Dominant
submissive LIFESTYLE
Contract
"A" For Male Dom
Dominant
submissive Relationship Contract
I,
________________________, with a free mind and an open
heart; do request of _______________________ that He
accept the submission of my will unto His and to take me
into His care and guidance, that W/we may grow together
in love, trust and mutual respect. The satisfaction of
His wants, desires, and whims are consistent with my
desire as a submissive to be found pleasing to Him. To
that end, I offer Him use of my time, talents, and
abilities. Further, I ask, in sincere humility, that, as
my Master, He accept the keeping of my body for the
fulfillment and enhancement of O/our sexual, spiritual,
emotional, and intellectual needs. To achieve this, He
may have unfettered use of my body any time, any place,
in front of anyone; to keep or to give away, as He will
determine.
I
ask that He guide me in any sexual, sensual, or
scene-related behavior, both together with, and separate
from Him, in such a way as to further my growth as a
person.
I
request of _______________________, as my Master, that
he use the power vested in His role; to mold and shape
me; assisting me to grow in strength, character,
confidence, and being, and that He continue to help me
to develop my artistic and intellectual abilities.
In
return, I agree:
To
obey His commands to the best of my ability.
To
strive to overcome feelings of guilt or shame, and all
inhibitions that interfere with my capability to serve
Him and limit my growth as His submissive.
To
maintain honest and open communication.
To
reveal my thoughts, feelings, and desires without
hesitation or embarrassment.
To
inform Him of wants and perceived needs, recognizing
that He is the sole judge of whether or how these shall
be satisfied.
To
strive toward maintenance of a positive self-image and
development of realistic expectations and goals.
To
work with Him to become a happy and self-fulfilled
individual.
To
work against negative aspects of my ego and my
insecurities that would interfere with advancement of
these aims.
My
surrender as a submissive is done with the knowledge
that nothing asked of me will demean me as a person, and
will in no way diminish my own responsibilities toward
making utmost use of my potential. In recognition of my
family obligations, nothing will be required of me that
will in any way damage or harm my children, nor
interfere with the performance of my duties as mother
and as wife.
This
I, _______________________, do entreat, with lucidity
and the realization of what this means, both stated and
implied, in the conviction that this offer will be
understood in the spirit of faith, caring, esteem and
devotion in which it is given.
Should either of U/us find that our aspirations are not
being well served by this agreement, find this
commitment too burdensome, or for any other reason wish
to cancel, E/either may do so by verbal notification to
the O/other, in keeping with the consensual nature of
this agreement. W/we both understand that cancellation
means a cessation of the control stated and implied
within this agreement, not a termination of O/our
relationship as friends and lovers. Upon cancellation,
each of U/us agrees to offer to the other H/his or her
reasons and to assess our new needs and situation openly
and lovingly.
This
agreement shall serve as the basis for an extension of
O/our relationship, committed to in the spirit of loving
and consensual dominance and submission with the
intention of furthering self-awareness and exploration,
promoting health and happiness, and improving both O/our
lives.
I
offer my consent to submission to
______________________________ under the terms stated
above on this the ________ day of _____________ in the
year ________.
____________________________ Signature of Submissive
I
offer my acceptance of submission by
______________________________ under the terms stated
above on this the ________ day of ______________ in the
year ________.
____________________________ Signature of Dominant
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