Reading
can be one of your best sources for information about the Dominant -
submissive (D/s) and BDSM lifestyle. lifestyle.
Generally, if an author has gone to the trouble of getting
him/herself
published, they are a fairly reliable source of information.
When reading books, remember, some books are factual while others are
erotic works of fiction! As with anything with the D/s
lifestyle, consider; safe, sane and consensual and what is right for
them, may not be right for you. Many of the books listed below
are considered "adult" reading material.
I've
found these books to be valuable resources to learn and highly
recommended
by many. Yes, I've shown a link here for amazon.com, but
again, only because they kick a few cents back to Asj on the sale of
a new book thru them. No, you don't have to buy thru this site or
any other,
always shop for your best value, but I've found them to be reliable,
discrete and fairly priced.
Spend
a few minutes, browse thru some of the reviews on these
books
here and by clicking on the book icon or title. You just might find one
that interests
you.
Sensual, Sexuality
Kim Cattrall Sexual Intelligence Specifically, all this lush
intelligence directs itself towards education about why we want what
we want. After pouring over the five lovely chapters (Desire,
Messaging, Arousal, Fantasy, and Release), you still might not have
a definite answer, but the final pleasure far outweighs the
impression of flightiness. Straightforward explanations of anatomy
(a definite step up from school health class) intermingle with tales
of ancient gods and goddesses that liven up facts, while the layer
of glamour over all wraps the package in a big fluffy bow. Shots of
classic paintings mix equally with shots of Kim, each providing eye
candy that is tailored to please.
Blow Him Away : How to Give Him Mind-Blowing Oral Sex It’s
nothing to be ashamed of. When it comes to performing oral sex, most
people fall somewhere between fumbling and clueless. But now, in
Blow Him Away you’ll find practical, easy-to-master techniques that
will give you the confidence and skills you need to become an expert
in the delicate art of fellatio.
How
to Give Her Absolute Pleasure:Totally Explicit Techniques Every
Woman Wants Her Man to Know What, and where, is the G-spot?
Where do women like to be touched, and how? For every man who's
hungry to please the woman he adores, a refreshingly modern,
tastefully explicit, and totally honest guide to giving your woman
absolute pleasure. Much of the book focuses on foreplay (Paget
comments that we need to rename it) designed to "excite both her
mind and her body." The author offers a variety of strategies for
romancing and relaxing a woman and making her feel comfortable. If
you don't, she claims, "nothing you can do can rev her engine". Then
she describes ways of "kissing her, touching her, and teasing her."
Paget includes "a topographical guide" of a woman's body, starting
with the sensual areas of the head and face and moving down.
The
Good Girl's Guide to Bad Girl Sex Barbara Keesling (How to
Make Love All Night; Super Sexual Orgasm) asserts that nearly every
"good" girl yearns to be "bad" and offers tips for unleashing the
bad girl within. Keesling, who worked for a sex therapist as a
surrogate partner for 10 years before becoming one herself, explores
the inhibitions that women have about sex, and explains how you can
dress, speak, walk, tease, use sex toys, give blow jobs and have
orgasms like the bad girl of your dreams.
The
Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus Many people enjoy giving and
receiving cunnilingus, but where do you turn when you want to learn
more about oral sex or ways to introduce it into a relationship? The
Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus is a resource for people who are
looking to expand their expertise or are simply curious. In her
clear, concise, and informative text, sex educator Violet Blue
provides step-by-step instructions for going down on a woman, as
well as accurate and up-to-date information on female anatomy and
response.
Five
Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made
Simple For women only -- Is Sex More Trouble Than It's
Worth? Are you too slow, excessively reliant on prolonged (even
painful) intercourse, oral sex or vibrators? Is your orgasm hit or
miss? Now with this bold but simple 3- step program, any woman can
achieve orgasm without difficulty during sex. Impossible? Not if you
follow the quick and easy formula you will learn in this book.
Bedside
Kama Sutra a fresh and easy-to-use guide based on the most
renowned ancient text on sexual pleasures and techniques. Combining
stunning erotic photography with classic erotic art from the East,
this sensual compendium covers 23 sexual positions designed to
educate, excite, and entertain.
The
Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know
Master of Taoist sexuality Mantak Chia and writer Douglas Abrams
Arava demystify Sexual Kung Fu, a Chinese tradition developed over
thousands of years whereby men realize their immense sexual
potential by following specific physical and psychological
techniques to experience multiple and whole body orgasms, to more
deeply satisfy and pleasure their partners, and to cultivate their
sexual strength for improved health and creativity.
