National Lifestyle Resource List

 

Just trying to keep this list current and up to date can be a full time job so you'll have to excuse me if a link or two becomes obsolete.  If you find one that isn't valid, please be sure to let me know.  I'm sure there are many fine resources out there that aren't listed on the list below as well, so if I've omitted one that you're aware of, drop me an e-mail and I'll see what I can do to have it included.  A word of caution, just because a site is listed here, don't assume that it's safe or that I've personally checked it out.  Most of these sites I've never been to, nor do I know anything about them except they've either been referred to me, or they appear on a list somewhere that I've found.  Don't forget safe call rules, common sense and where possible, if you decide to visit one of these places, bring a friend with you the first time.

                                                                                  CJ

(scroll down, it's a long list, alphabetical by state)

 

 

 

 

National:  General Resources

 

 

• The BDSM Events Page: lists time-sensitive information on events and a few international listings--very good resource
• Bound: branches in Washington, DC as well as Baltimore MD, Tampa, FL, Richmond, VA, New Haven, CT. (NYC, Chicago, Philadelphia, San Francisco and Seattle by Oct 1998). *European* branches: Reykjavik, Iceland, Stockholm Sweden, and Prague CZ.

 

• BDSM Events: mailing lists of local BDSM events, also has international listings 
• The Beacon E-Zine: Online bi-monthly newsletter and calendar of BDSM events for the SE US. Covers Alabama, Arkansas, Georgia, Florida, Louisiana, Mississippi, North Carolina, South Carolina and Tennessee.
• International Deaf Leather; P.O. Box 30286, Columbus OH 43230.
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      National Coalition for Sexual Freedom The NCSF is committed to creating

      a political, legal and social environment in the US that advances equal

      rights for consenting adults who engage in alternative sexual and

      relationship expressions. The NCSF aims to advance the rights of, and

      advocate for consenting adults in the BDSM-Leather-Fetish, Swing, and

      Polyamory Communities. We pursue our vision through direct services,

      education, advocacy, and outreach, in conjunction with our partners, to

      directly benefit these communities.

 

• National Leather Association
• International Association of Rubberists

Resources by State

 

• Alabama
• Birmingham:
•  The Red Chair; The Red Chair is Alabama’s oldest existing BDSM organization established November 1997. Based in Birmingham, TRC serves the north central section of Alabama and beyond. We are a pansexual group that facilitates monthly educational events and dungeon parties. TRC also hosts several munches a month, fostering a vibrant community of responsible leather enthusiasts in our area. Email trcleadership@gmail.com for info.
•  Central Alabama Power Exchange CAPE, Central Alabama Power Exchange, is a pansexual, alternative lifestyle group located in Montgomery, Alabama, with particular interests in B D S M and D/s and are dedicated to Safe, Sane and Consensual aspects of the lifestyle
• Huntville:
•  NASSA; North Alabama Spanking and Social Alternatives, pansexual support, education, & munch group.
• NAPEX; North Alabama Power Exchange
• Montgomery
• Central Alabama Power Exchange
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• Pelham
• :Steel City Centurions; men's group, email for info.
  
  

   

• Alaska

 

 

• Anchorage:
• The Last Frontier (TLFMC) email for info.
  

   

   

• Arizona

 

 

• Flagstaff
• X-CHAIN-G Pansexual group, play parties
• Glendale
• Arizona PEP; 5821 N. 67th Ave., Suite 103-276, Glendale AZ
• Phoenix:
• APEX; PO Box 67532, Phoenix, AZ 85082 Phone: 602-415-1123
• Tucson:
• Desert Dominion; a pansexual, panfetish educational and social organization.
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• Arkansas

 

 

• Fayetteville:
• North West Arkansas S/M; email nwasm_2000@hotmail.com for info
• Jonesboro:
•  NorthEast Arkansas Dungeon Society; Adult pansexual group in the NE AR area for those into the bdsm lifestyle to meet and share with others.
• Little Rock:
• Lupercalia, (supposedly being re-formed), Email: Misterbill@att.net
• Different Loving in Little Rock; holds a monthly munch as well as play parties.
• NLA-Arkansas; P.O. Box 1608, Little Rock AR 72115

 

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• California
• Calendar of BDSM California Events
• Southern California Munch Group
• Berkeley
• Womanlink  International; women's group, 2124 Kittredge #257, Berkeley CA 94704.

