A submissives journey     

                                         

 

 

 

 

Chapter 1
The Asj Community


 

Chapter 2
Resource Information 

 

 

 

Chapter 3
Subbie's Couch

 

 

Chapter 4
The Dom's Lounge


 

Chapter 5

 The Library

 

 

 

 

Chapter 6
BDSM

 

 

 

Chapter 7

 Useful Links

 

 

 

 

Chapter 8
Members share their thoughts

 

 

 

Chapter 9

 Members Only

 

 

 

 

Chapter 10
Asj's Site Index

 

 

Chapter 11
Asj's Book Store

 

 

 

Chapter 12
Recommended Reading List

 

 

Chapter 13
Asj slave, sub Registry


 

                                              

 Beginners Guide to Lubricants - go with the flow


Lubricate, lubricate, lubricate!  I can’t say it enough. Everyone has a dry spell and everyone needs lube during anal play so researching the best lube, prior to playing, is always a fabulous idea. When buying a lube always keep in mind how you will be using it and on what toys you might be playing with. The wrong lube can lead to toy erosion, stains or even vaginal irritation. Label reading—it’ll save you problems later!

Water based - Hands down your best all around lubrication. Because of a water base, this lubrication is easily cleaned up and it will not stain. Water based lubes tend to dry quicker than other lubes so you may find that you need to use more during sex play. Water based lubes can also come in a variety of flavors which make them a top choice for oral recreation. Water based lubes can be safely used with CyberSkin, silicone, jelly and rubber toys. They are also safe to use with condoms. (Astroglide, KY Jelly, Climax Lube, WET Original Formula).

Silicone based - This lubricant is best known for being waterproof, which makes it number one for play in water. A little goes a long way when it comes to silicone based lubes which makes them popular for extended play. Soap and water make clean up easy. Silicone lubrication should not be used on CyberSkin or silicone toys (without a condom) because it will destroy the material. (Astroglide X, Eros Bodyglide).

Petroleum based - This is the least popular lubricant for a few reasons: it can not be used on rubber or CyberSkin toys, it can be irritating to the vagina, it stains, and it will render condoms, diaphragms and cervical caps useless. Safe sex practices do not allow for petroleum based lubes because they will break down and destroy a condom or dam’s material. (Vaseline, Baby Oil).

 

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