws him
to you, an attraction more powerful than you can imagine.
See the distinction? That's why your master isn't some kind of abusive monster. He doesn't need to prove he's in charge by issuing a constant stream of orders and rules, to put you through some degrading or humiliating scene.
Rather he sees, from how you obey him, that his power over you is there anytime he wants it.
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