 

• Burbank: - Also see Los Angeles, CA
• Threshold Society; 11300 Hartland St., North Hollywood, CA 91605 : Mailing Address: The Threshold Society P.O. Box 11659 Burbank, CA 91510    Phone: (818) 782-1160

 

 

• Canoga Park:
• MP Bands; P.O. Box 2843, Canoga Park, CA 91306 +
• El Cerrito:
• La Madrona; femdom couple's group, P.O. Box 1335, El Cerrito CA 94530.

 

     Fantasy Makers 

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• Fairfield:
•  Munch, first Sunday of each month, email for info.
• Los Angeles:
• Avatar Club  a non-profit organization providing education about
  safe, sane, and consensual bondage, discipline, and sadomasochistic (BDSM) sex between adults. (Their web site indicates 'gay men')

 

• NLA-Los Angeles; 7985 Santa Monica Blvd 109-217, West Hollywood CA 90046
• ONE - National Gay & Lesbian Archives, 909 W. Adams Blvd., Los Angeles, CA 9007 (213) 741-094.  The ONE National Gay & Lesbian Archives honors the past, celebrates the present, and enriches the future of all lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people. We foster acceptance of sexual and gender diversity by supporting education and research about our heritage and experience worldwide. ONE is dedicated to collecting, preserving, documenting, studying, and communicating our history, our challenges, and our aspirations.
• Trident International; 1064 Myra Avenue, #32, Los Angeles, CA 90026

 

• Marina Del Rey: - Also see Los Angeles, CA
• Threshold; 2554 Lincoln Blvd PMB 1004, Marina Del Rey CA 90291 Phone: (818) 782-1160
• Modesto
• Modesto Munch.  Held the second Thursday of the month. Contact Lady Cynthia for more information
• Mountain View:
• North Bay: Munch, third Sunday of each month, email for info.
• Orange County:  (also see Los Angeles, CA)
• Under Ground Leather Association; private membership association, but holds discussion meetings open to the general public
• Orange County Munch Group: Pansexual BDSM Group

 

• Petaluma:
• North Bay Third Sunday Munch
• Redding:
• munch group for northern CA, meets the last Friday of each month. Email dlpayne@earthlink.net for details.
• Redwood City: Mid Peninsula Perverts Association; 1st and 3rd Tuesdays of the month, email grbennet@best.com for info
• Riverside:
• Sacramento:
• Sacramento Leather Association; P.O. Box 5789, Sacramento, CA 95817
• Sacramento Area Kinksters; pansexual social/munch group
• San Diego:
• Club X/Leatherfest; P. O. Box 3092, San Diego, CA Phone: (619) 685-5149 Email: leatherfest_sd@hotmail.com or info@leatherfest.com
• San Diego Munch
• San Diego Social; meets and greets once a month.

 

     San Diego Submissive Voice - As our title suggests, we are a gathering

      of self-identified submissives that meet monthly for support and

      comradery. 

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• San Fernando Valley Munch
• San Francisco:
•  Cogent Warriors; women's group, 2261 Market #250, San Francisco, CA 94114
• East-SF Bay Munch
• The Exiles; P.O. Box 31266, San Francisco CA 94131 Phone: (415)487-5170
• Fifteen Association; men's group, P.O. Box 421302, San Francisco, CA 94142
• Gemini; Maledom/femsub couples group
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• The Stampede; Based in the San Francisco Bay Area, we are one of the nation's largest organized ponyplay and human animal roleplay groups. The Stampede is pansexual, and is open to all people 18 years of age or older. 2nd Tuesday of each month, 8:00-10:00 pm
• Pervert Scouts; women's group
• Society of Janus; P.O. Box 426794, San Francisco, CA 94142 Email: janus@soj.org

