Section 1: Disclaimer
This document contains sexually explicit information for the
benefit of adults. It is provided for informational purposes
only. The authors are not responsible for any injuries or
damages associated with the techniques described in this
document, and do not guarantee the accuracy of this document.
Section 2: Assumptions
It is assumed throughout this document that the "whip" under
consideration is a multi-tailed cat. The use of single-tailed
whips requires advanced study, and is beyond the scope of this
document.
It is assumed that the area one will primarily be flogging is
the back. Intense flogging of other parts of the body can
involve additional safety concerns and training, and is beyond
the scope of this document.
It is also assumed that you have some familiarity with the
theory and practice of modern
BDSM. If you have no clue WHY a
person would wish to be flogged, are not sure if
BDSM is abuse, or
are not aware that BDSM should be consensual, we suggest you
examine a book such as Sensuous Magic by Pat Califia.
Such a discussion is beyond the scope of this document.
Section 3: General Safety
Areas of the body such as joints, or places where internal
organs are not protected by bones, should never be struck with
anything harder than a caressing, brushing stroke. Also, avoid
heavily striking areas over bones that aren't protected by
layers of tissue, such as the collarbone and the anklebones.
Don't strike the bottom's face when the bottom's eyes are open
and unprotected.
When flogging the back heavily, avoid the lower back below
the ribcage, where the kidneys are exposed. Also, avoid striking
the spine heavily and directly. Avoid heavily striking the base
of the neck, or anything above it.
Especially if the bottom is restrained, it is good practice
to have a "safeword", which, when used, will cause the Top to
honor any request that follows it (including that play be
terminated). If the bottom has a safeword, the Top should not
hesitate to issue direct instructions to the bottom (i.e. Stand
still!), when such instructions will benefit the flogging or the
scene in general.
Especially if you are playing in public, concern may be
necessary if any skin breaks on the bottom (perhaps caused by a
pimple bursting). A conservative approach in such a situation
would be to put on latex gloves, spray the area with a rubbing
alcohol solution, wipe it with a sterile cloth, and then cover
the wound with MicroFoam (see a medical shop for that product).
Flogging may be done over MicroFoam, so the scene may then
continue.
If blood or other body fluids come into contact with your
flogger, you should clean the flogger before using it on anyone
else (or perhaps just reserve it from then on for that bottom,
if it cannot be cleaned). One may clean floggers by first
scrubbing off (with a microbicidal soap) any obviously tainted
spots, brushing or spraying the tails with something that will
kill HIV and other blood borne diseases but which will not harm
or discolor the whip, and finally letting it sit for at least 10
minutes to dry. You may then have to treat leather floggers so
they don't dry or crack (depending on the cleaning materials you
chose). As it can be difficult to clean and treat suede without
it becoming damaged, you may wish to avoid breaking skin with
suede floggers. Also note that Hepatitis B is much harder to
kill than other viruses, and you should consider getting the
vaccination if you plan on receiving many heavy floggings during
your life. Please note that there are many opinions and ideas in
the BDSM community on how to clean and disinfect
floggers, and
that the best procedure may depend on the type of whip in
question; you may wish to ask about such procedures at the time
you purchase your whip.
When you're practicing, it's helpful to put pillows or towels
over areas that are unsafe to strike.
Section 4: Comfort
Although A-frame standing racks are valuable for the bottom
to lean against, and be restrained to, it is perfectly fine and
comfortable for the bottom to simply lean, with both hands,
against a wall.
It is often valuable to discuss before beginning a scene what
the bottom is looking for out of the scene. Is he or she
interested in a masochistic experience? In this case, flogging
firmly, with little or no warm-up, may be appropriate. Is he or
she interested in a sensual experience? In this case, beginning
lightly and working to more intense sensation as endorphin
levels rise may be appropriate. Is he or she interested in a
spiritual experience? In this case, some ceremonial actions such
as lighting candles or burning incense may be appropriate, along
with slow build-up culminating in strong strokes separated by
synchronized breathing.
