When a Dominant Submissive Relationship Ends
The relationship between a submissive
and dominant or a Master and slave is like all other
relationships. Any relationship can fail and in this case it
could do so because of a variety of reasons. The couple could
have drifted apart or either one of the partners could have met
and fallen
Since most slaves or
submissives
still work outside the home, the dominant needs to make sure
that the submissive's needs for housing are met. He or she could
help the submissive find an apartment and help with the first
month's deposit if the submissive had to give money towards the
deposit for the place where the couple now lives. The dominant
is also responsible for assisting the submissive with the move
into the new apartment and to make sure that he or she is
settled safely. Furniture and assets that the submissive bought
should be returned to the submissive even if the submissive
signed over the assets when the relationship started, especially
if it is necessary items like a bed or kitchen goods.
The dominant also has the responsibility to ensure that the
submissive leaves the relationship with as little emotional
scars as possible. Even when the submissive is the cause for the
break up, the couple should still go through the discipline
process and the dominant should make sure that the submissive
understands why this is happening and what to do to prevent this
from happening again in the future. The dominant would do well
to remain the mentor of the submissive in order to avoid the
dangers of a submissive on the rebound falling for someone who
will definitely only hurt him or her. As mentor this includes
vetting other dominants to ensure her or his safety with the new
dominant.
When the submissive released is a
slave that has moved into the dominant's home and has given up
his or her job to serve 24/7, the Master or Mistress has even
more responsibility towards this slave. The slave must either be
handed to another Master or Mistress who has agreed to take them
on, or the current dominant must help the slave find
employment, housing and make sure that the slave is safe. When a
slave is given to another there must be consent on the slave's
part for this since consent is not transferable. The slave must
be given protection since this type of submissive has such a
great need for control and service, that these are the people
who could actually walk into a disastrous situation.
Submissives and slaves sometimes move
out of their own property and sell it before moving in with a
new dominant. The proceeds of the sale should be kept in a
separate account that will be available to the submissive or
slave should the relationship fail. The other solution is to
rent out the apartment as is and keep the income from that in a
separate account for the submissive or slave as well if the
mortgage has been paid off. All income that is as a result of a
mortgage being paid off should also go to the submissive in case
of a break up.
Release must never happen without the ritual of letting go
during which a submissive or slave kneels and gives up the
collar willingly. All the emotions that have driven the
relationship to this point must be shared and talked about at
this point. Dominants, be kind to the submissive, even if it is
a transgression that has caused this to happen. Be patient and
teach instead of judging. Submissives, respect the decision of
the dominant. You gave this man or woman the control and need to
accept this decision as part of their responsibility to ensure
that steps are taken to ensure that the best interests of both
parties are taken into account.
I know that quite a few dominants have started savings accounts
for their submissive or slave that they deposit fixed amounts
into every month. This money is there for the submissive should
the dominant decide to release the submissive or should the
dominant pass away. Life insurance with the slave or submissive
as recipient should something happen to the dominant is also not
uncommon.
In the case of a marriage breaking up
as well, the law in
I know that these contracts aren't legally binding, but an
employee contract can include provisions for termination of
employment and these will be legally binding. Submissives should
all insist on signing contracts like these in order to protect
themselves. We all like to think that this is the one, but you
never know what will happen.