 

     San Francisco Men's Spanking Party Open to all men 18 and older (Gay,

      Bi or Straight)  email sanfranparty@yahoo.com

• San Jose:
• Leather WISDOM; women's group, P.O. Box 2519, Santa Clara CA 95055.
• SM Odyssey; Pansexual organization that holds educational classes every month, Includes the San Jose Munch, mens/women/pansexual discussion groups and Play Parties.
• Stockton
• Stockton: Munch is the first Friday of each month. Email tgrbill@flash.net or blondi1957@aol.com for more info
• Studio City: (also see Los Angeles, CA)
• Shadow Lane
• Vallejo:
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• Colorado
• Boulder:

 

• Denver:
• COPE, 1015 S Gaylord St. #200, Denver, CO 80209

 

     Sanctuary:  720-291-4603  The Denver Sanctuary is a private membership only organization whose purpose is to provide a safe environment in which to offer information, education, support and socialization opportunities to those interested in the BDSM Lifestyle.

    

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• Connecticut
• Danbury:

      

     Twilight Guard - Scheduled bar night/social events are normally held on

      the 2nd Saturday  of each month at the Triangles Cafe, 66 Sugar Hollow

      Road (RT 7),  Danbury, CT 06810 - 203.798.6996 between 10:00 PM –

      2:00 AM. Unless otherwise announced 

    

• Hartford:
• The Society - Information regarding events, gatherings and munches located on their website.  Some events open to 18-21 year olds, most over 21
• East Hartford:
•  United Leatherfolk of Connecticut; PO Box 281172, East Hartford, CT: ULC is no longer accepting new members. Effective March, 2009, ULC suspended all group meetings and activities. After 20 years of faithful service to the local Connecticut BDSM community, Laura Goodwin and her spouse are taking a long needed and well-deserved break.
• Meriden:
• New Haven & Stamford:
• Connecticut BDSM Munch; Email OpnHeartd@aol.com

 

     Saints and Sinners Sunday Social 

 

     North Haven:

 

     Southern Connecticut Munch  - The Southern Connecticut Munch is a

      place where anyone 18 or over with an interest in BDSM can come

      together and socialize in a relaxed atmosphere.

 

       West Hartford

 

       Fem Dom Circle - A paid membership web site, hosts munches and

        events for members. For more information email:

        mistresslisa@femdomcircle.com

• Delaware
• Wilmington:
•  Masters And slaves Together (Mast) - Meetings are held the third Tuesday of every month in a private home in Northern DE.  RSVP for address and directions. Home vetting may be required.  $5.00 attendance fee charged at the door.

 

• Florida
• Brandon:
• City Limits; fetish night every Tuesday. Email for info.
• Brevard County:
• Clearwater:
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• Daytona Beach:
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• Deerfield Beach:

     

      South Florida Munch  Scheduled for 2nd Saturday of each month,

      usually   6:00-8:30pm.  Predominantly heterosexual, but there are

      attndees whar are Gay/BiSexual/Transgender/CD's/etc. All are welcome.

      RSVP allywaterfall6@gmail.com

• FT. Lauderdale:
• Ft. Lauderdale NLA; P.O. Box 4911, Ft. Lauderdale FL 33338
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• The Dungeon Depot: holds parties once a month. Also lists other events going on in the state.
• The Saint (aka The Alter Ego); fetish parties (NOTE: visit there website.  Fetish dress code required.  These appear to be play parties only No munches on their schedule.  I am not familiar with this organization, but I believe it to be a commercial dungeon. This may not be an ideal intrduction to someone new to the D/s lifestyle only seeking information. If you attend a function at this facility I would appreciate an e-mail with your comments)
• Ft. Myers:
• Ft Myers Munch; email for info
• Gainesville:
• Gainesville Area Power Exchange
• Jacksonville:
• Jacksonville Area Power Exchange; pansexual group
• Florida Area Power Exchange (Jacksonville and NE Florida); FAPE is a support, educational and social group for people whose lifestyles or interests include D/sBDSM. FAPE is a pansexual group and open to adults (over 21) of any gender or sexual orientation. Email: FAPEMunchGroup@yahoo.com & FAPEMunchGroup@aol.com
• Jupiter:
• Jupiter Munch
• Key West:

