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O/our Thoughts on a Collar
His thoughts
What does the Collar mean?
Collar means Commitment. Commitment of Master and slave to O/one
A/another, to the relationship. Commitment to a lifestyle and a way of
thinking and living. Not just when its convenient, but living and
breathing it - heart and soul.
Collar means Obligation. Obligation to the responsibilities of being a
Master or a slave. Obligation to the life that was placed in My hands,
and the obligation of the slave to fulfill her promise to please and
obey.
Collar means Love. Love deeper and more rich than ever imagined. Love
founded on trust, respect, honesty, sincerity, and devotion. Love for
E/each O/other and love for the relationship being built.
Collar means Labor. Labor of love. For neither partners are the roles
easy. It take work to the relationship to bloom. It's rarely easy, but
the things worth having rarely are.
Collar means Always. Always throughout each day. Always till the end of
time. The collar is not meant to be removed. Not meant to be worn only
when fashionable.
Collar means Respect. Respect for each other. Respect for the lifestyle
and the relationship. The slave must always respect and obey the wishes
of her Master, and the Master must respect the feelings and needs of the
one He has claimed, and be certain to consider those in the decisions He
makes, and the actions He takes.
her thoughts
To me a collar is much like a wedding ring in a vanilla relationship.
The collar symbolizes that a slave/submissive is owned, that she has a
Master. The collar binding the couple together as
Master and slave.
Accepting my Master's collar was not a decision that i entered into
lightly. In fact when he first claimed me as His submissive, i did not
take His collar.
We both wanted to be sure that taking that step was right for U/us both.
For six months W/we spent much of O/our time together, learning about
each other. i explored Him as much as He explored me, on many different
levels. Then the time came that He wished to give me His collar. my
Master and i met in the rooms of yahoo. So O/our relationship is now and
will always be a long distance relationship.
But when He collared me, He gave me a special gift. As i was only
expecting to wear His collar vt. But He sent me His collar so that i may
wear it rt. W/we had a private ceremony just the two of U/us. As i told Him the day of the collaring, i
was His heart, mind, body, and soul, before He placed His collar around
my neck. *smiles* i told Him that He collared my heart from day one.
But especially since O/our relationship is long distance, the collar
just helps me to feel Him more. Now my collar will not look like a
collar to anyone but me. Because it's not the normal collar, it's a
silver chain. He chose this as my collar, because He wanted it to be
something that i could wear no matter where i was or what i was doing.
By me wearing His collar it's a symbol of my love and devotion to Him.
It's a symbol of His ownership of me as well as His love and pride of
me. It shows the love, devotion and trust W/we both place into O/our
relationship.
Although it is a long distance relationship, there is no doubt that i'm
His slave, and He is my Master. He has been here for me, guided me,
nurtured me, loved me more then any other person in my life. He's the
one person that i can tell my secrets to and not fear being abandoned.
He as helped me grow from His submissive to His slave. He has made me
into a better woman.
A Dominant submissive (D/s) relationship goes deeper then a marriage ever could. He is so much
more demanding to know every part of me. It's a deeper love, deeper
commitment of the heart, soul, and mind. His collar stands for unity,
making each of us more then we could ever be alone. He needs me as much
as i need Him. Together O/our love completes each other, making U/us
one.
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