If you choose to participate in this
type of play, you are taking on the responsibilities for the potential risks
that could occur.
Have fun, but keep safety in mind at all
times.
Fire play isn't exactly something I'd
recommend for the novice, nor is it something that you should try for the first
time by yourself. Fire and burns go together. All over the world,
each year there are thousands of people injured or worse, to say nothing of
property damage caused by Fire that in one form or another has gotten out of
control. Have you ever burned yourself with a hot pan, or working at the
kitchen stove? Now you're going to consider playing with actual flames?
Enough said, if you're going to participate in this type of play, make sure you
do it safely.
Cupping and Fire Play by Leather Barbie
The most important thing to keep in mind with fire play is safety. Practice safe
handling of fire and start small. Be careful. Keep a fireproof blanket on hand.
Make sure your bottom is not chilled and does not have a condition that gives
him or her poor circulation to the skin. Keep in mind that you as the top are
taking responsibility for your bottom when doing fire play. If your bottom is
injured during play, it is your responsibility to take care of them. Play
responsibly.
Cupping
For those of you who saw the movie Dangerous Laisons, cupping is what the nuns
did to Michelle Pfeiffer at the end of the movie. It's a take off on a Medieval
method of blood letting—only without the blood. I take a small leather patch and
place it on the area of the body I want to cup. The buttocks, breasts and back
work especially well. I then take a small 100% cotton ball and dip it into some
rubbing alcohol, squeezing out the excess. I place the cotton ball on the
leather patch and light it. While the alcohol in the cotton ball is burning, I
bring a sturdy glass jar or cup, open end down, straight down over the flame so
that the flame goes up into the glass as I press the rim of the glass into the
skin. As the flame is snuffed out by the lack of oxygen, the air inside cools
and creates a vacuum. The suction from this vacuum pulls the skin into glass and
is actually strong enough to hold the glass into place even when the subject
stands. The larger the glass, the stronger the vacuum. You should be aware that,
while cupping is not extremely painful for your partner, it often causes
bruising. I think the bruises are quite pretty as they form in the exact shape
of the cup mouth. I have cups that are round, square, and rectangular and am on
the lookout for other interesting designs like a star shape.
Rubbing Alcohol
This is the standard rubbing alcohol found in drug stores that is 70% isopropyl
alcohol. This is the riskiest form of fire play and requires the most caution.
Two important safety points when doing fire play with rubbing alcohol: alcohol
flows down, fire burns up. I will repeat these points later. Start small. Take a
100% cotton swab, dip it in the rubbing alcohol and light it. Carefully and
lightly brush it across the skin on the underside of your wrist. This is what
the flame will feel like on your partner's skin. Now let your bottom repeat this
same procedure on themselves. If it feels okay to them, you may continue. If
it's too hot, stop—this type of fire play is not for them.
If you're ready to go on, proceed by painting alcohol on an area of the skin on
the subject's forearm with the q-tip. Watch for drips! Place your hand over the
uppermost part of the forearm where the alcohol starts. With the q-tip, light
the alcohol. Let it flash up only once, and then use your hand to snuff out the
fire by wiping your hand down over the flame. Practice this technique of
lighting small patches on different areas of the body before moving on to doing
larger regions. Keep a hand towel near by to wipe the excess alcohol from the
skin before reapplying. This helps you control the amount of alcohol on the skin
each time you light it. I keep my free hand between the flame and my bottom's
head at all times when lighting. It makes it easier to snuff out the flame if
necessary, and I'd rather burn my hand then my bottom's head. Please note that
repeatedly lighting the same spot will make the skin more sensitive to the
burning. Avoid doing this.
If you want to reduce the time it takes for the alcohol to completely burn, you
can dilute it with water. Adding water will reduce the alcohol content, and less
alcohol means there's less fuel to burn. The flame will go out much more
quickly. It's important to stay away from the face and head. And watch out for
the hair—it will burn! You can also apply the alcohol with small sponge brushes
found in hardware stores. Again, watch for drips. The alcohol will continue to
flow down the skin if too much is applied. These sponge brushes can hold a lot
of alcohol. Be especially aware if you are working on a area of the body with
crevices such as the breasts, buttocks or folds in skin. You don't want alcohol
getting into these areas and burning. It can cause injury. Keep in mind that
body hair will burn, too. I don't recommend using this type of fire play on the
genitals. Besides having lots of folds and crevices, the skin of the genitals
will readily absorb the alcohol and may burn more intensely than intended.
Also included in this type of fire play is the use of alcohol torches. I make my
own from wooden dowels with small amounts of 100% cotton tied on with 100%
cotton thread. Stay away from "cosmetic puffs." They are made from artificial
fibers that will melt and can cause burns. Dip the cotton of the torch in the
alcohol and then light it. You may then lightly and quickly brush the body with
the tip of the flame of the torch. Again, stay away from the face and head and
watch for burning body hair.
Flash Cotton
The third type of fire play—which I prefer to the alcohol—is flash cotton. You
can buy it in any magic store. It looks like cotton, but it's actually made of
nitrocellulose, which is the same material used in flash paper. The cotton will
be damp with water when you open the package and will need to be left out a
couple of days to dry. After it has dried, you can take the cotton and pull the
fibers into wispy threads or twist it into a fine cord. Pull it as thinly as
possible. If it's too thick, it will be too hot when it burns. Lay a wisp of the
cotton on top of your forearm and light it with a lighter. It will literary go
up in a flash. Again, try this with a small wisp on the forearm of your bottom.
If he or she is okay with the intensity, you may continue. If not, stop here.
You can lay out the thin cotton strands in intricate designs across your
subject's reclining body. Stay away for their face and don't wrap the cotton
under any part of the body. Remember: The flame will burn upwards, burning the
flesh above if you wrap it. Be ready to snuff out burning body hair with your
hand. Again, one of your hands should be poised between the cotton and the
bottom's head in case of an emergency. Use the flash cotton sparingly. It
doesn't take much to get the desired effect, and too much may burn your
partner.
I'll repeat myself, PLEASE USE CAUTION WHEN PLAYING
WITH FIRE. If you choose to do so, you are taking on the
responsibilities for the potential risks that could occur. Have fun, but keep
safety in mind at all times.
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