 

     Key West Munch:  3rd Saturday 8:00 pm keywestmunch@gmail.com

 

 

     The OK Munch  - Meets 3rd Saturday 1:00 - 5:00 pm 

• Miami:
• Miami Munch
• Southern Florida:
• SPICE; P.O. Box 451837, Sunrise, FL 33345-1837 Email: SPICE561@aol.com

 

 

• Orlando:
• DSSG Orlando; dominant/submissive support group.

 

 

• Palm Beach:
• Palm Beach Munch: private, invitation only event
• Lifestyles Alternative Center of Palm Beach
• Panama City:
• Panama City Beach Munch
• Panama City PEP; email for info.
• Pensacola

 

     Pensacola Power Exchange Group - First Saturday and Third Monday 

 

• Polk County:
• Polk County Unmunch & Fetish Party
• Pompano Beach:
• Command Performance; pro-dungeon, but does host fee-based play parties
• Port St. Lucie:
• Port St. Lucie Munch; email for info.
• Sarasota:
• The Sarasota Society  Come join us for dinner at this open event. Old friends chat and catch up on latest nes as well as getting acquainted with newcomers to our group.  RSVP Required.  Held at Cafe Baci, 4001 S . Tamiami Trail, Sarasota
• St. Augustine:
•  VIPER; (Vilano Intimate Power Exchange Region), pansexual BDSM support group headquartered in Vilano Beach, near St. Augustine, Florida. Contact BigDaddyVilano@aol.com for more information.
• St. Petersburg:
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  St Petersburg Munch:  3rd Saturday each month 2:00-5:00 pm
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• Sunrise:
• Tallahassee:
• Tampa:
• Tampa Bay/Lutz: Defenders; Catholic leather group, P O Box 201, Lutz, FL 33549
• West Palm Beach:
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• Georgia
• Atlanta:

 

• Atlanta Corporal Punishment Club; P.O. Box 14904, Atlanta GA 30324.
• Atlanta S/M Solidarity; gay organization, P.O. Box 8361, Atlanta, GA 30306.
• NLA Atlanta
• McDonough (South Atlanta):

 

• Augusta:
• AugustaGeorgiaBDSM; A BDSM group for pansexual support, acceptance, and gathering of individuals in the Augusta, Georgia area.
• Augusta Iron Rose Society

 

• Hawaii
• Honolulu:
• PEP Paradise; c/o Mistress Athena, PO Box 22959, Honolulu, HI 96826
  

   

   

• Idaho

 

• Boise:
• Boise BDSM Society; education & social group  (NOTE: It was noted this site contained the comment "this site will shut down shortly", no further information known  11/09/11)
• Idaho Falls:

 

 

   

 

 

 

• Illinois
• Chicago:
• Chicago Kinky Calendar - Pansexual Kinky Evens in the Chicago Area (sponsored by Galleria Domain Two)
• )Chicago Hellfire Club; men's group, P.O. Box 5426, Chicago, IL 60680
• Chicago Spanking Society
• Dedicated and Safe: membership pansexual group, hosts seminars, parties
• Galleria Domain; BDSM membership club
• Leather United-Chicago; P.O. Box 81288, Chicago, IL 60681-1288 Phone: 773-486-5499 Email: LeatherUN@aol.com
• The Next Generation of Chicago; pansexual support /discussion /educational /social group for people age 18-35 who are into or interested in BDSM.
• Moline-Rock Island:
• Riverbound--Quad Cities BDSM
• Peoria:
• Peoria D/s Forum; Email: shawnee@peoriadsforum.org
• Rockford:
• Springfield:

 

