A submissives journey, Site Map
index to postings and pages
They're long overdue, but changes to this page are coming! In total, there are over 500 pages on the Asj website, with more being added at least weekly. Since the inception of this website, the list of articles and pages has grown and continues to grow. The subjects relating to the Dominant/submissive (D/s) lifestyle are numerous, far more than can be listed here. This page has become rather cumbersome and difficult to use. I'm working on a change to the format of this page. I hope the changes you'll see will resolve some of these issues, including the length of time it takes to load this page, especially for our telephone modem users.
I'm still working trying to develop a better search tool for use on this website, however, in the interim until I find a better one, I've found this to be fairly useful.. Simply enter a keyword or phrase, the applet then searches all of the pages within "A submissives journey" to find pages with the word(s) matching your entries. The titles of those pages are then listed in the lower box. Double clicking on any of these page titles will take you to to that page. Clicking "back" on your browser will bring you back to the search tool to continue your search. I hope you find this search tool helpful. If you haven't guessed, there are a lot of pages here on the site, not listed on this page that can only be accessed from other pages on the site.
For those of you of Gorean influence, I invite you visit our Gorean site http://www.iamgor.com
[ These pages are generally pages or links about the Asj site, or to other Asj communities and sites.]
Asj's Home Page Asj's subbies couch
Asj's Site Map Asj's Dom's Lounge
About the Asj Web Site Asj's Feedback (tell us what you think)
Our Sponsor's Page Asj's Web Links
Asj's Message Board Topics Asj's Community Awards
What's new on Asj? Suggested Reading
Asj Members Only area Asj Lifestyle Book Reviews
Asj's Online Chat room Gor ~ The Gor Lifestyle
With the vast amount of information available on
this subject, contains its' own index. Visit our
Gorean site, http://www.iamgor.com
There are so many things to read, so many resources available to you. Don't limit yourself to just the articles in this section, be sure to look at the articles listed in the section "for those in the lifestyle" at the lower portion of this page. As your time permits, you'll find there are a great many resources available to you on this website as well as others. As you visit these pages, you'll find additional links to other pages here on the site.
CJ
The Acid Test ~ Finding a Real Dominant vs. a Wannabe..
Bottom Topping, or Topping from the Bottom
Advice for the submissive (A must read if you are new online!)
A submissives creed (transcript of from chat log)
Accepting Collars to soon, A true story about
Breast Cancer Self Exam - from our chat room message board
Dealing with your Anger as a submissive
The Distinct Phases of Stripping Away to Total Submission
Domestic Violence in the SM Community (BDSM D/s)
Domestic Violence Support Telephone Numbers
Dominance and submission ~ A Power Exchange Relationship
The First Meeting (From virtual to real time)
Have you asked your Dominant,, ?
How to:
Kneeling...a few tips from the girls
Responsibilities of a submissive
Safe Calls, More on the subject
Safe Surfing - a story for children, yes, even those children over 21
Safewords - To Red or Not to Red
Safeword - What is, and how to use one
Some thoughts for those seeking to know their submission
A submissive Dealing with a Dominant's Anger
Temporary Consensual Agreement
Ten Things femsubs do to Mess Up Their Lives
Things to know about approaching a Dominant
Was That Dominant Or Was That Rude?
Asj's Recommended journal website
Advice for the Novice Dominant
Available submissive/slave register listing
Brat Out of Control (or How to Spank a Brat)
Condoms and Sexually Transmitted Diseases
Dominant by Day, submissive by Night
Dominant Types and their sub Counterparts
Ignoring as a Form of Punishment
How to
Guide to Steel Bondage (handcuffs)
Introduction to Erotic Flogging
A Masters Feast - Formal D/s Banquet
Projects, structure and protocol: three mechanisms for 24/7 d/s
Punishment and Conflict within a D/s Relationship
Punishment: Is It Part of the Package?
Qualities of a successful Dominant
Register as a Dom in Asj's Registry
When A Submissive Is No Longer Able To Serve
A submissive is not a slave ~ more on the discussion on the differences between the two.
