FELLATIO AND THE SUBMISSIVE
(Oral Sex)

I can only offer my own point of view on fellatio.  It's one of my favorite things to do for my Master, I find it quite, quite satisfying.  Ask him.  *smile*

There are so many excellent articles and books out on the 'Net that can give you a guiding hand (no pun intended there), well, I thought it was time throw in my two cents on what constitutes the perfect blow job.

Exercise practice:  Start with some mouth exercises.  First, buy some grapes.  Insert a grape into your mouth.  Suck it gently in and out of your mouth, rolling it around on your tongue.  Carefully nibble on it without breaking the skin.  Practice makes perfect!  Once you get the hang of this, you're ready to give your Loved One a blow job.  If  you can make the grape cum, so much the better.

First and foremost with men and their genitals, gently, gently, gently!  I cannot stress that enough!  Yes we women love to be poked and prodded and yanked and pulled and oh how erotic that is, but when it comes to men and their nether lands, it is the exact opposite.

To start, take his shaft into your hand *gently* and guide his penis into your mouth.  Pretend you do not have teeth.  I know this sounds a bit bizarre, but fold your lips over your gums, no man likes to be bit or chewed upon.  That is THE biggest turn off for a man. Accidentally bite down or grate your teeth up and down the shaft of his penis, or even over the head and you've lost him and his erection!

Run your tongue over the head and then using the "no gum method", put your mouth over this whole penis engulfing it, using a vacuum or suction method, start inhaling while slowly pulling up over his head. Repeat, going a little deeper, not just over his head but down to his shaft, licking your way down, and pulling up with suction.  He will go wild!

His testicles:  As you're winding your way down his shaft, stop and moment and visit his "friends" down there.  Take a testicle in your mouth oh oh so softly and suck on one and then the other.  Wind your tongue back up his shaft, enveloping his head and releasing. 

Deep throat penetration:   The best position for me anyway, is you are kneeling before him as he is thrusting into you.  Another position that may work for you is laying face up with your head hanging down.  Do what is best for you.  Always remember:  Don't panic, but relax. Your first instinct is to gag, but if you relax, relax your throat, he will be able to thrust right down your throat.  Pretty powerful stuff for both of you.

Moaning:  Ooh la la!  They love it when we moan, the louder we moan to show our enjoyment, the more excited they will get.  Fellatio is the best thing that can happen to a man, moaning while you are giving head is the second.  It enhances the act and it also shows you are happy with what you are doing. Trust me!

Cumming.  Perhaps something that should be negotiated beforehand. Do you like swallowing his cum or not?  If not, make sure you have a towel right next to you, so when your Great One cums, you can quietly and discreetly purge into the towel so as not to ruin the moment.  If you love the flavor of his cum, like I do, that is the biggest most greatest compliment you can ever give your man.  And afterwards, have a warm, wet washcloth handy, so you can lovingly clean him up. 

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