• Indiana
• Bloomington:
• Evansville:
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• Evansville_IN_MunchBunch; email for info.
• Fort Wayne:
•  Summit City Munch
• Indianapolis:
• Basic Leather
• House of The Lionstail; munch group & sub abuse outreach organization
• NLA Indianapolis: 1310 Oakland Ave., Indianapolis IN 46201
• The Indy Slosh; informal BDSM group
• Sweet Misery, P O Box 11690, Indianapolis, IN 46201-0690
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• Muncie:
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• Iowa
• Ames:
• Cuffs educational group for people who want to learn more about kink, fetish, BDSM, and other expressions of safe, consensual, and non-exploitative human sexuality. Topics for meetings may include how to meet a play partner safely, bondage, negotiating a scene, sexual assault prevention, homemade toys, and others. (Iowa State University)
• Bettendorf-Davenport:
• Riverbound--Quad Cities BDSM -Riverbound is a pansexual BDSM group located in the Quad Cities area of Iowa and Illinois (Davenport and Bettendorf, Iowa, and Rock Island and Moline, Illinois). Our group is open to those age 21 or older who are interested in BDSM and D/s including lifestylers, casual players or simply those with interest.
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  Des Moines:

• Des Moines Area Discussion Group (DADG) CIPEX Munch meets 1st Saturday of the month.  Dinner and discussion 3rd Saturday of the month. Our primary goalis to promote ethical values and knowledge in the local BDSM community, through educational programs and by the general exchange of information.
• Kansas
• Kansas City:

 

 

• Topeka:

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• Kentucky
• Bowling Green:
• South Central Kentucky Munch; check out the mailing list or email for info
• Elizabethtown:
• Lexington:
• Louisville:
• Louisville Munch The Louisville munches have been running continuously since October of 1997. We meet on the first Friday and first Saturday of every month, from 7pm to 10pm. We also gather on the fourth Sunday of every month, from 6pm to 9pm. Munches are social gatherings for those interested in BDSM.
• South Central Kentucky Mailing List
• Tri State Area Power Exchange(TAPE): new munch for the WV/KY/OH area

   

   

• Louisiana

Perhaps a coincidence, perhaps not, but it seems many of the groups that were listed prior to hurricane Katrina have since gone offline. If you are aware of other groups that have formed, or taken their place, please let us know.

 

• Alexandria:
• Central Louisiana BDSM mailing list, send email to CenLaBDSM@egroups.com.
• Baton Rouge:
• Lafayette:
• Lake Charles:
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• Shreveport
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• MAINE

 

• Central Maine Alliance; pansexual BDSM social/educational organization in central Maine, providing monthly munches, educational classes and special events. Email: CMA@CentralMaineAlliance.org
• NLA New England

 

• Portland:
• CUFS (Coastal United Fetish Society); pansexual group, P.O. 763, Lisbon, ME 04250 Email CUFSmaine@aol.com for more info.

 

• Alternative Lifestyles United (ALU); New social group in Maine with the purpose of uniting those involved in alternative lifestyles.
• Harbor Masters, Inc; Box 4044 Station "A", Portland, ME 0410
• Maryland
• Baltimore:
• Baltimore At Ease; Not-for-profit grassroots advocacy group dedicated to promoting the tolerance of sexual minorities and education about alternative sexual expression.
• Baltimore Educational and Social Society; educational and social group for consenting adults with shared interests in BDSM sexuality.
• The Baltimore Eagle; gay leather club
• D&S Society of Baltimore; P.O. Box 20248, Towson MD 21204.
• Shipmates; gay leather club
• The Society; P.O. Box 844, Chicopee MD 01021.
• The Utopia Society
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• Massachusetts
• New England BDSM: Personals and links for New Englanders
• Alston:
• The K.M. Society; P.O. Box 66, Alston MA 02134.
• Boston:
• Boston Burgermunch; email for info.
• Boston Dungeon Society
• Common Bond; women's group, P.O. Box 390313, Boston MA 02139.
• Bound For Pleasure; a New England BDSM social group that firmly believes in Safe, Sane and Consensual activities that will reflect on the B/D, D/S, S/M, Fetish and Alternative Lifestyle Communities in a healthy and positive light.
• Defenders Boston: Catholic leather society, 55 E. Springfield St., Boston, MA 02118
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      Mob New England - Mob is a social and play group for women and

      transfolk interested in BDSM and/or kink sexuality. We offer social and

      play events, educational demos, and informal opportunities to socialize,

      have fun and build a sense of community. We claim as positive forces in

      our lives our many and varied interests in kink, bondage, domination and

      submission, sadomasochism, leather and perversion. For more

       information, please look at our Statement of Purpose. (updated 6/19/10)