When one is just learning flogging, or if
one wishes "thud" rather than "sting" at all costs, it may be
helpful for the bottom to wear a sweatshirt during the flogging.
Finally, it can greatly assist the experience of the bottom
if he or she is encouraged to (and given the space to) keep his
or her breathing show and deep during the course of the
flogging.
Especially when the flogging is beginning, it's important
that the room being used is warm enough, as the bare back and
front of a bottom can become cool quite quickly. This is not
generally the sensation either of you would desire.
Section 5: Stance
The best stance for flogging is often a lunging stance (such
as that frequently assumed in fencing). The Top's legs are
separated with the front of the Top's body pointing to one side.
The foot nearer to the bottom points toward the bottom, and the
rear foot points to the side.
The knees should be slightly bent, to facilitate easily
crouching lower (to ease lower strikes) and side-to-side motion
(to ease the use of different angles of impact).
The ideal stance is a flexible one, as the Top may want to
move quickly from one position to another as the different
strokes require. Good floggings often remind one of a dance.
Section 6: Wrapping
Wrapping is the uncomfortable effect caused by the tails of
the flogger landing too high, and wrapping over the shoulder.
This can be avoided when it happens by stepping back (so the
tails CANNOT reach that far) and/or lowering one's stance into a
deeper crouch.
Section 7: Grip
For most floggers (single-tail whips excepted), it is best to
grip the whip near the base of the handle, away from the tails.
This will facilitate the use of leverage to focus impact. It is
also valuable to grip the flogger firmly. This will facilitate
firm, confident strokes, with less lost energy.
Section 8: Build-Up and Cool-Down
Unless one's bottom is seeking a purely masochistic
experience, it is generally best to begin the flogging slowly
and lightly, progressing to greater intensities as time goes on.
Let it begin ever-so caressingly, and build as endorphin levels
rise to stronger strokes. Most skin exhibits redness when it is
warmed up to the point where harder strokes may be done. It
generally takes 15-20 minutes or more for endorphin levels in
the body to increase.
For many people, an important part of build-up is the smell
of leather; for such a person, at various points before and
during the scene you may hold the whip near the bottom's face
and allow him or her to smell and/or kiss it. For other people,
an important part of build-up is the act of being put in
restraints; if you are putting wrist restraints on such a person
(perhaps to attach them to an A-frame rack before a flogging),
do so very slowly.
It can be helpful for warm-up to have the whip come into
contact LIGHTLY with all parts of the body; this is more
psychological than anything else. Just draping the tails on the
front of the body and swooshing them back and forth as you go
down and over the fronts of the legs can help the whole body
feel more included before beginning serious work on the back.
Many scenes have a point which is a peak (at which the bottom
often either safewords, or comes very close to safewording). One
may then enter a cool-down phase for the flogging (gradually
lowering intensities). Cool-down may be omitted, depending on
the preferences of the bottom and what sort of aftercare is
being planned.
Section 9: Varying Sensations
Most people can take a longer and more intense flogging (and
enjoy it more) if sensations are varied during the course of it.
Periods of "thuddy" sensation may be alternated with periods of
"stingy" sensation. It is VERY helpful to occasionally stop, and
perhaps run one's fingers or a fur mitten gently over the
bottom's back; after this interlude, one may build again to
stronger strokes, often reaching a level which would have caused
a safeword before the interlude.
It is very good practice to not always strike in the same
place every time; this is annoying to many people, and is not
considered desirable (unless one is TRYING to be annoying, and
trying to end the scene with a safeword). A pattern of strokes
will be discussed which automatically accomplishes this. But, at
the very least, alternating sides of the back for strokes is
good practice.