The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio With wit, expertise, and an
enthusiastic approach, the author of The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio
dispels myths and delivers concise information on going down on a
man. Featuring a complete resource guide to books, videos,
illustrations, and websites depicting fellatio, every tip, trick,
and technique for giving skilled and unforgettable fellatio is
provided.
The Guide to Getting It On! (The Universe's Coolest and Most
Informative Book About Sex) The award-winning Guide To
Getting It On! is the most comprehensive how-to book on sex that is
currently available. It is used as required reading in sex ed
classes at more than 30 colleges and universities, and is said to
have been responsible for cracked plaster in bedroom ceilings all
across America. The Guide makes reading about sex almost as much fun
as doing it.
101
Nights of Grrreat Sex: Secret Sealed Seductions for Fun-Loving
Couples I LOVE THIS BOOK!!! I tell everyone and anyone about
it. Once a week, according to 101's instructions, each lover picks a
sealed page (with scenarios such as "Up Against the Wall," "Angel
with a Lariat," "Fire down Below," and "Point of No Return") and
tears it out of the book, keeping it a secret. Follow the scenario
and, throughout the week, expect any number of erotic surprises.
Complete Idiot's Guide to the Kama Sutra These guides
impressed me. It is one of the best, if not the best I've bought. It
delivered the goods on the Kama Sutra beautifully and then went
beyond talking about all matters having to do with sex and
relationship with wisdom, humor and exercises that for once, we did.
I highly recommend it if you want to learn about the Kama Sutra, but
even more if you want to learn about yourself and improve the
quality of your love life.
Kamasutra
by Mallanaga Vatsyayana The Kamasutra is the oldest extant
textbook of erotic love. But it is more than a book about sex. It is
about the art of living--about finding a partner, maintaining power
in a marriage, committing adultery, living as or with a courtesan,
using drugs--and also, of course, about the many and varied
positions available to lovers in sexual intercourse and the
pleasures to be derived from each.
The
New Sensual Massage : Learn to Give Pleasure With Your Hands
Perfect for newcomers to the art as well as for those who have
practiced it for years, the warm text and large numbers of sensual
photographs make the book exceptionally clear and easy to follow.
Stunning illustrations, precisely matched to actual massage photos,
show what happens inside the body to muscles, tendons, nerves and
circulation—as it’s being massaged.
203
Ways to Drive a Man Wild in Bed A frankly erotic, playfully
sexy, and intelligently written guide to a dazzling array of artful,
exotic, and commonsense techniques guaranteed to raise the
temperature of any relationship. The inviting layout, the numbered
tips, and the guidelines for safe sex make it easy and fun for
couples to embark upon an amorous adventure--whenever or wherever
the spirit moves them.
Extended
Massive Orgasm : How You Can Give and Receive Intense Sexual
Pleasure In this hands-on guide to getting it right,
behavioral scientists Steve and Vera Bodansky describe how to give
and receive remarkable orgasms, taking the experience of sex to a
new level of enjoyment. Focusing primarily on women but addressing
the needs of men as well, they cover anatomy in detail, address
inhibitions and fears, suggest useful exercises, recommend the best
positions, and most of all offer insightful advice for every
technique covered.
Kama
Sutra of Sexual Positions: The Tantric Art of Love Sensually
inspiring, is how I would describe this book. Obviously designed
with a holistic approach, with much inspiration and love . Unlike
some books it was real - I could see myself and my partner reflected
in the images -very beautiful. Our unique shapes, sizes, skin tones
and energies. It was very sexually affirming, and has even served to
help keep up my motivation to keep up my yoga and exercise routine
so I can recreate some of the more creatively challenging positions!
I can't wait!
101
Nights of Grrreat Romance : How to Make Love With Your Clothes On Wow. One hundred and one complete blueprints for a romantic
seduction scene. Once a week you and your beloved are supposed to
pick a scenario from the book; they're packaged so that they can't
be read until they're torn out and opened, so neither of you will
have a clue what the other has in store for you. (No cheating!)
Icons on the front pages of each plan let you know the approximate
cost, whether travel or food is involved, and whether it should be
chosen during a particular season. Have a grrreat time!
The
Illustrated Guide to Extended Massive Orgasm Written for men
and women, straight and gay, the book graphically, playfully, and
sensually discusses the best hand and body positions, the
enticements of teasing and begging, and the subtle intricacies of
peaking and coming down.
Going Down : The Instinct Guide to Oral Sex From the highly
sexed editors of the irreverent Instinct Magazine comes a
painstakingly thorough and hysterically illuminating guidebook to
perfecting the oft misunderstood art of a good blowjob.