• New England NLA
• The Northeast Erotic Spanking Society
• One Nation Underground: information/ power exchange group for the BDSM/leather lifestyles
• Boston-The Next Generation of Kinksters; pansexual BDSM group for motivated kinky individuals age 18-35 that is dedicated to education, outreach, and an enriching social environment within the leather community.
• Braintree:
• SouthShore Munch; e-groups list. Holds a munch 1st and 3rd Sundays of the month.
• Cambridge:

 

• MOB New England; Women's play and social group.
• Charlestown:
• Boston United Leather Legion; A gay, lesbian, bi, and transgender group, P.O. Box 287, Charlestown MA 02129.
• Hadley:
• Bound and Determined, women's group, P.O. Box 602, Hadley MA 01035.
• Medford:
• Urania; women's group, P.O. Box 501, Medford MA 02155.
• Northampton:
• East Coast FTM Group; P.O. Box 60585, Florence Station, Northampton, MA 01060
• Links: pansexual group, meets monthly at Intimicies in downtown Northampton.
• One Society; Email: OneSociety@aol.com
• North Dartmouth:
• FLAG (Fits Like A Glove); glove fetish organization, predominantly gay male, but it is not limited to men or gay.
• Shelix; women's group, P.O. Box 416, Northampton, MA 01060-0416
• Randolph:
• The Esoterica Society; P.O. Box 37, Randolph, MA 02368
• Saugus:
• munch, contact Darkskyfire@aol.com for info
• Springfield:
• The Western Massachusetts Power Exchange
• Taunton:
• munch, held the 1st and 3rd Thursdays of the month. Email Swtchr2@aol.com for info.
• Western Mass. Power Exchange
• Waltham:
• Northeast Spanking Society; couples only group
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• Michigan

 

 

• Michigan Munches; an announce-only list to inform subscribers of public BDSM gatherings in or near Michigan.
• Southeastern Michigan Munch (Ann Arbor/Sterling Heights)
• Bay City:
•  Leather and Lace Society; P.O. Box 2415, Bay City MI 48707.
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• Battle Creek:
• BDSM-Battlecreek
• Detroit:
• Metropolitan Detroit Spanking Society
• The Mich Chat OHS; (dinner/discussion group)
• D/S Society of Detroit; pansexual, members-only support & education group.
• Michigan Women of Leather; discussion group
• XTC Club: P.O. Box 380151, Clinton Township, MI 48038
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• Flint:
• Flint Munch List
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• Grand Rapids:
• Western Michigan Munch group; weekly munch group
• Alternative Lifestyle Enlightenment: email grale@migrale.org for info.
• Grand Rapids Munch; monthly munches
• Kalamazoo:
• KINK Parties (Invitation Only Parties); write for more info.
• Lansing:
• Lansing Munch Group, email Rstew66768@aol.com
• Muskegon:
• munch, meets 3rd or 4th saturday of the month, contact for info.
• Niles:
• House Of Shadowfind Bed & Breakfast + Training School
• Saginaw:
• Saginaw Valley Deviant's Munch Page
• Traverse City:
• NorthernMich-BDSM; Northern Michagan Munch

   

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• Minnesota
• Minneapolis:
• ATONS; gay leather club
• Knights of Leather; pansexual group
• Minneapolis-St. Paul Women's Group
• TIES; pansexual BDSM group
• Minnesota Stocks, Debentures & Bonds; private, members-only group.
• Minnetonka:
• Midwest Discussion Group ; 4737 S. Hwy 101 #124 Minnetonka, MN 55345

   