For many bottoms, whatever sensations may be varied, one
aspect of the flogging must remain relatively constant; the pace
of the strokes. Strokes that are rhythmic (and hence
predictable) cause a hypnotic trance for many people. Strokes
that are out of rhythm are jarring and can cause fear. This may
be the effect desired, but a Top should be aware that this is
the effect which out-of-rhythm strokes will have.
It's often helpful to switch floggers (perhaps going from a
heavy-weight cat to a scourge, and back again) during the course
of session, as desired. Working from lighter-weight floggers to
heavier ones is also helpful.
If the bottom's back is becoming too hot, it is helpful to
have on hand a water-spray bottle, to cool him or her down
during a break. Another option to accomplish the same purpose is
to have on a hand a large sheet of leather or cloth, and to fan
the bottom's back with it. If the sheet in question is a sheet
of leather, such as deerskin, it may also be used to strike the
back with (perhaps folded, as well) to achieve a very thuddy
sensation. When the scene is over, it can be very comforting to
the bottom to drape this sheet over his or her back, and perhaps
hug him or her through it.
Section 10: The Use of Sexual Stimulation
Many people find floggings much more pleasurable if they are
sexually aroused, or become so during the course of the
flogging. If for no other reason, sexual arousal can stimulate
the release of the same hormones that are released as the body
experiences a flogging, thus facilitating the body's natural
response.
During interludes between heavy strokes, one may manually
stimulate the genitals with one's hand (possibly gloved for
safety). One may also, with a heavy flogger, lightly stroke
upwards between the legs, causing the tails to brush the entire
genital area (for women) or the erogenous zones to the rear of
the testicles (for men). Some women can experience orgasm
through such flogger strokes, but this is somewhat rare.
If an A-frame rack is being used, one option many people
choose is to have another person (a "spotter") stand inside the
rack and sexually stimulate the bottom as he or she is being
flogged. For many people, this works wonders.
Other people, however, may prefer no genital contact during a
flogging; it is a matter of personal preference.
Section 11: Tips on Flogging Technique
Move into a deeper crouch, or side-to-side, as necessary.
Stances should not be rigid.
Simplify the motion of the stroke as much as possible, and
use the weight of momentum and the lever of the arm/flogger
combination as much as possible. Let the whip do the work! One
may also lean forwards and backwards during the course of a
stroke to put one's weight into the stroke.
One may slightly twist the hand halfway through the stroke,
if the tails of the whip tend to splay out too much on impact.
The best way to practice, and focus one's attention, is to
see on the bottom the point you wish to strike, and then try to
hit that spot. One may practice in a similar way on walls,
pillows, and light switches.
For a lighter stroke, one may slow the velocity of the whip
as it reaches the top of its arc, and let the tails gently fall
on the bottom.
Generally, the more directly the tips strike the bottom, the
thuddier the sensation is. When the tips of the flogger tails
brush against the bottom, and do so quickly, the sensation is
often stingier.
The tips of the flogger, as they strike, convey the greatest
force of the stroke. Thus, when one is flogging heavily, it is
helpful to strike in such a way that the tips land first; this
will also help one avoid "wrapping", which occurs when the
middle of the tails strikes a good area, but the tips (which
land later) wrap around to strike over the shoulders or around
the torso. This is generally considered bad form.
It is difficult to judge what strokes and whips to use on a
bottom at a particular time, if one does not know what those
strokes feel like. Thus, it is important as a Top to experience
each of the sensations which you have in your repertoire.
Consider bottoming regularly in order to become a better Top.
Section 12: Different Types of Strokes
Omitted from discussion here are specialty strokes such as
double-flogger (a technique borrowed from Kendo), snapping,
two-handed, and side strokes.
One basic stroke is the overhand stroke. It consists of
striking overhand, with the palm towards the bottom. One may use
the second knuckle of the first finger as a "sight" for follow
through.
