The Needs Of A Slave

By Author Unknown

The need for unconditional love and acceptance.

The need for certainty and permanence.

The need for discipline in every sense of the word.

The need to have the little and scared girl whom you are recognized and accepted and loved for herself.

The need for containment and clear boundaries of behavior.

The need for consistent and logical consequences for behavior.

The need to feel open and unembarrassed gratitude.

The need for careful guidance.

The need to know that you are not in control and cannot successfully manipulate your owner.

The need to serve your owner.

The need for your owner to appreciate and to support your enthusiasms wherever he thinks that they should be supported.

The need to know that your service pleases your owner emotionally and practically and sexually.

The need to know that you are neither required nor permitted to try to dominate yourself and that your owner will provide the force to take you and to own you.

The need to be certain that your owner will not withdraw from you emotionally.

The need to be completely opened up and naked before your owner and to know that you will never be permitted to hide.

The need to be certain that your owner does not lie to you and does not hide from you.

The need to be tiny and safe at your owner's feet.

The need to feel overwhelmed by your owner.

The need to know that your owner does not fear you in any way and that he does not edit his requirements of you so as to be limited to only those things that you already want to do.

The need to know that your owner will make you face the hard things and not let you run away from them but that he will handle the things that you simply cannot.

The need to be stroked and reassured and praised but never in a pandering way.

The need to be as sure of your owner's benevolence as you are of his ownership of you.

The need to know with certainty that your owner takes great joy and derives enormous satisfaction from owning you and using you.

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