Anger ~ (Extracts from a girls journal)
An Essay About the Old Days (Jay Wiseman)
Asj's Recommended Reading List
Beginners Guide To Dominance and submission
Birth Control Methods, the effectiveness of
BDSM and Feminism: An Insider's View
BDSM, a how to
BDSM Checklist for submissives
BDSM Checklist, how to use (transcript of chat log)
BDSM How To: Interrogation Scene
BDSM How To: Plan a Schoolgirl Scene
Domestic violence in the BDSM community
Ethics in Bondage, Discipline and Sado-Masochism
How to explain BDSM to a Vanilla partner or friend
Strict versus Sensual - Self Bondage
Techniques of Striking Sensation (vol 1- Under the Lash)
Techniques of Striking Sensation (vol 2 - Single Tails ~ whips)
The Medical Realities of Breath Control Play (Jay Wiseman)
The Stages of Release ~ Ending a D/s / BDSM Relationship
BDSM Relationships: Dominance and submission
Building a portable massage table
Christianity, Religion and the BDSM & D/s Lifestyle
Defining Absolute and Total Power Exchange
Defining Abuse in Absolute and Total Power Exchange
Defining Dominance and submission ~ types of relationships
Discussion of Dominance and submission
Does D/s interfere with communication?
Domestic Abuse/Violence Help Resources
Dominance and submission: A Dom's Point of View
Exploring the Phenomenon of Strong Female Submissives
From virtual to real time, the first meeting
How to enhance the Dominant or submissive traits of a vanilla partner
How (Some) Poly People Meet Each Other
How to use medical information on the internet
Humiliation - things considered as humiliating
Ideas About Home Made Toys (Adult Toys)
Introducing your Partner to D/s
Is everyone either a top or a bottom?
What's a switch?Is What I See On The Net Real?
The kids - Daddy, what are you doing to mommy?
Jealousy in a Poly D/s Relationship
Living D/s with children in the home
Living the Lifestyle within Reality: Part 1
Lubricant's - A Beginners Guide to
A Modern Application of Old Guard Philosophy
Orgasm Control/Release Training
Orgasm Denial - Erotic Sexual Denial
Polyamory - Asj's Community Message Board, a thread on the subject of Polyamory
Reducing the Risks of Meeting an Online Acquaintance
Religion, the Bible and the Dominant submissive (D/s) Lifestyle
Resource Listing - r/t BDSM activities & organizations USA wide
Service-Oriented Collar (Relationship)
The Seven Common Types of Internet Submissives
slave vs. submissive, an opinion
Submissive vs. Slave ~ Why are we still debating?
The Pleasure of Pain - Why some people need S&M
(by Master Aegean)What is a D/s relationship? (by Rover)
What is and what makes a D/s relationship?
What is your Ideal Body Weight
Writings, D/s and BDSM
Submissive Really Does Not Mean
[ This section has yet to be published, hopefully at some point in the near future it will be opened. ~ updated July 2, 2004]
This section is dedicated to our members, sharing their own personal thoughts and ideas on the discussion topics and references shown here on A submissives journey. Like anything else in this lifestyle, we are all entitled to our opinions and views. These thoughts do not necessarily represent the views of CJ or this community.
~ littledove shares her thoughts
~ anonymous - Spanking - the First Time
These stories are erotic in nature. It is important to remember, these are for the most part fantasies! Understand they are here for your enjoyment and pleasure. There presence here does not indicate the content is condoned or endorsed by the Asj community. As always, remember, safe, sane and consensual.
Additional erotic stores can be found here
Writings and Prose
Important Links:
Each of these sites offers valuable information, advice or references. They are not affiliated with the Asj website or communities, however, at least from My experience, they're worth at least visiting!
Sexual Freedom Legal Defense and Education Fund, Inc.
Association of Sites Advocating Child Protection
Connect Safely ~ Smart Socializing Forum
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