A submissives journey

 

Chapter 1
The Asj Community


Chapter 2
Resource Information 

 

 

Chapter 3
The Subbie's Couch

 

Chapter 4
The Dom's Lounge


Chapter 5

 The Library

 

 

 

Chapter 6
BDSM

 

 

 

Chapter 7

 Useful Links

 

 

 

Chapter 8
Members share their thoughts

 

 

Chapter 9

 Members Only

 

 

 

Chapter 10
Asj's Site Index

 

 

 

Chapter 11
Asj's 

Book Store

 

 

 

Chapter 12
Recommended Reading List

 

 

 

Chapter 13
Asj submissive slave register

 

 



 

 

 

 

 

 

 


 

 

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The Emblem Project

 

 

EDITORS NOTE:  Currently there is quite a bit of controversy raging over the internet regarding who created, owns or thought of the "BDSM emblem" as a symbol.  Since I for one just "really don't know", far be it from Me to say otherwise.  I think the intent of this page and having it posted here on the Asj site is not so much to explain the symbol or graphic, but rather to try to provide a better understanding of just what BDSM is, and what it's about.  Whether the description of the purpose of the emblem is valid or not, I do believe the content makes for an interesting description of the lifestyle itself.  After reading this page, I invite you to visit http://www.asubmissivesjourney.com/bdsm_controversy.html

 

                                                                  CJ

 

The Emblem Project

 

The  BDSM  emblem  has  no  "obvious"  symbolism  because  it  was created to be enigmatic.  The vanilla observer who would be put  off by BDSM, it is merely an attractive piece of jewelry.  Thus, we can  wear it freely as a friendly salute, nod and wink to other BDSM'ers we  should happen to pass on the sidewalks  and  in  the  hallways  of our  daily lives.  To the insider, however,  the  emblem  is  full  of  meaning. 

 

The three divisions represent the various  threesomes of BDSM.  First  of  all  the  three  divisions  of  BDSM  itself,   B&D,  D&s,  and  S&M.   Secondly,  the three way creed of BDSM  behavior.   Safe, Sane and  Consensual.   Thirdly  the  three  divisions  of  our  community.   Tops,  Bottoms and Switches. 

 

 It is this third symbolism  that gives  meaning to the holes in each unit.   Since BDSM is at the very  least a play style and  at its greatest a love  style, the holes represent the incompleteness  of  any  individual within  the BDSM context.  However, "together" and  "whole"  individuals may  be,  there  remains  a  void  within  them that can  only  be  filled  by  a

 complimentary other.  BDSM can not be done alone.

 

 The resemblance  to a  three-way  variation on the Yin-Yang symbol is  not  accidental.   As the curved outline  of Yin  and  Yang represent the  hazy  border between where one ends and the other begins, so do the  curved borders here  represent  the indistinct  divisions between B&D, D&S and S&M.

 

 The metal and metallic color of the medallion represents the chains or  irons of BDSM servitude/ownership.  The three inner fields are black,  representing a celebration of the controlled dark side of BDSM  sexuality.

 

 The curved lines themselves can be seen as a stylized depiction of a  lash as it swings, or even an arm in motion to deliver an erotic  spanking.  The all embracing circle, of course, represent the overlying  unity of it all and the oneness of a community that protects its own. 

All text and images copyright 1995, 1997 - 2002 Quagmyr@aol.com unless otherwise noted

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Notes on Display of the BDSM Emblem

The BDSM emblem has really caught on--at least as far as online display is concerned--since it was first conceived in a chat area by one group of BDSMers and designed by Yours Truly.

It's since been pointed out to me that my description of its symbolism is not
complete enough to make for clear guidelines for online display. For that
I apologize. And thus these brief notes.

Please note that I am not trying to impose my design sense on anyone.
I see no reason why folks shouldn't play with the form in various ways
to best serve the design of their web pages. I do wish to assure, however,
that when people choose to diverge from the "standard" representation it
is by conscious choice and with specific design intent, and not by error.

Keeping that in mind, here are the three aspects that are most often
overlooked in representing the emblem.

  1. The rim and three curved "spokes" of the design are meant to be
    presented in some metallic color. On the original pins and pendants
    this area is raised. This color (it may look like iron, gold, silver,
    copper, bronze, anything metallic) is indicative of the "chains" or
    "irons" of BDSM servitude/ownership.

  2. The three inner fields are black, representing a celebration of the
    controlled "dark side" of BDSM sexuality.

  3. The three "dots" are not dots but holes. The background of the
    page should be visible though them. These holes, as described in
    the original explanation of the symbol, denote the incompleteness
    of any individual practitioner in that BDSM is at the least a play style
    and at most a love style, and cannot be practiced alone. There is
    always the need
    for a complimentary other.

  4. The arms curve clockwise. There is no reason for this other than
    the fact that this is how I envisioned it when I was first designing it.
    But it's been set, so one clockwise is correct and counterclockwise 
    is backwards.

No doubt other questions will pop up now that I've spelled these points
out. I'll answer those as they arise.

Best,

Quagmyr

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