Another basic stroke is the backhand stroke. It consists of
striking overhand, with the palm towards you. Again, one may use
the second knuckle of the first finger as a "sight" for follow
through. The backhand stroke feels the same to the bottom as the
overhand stroke, but the overhand stroke and the backhand stroke
may be put together to form a continuous "figure 8" pattern,
which is very useful.
A final basic stroke is the punching stroke, which may be
either overhand or backhand, but which includes flipping the
wrist to provide more of a sensation of the tails going straight
into their target, rather than striking them obliquely. This is
commonly perceived as "thuddier" than other strokes, and is
valuable for providing a different sensation, as well as
allowing strokes in body areas (especially lower ones) that
might otherwise be difficult to strike. It is often easier to
learn the punching stroke if you use your non-flogging hand on
your shoulder as a guide for the whip tails as they begin their
motion.
Another type of stroke which is sometimes used is one where
the whip is held loosely (perhaps by the loop at the end) and
twirled in a great circle. The continuous twirling can be
brought near the bottom's back, so the tails upon each
revolution either come into contact with the back, or come close
enough to it to move air in the general area. This can provide
continuous sensation.
I suppose that the act of lightly draping the tails of the
whip over the bottom's back, and gently caressing the back with
them, could count as a type of stroke. In any case, it is very
valuable and adds to the sensuality of the scene.
One principle that applies to ANY sort of flogging: every
bottom is a little different, and has different likes, dislikes,
and preferences. Some of these may be learned through pre-scene
negotiation, but others will be discovered during the course of
play. For this reason, no two floggings are ever identical; the
best play is tailored to the people involved.
Section 13: A Useful Stroke Pattern
It is helpful for flogging purposes to think of the back as
being divided into four sections: the top half of the ribcage
left of the spine, the top half of the ribcage right of the
spine, the bottom half of the ribcage left of the spine, and the
bottom half of the ribcage right of the spine.
Thus, consider the following view of the back:
***
* *
***
Left ***************** Right
* 1 2 | 3 4 *
* | *
* ______|_______*
* 5 6 | 7 8 *
* | *
* | *
*****************
Stroke Pattern, for a Right-Handed Top
- Backhand, stroke direction diagonal (from the top to
down, and from the left to right)
- Overhand, stroke direction diagonal (from the top to
down, and from the right to left)
- Backhand, stroke direction diagonal (from the top to
down, and from the left to right)
- Overhand, stroke direction diagonal (from the top to
down, and from the right to left)
- Backhand, stroke direction diagonal (from the top to
down, and from the left to right)
- Overhand "Punching"
- Backhand "Punching"
- Overhand, stroke direction diagonal (from the top to
down, and from the right to left)
Stroke pairs 1/2 and 3/4 especially may be done in a figure-8
pattern. With practice, stroke pairs 5/6 and 7/8 will have a
figure-8 feel to them as well.
Section 14: Music
Most people find that floggings are enhanced by the presence
of good music. Currently popular titles include:
- Peter Gabriel, "Passion"
- Enigma, "Enigma II"
- Tangerine Dream, "Canyon Dreams"
- Andreas Vollenweider, "Down to the Moon"
Be careful that the music is not too loud to hear the
bottom's safeword, if a verbal safeword is being used. One of
the joys of BDSM for many people is hearing the cries, moans, and
verbal feedback from the bottom; this is all lost if the volume
is too high. Unfortunately, this difficulty often happens at
many so-called "fetish nights" in bars. Most people find that it
is much easier to set up a pleasant environment for BDSM at
someone's residence or at dedicated BDSM community space.
Section 15: To Learn More
This web page has only covered
the basics. As is the case with many activities in life, the
best way to learn is to observe and learn from someone who
is highly skilled. Classes on BDSM. technique, when available, can
also be a terrific way to improve one's skills. There are many
organizations that give classes in various BDSM subjects. Check
with some of the NYS organizations listed in the Resource
Section. There are also many book which cover the Art of
Flogging. These are readily available from any scene or website
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