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• Mississippi
• Gulfport/Biloxi:
• Southern Thorns And Roses; pansexual BDSM group, email for info
• Jackson:
• Jackson Mississippi Munch Group
• SLLAM - Satyr Leather/Levi Association of Mississippi
  

   

• Missouri
• Columbia:
• Columbia Erotic Power Exchange
• Kansas City:
• Alternative Hedonistic Source; PO Box 414545, Kansas City, MO 64141
• Kirksville:
• Neosho/Joplin:
• Leather & Silk; For those who are interested in real time BDSM practice, to meet sincere like-minded individuals contact kaged_kitten@hotmail.com for more information.
• Poplar Bluff:
• Springfield:
• Springfield Masters And subs/slaves; contact SMsMembers@aol.com for more info.
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• SMsClub; (note: this may be the same as the group listed above) pansexual, meets once a month, email SMsclub69@aol.com
• Southwest BDSM of Missouri; a group that meets and is dedicated to the informing and providing SW Missouri with a safe and sane learning environment for BDSM activities
• St. Louis:
•  Fetish Lifestyle Open Group (FLOG); pansexual fetish/BDSM social and disscussion group , also has a couple's and women's group
• Gynecrocrat Alliance; P.O. Box 13034, St. Louis MO 63122
• KC Pioneers; gay/lesbian leather group
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• St.Louis Leather and Lace; Pansexual BDSM organization
• St.Louis Munch
• PEP--St. Louis

 

• TNG-St Louis
• St. Louis Scene Page
• Montana
• Hamilton
•  Master Wolfen's Bondage Club; new pansexual group in Western Montana.
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• Missoula:
• Montana BDSM; email list for Western Montana.
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• Nebraska
• Erik Renfield's BDSM Page: Erik has a good page with Nebraska BDSM info
• Omaha:
• Omaha Players Club (OPC), P.O. Box 34463, Omaha, Ne. 68134 Phone: (402) 451-7987
• Realm Of Power Exchange; email for info or join the mailing list
  
  

   

   

• Nevada
• Las Vegas:
• BDSM For All; discussion list, also holds real life BDSM support and social activities including a discussion board, luncheons, chat room, play parties, social functions, workshops, special events, and basic/moderate and intermediate information about the lifestyle.
• Deliciious Decadence; e-group for the Las Vegas area.
• The Las Vegas Mentor's Program
• Leather Uniform Club of Las Vegas; gay male leather group dedicated to Education, Socializing, and Community Service.
• Polished Collar Society; private association of like-minded individuals sharing in the experience of learning and practicing the ritualistic aspects of BDSM.
• Vegas Women of Leather; female-only, leatherwoman organization.
• Reno:
• Desert Lights; pansexual munch and social group with occasional seminars and demonstrations. Email DesertLights@masonpiper.org for info.
  
  

   

   

• New Hampshire
• Hampton:
• Beach Munch; #d/s-NewHampshire, IRC-chat, but holds rl munches every 2nd Saturday of the month.
• Keene:
• Power Exchange of New England; pansexual BDSM group, monthly munches and socials.
• Nashua:
• New Hampshire Burger Munches; also email estelle@bdsbbs.com
• Upper Valley:
•  White Mountains D/S; BDSM group for northern New Hampshire, with munches in West Lebanon (3rd Sunday each month), North Woodstock (1st Saturday each month) and North Conway (last Saturday each month) as well as private events.
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• New Jersey
• (Note: New Jersey is the home  of the Asj Communities, both online and real time, if you're in NJ, I hope you'll consider  attending some of our activities and events.)
• Atlantic Highlands:
• The Fantasy Chateau; a BDSM BBS & Party Network. PO Box 290, Atlantic Highlands, NJ 07716. Email: partyman@partyman.com

 

• Central  NJ

  Knot for Everyone is a BDSM group in the Central New Jersey area. The group serves as both an educational and social vehicle for adults interested in BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Domination, Submission, Masochism).  Knot for Everyone was founded in November 1997 by Sandra A., a D/s enthusiast who "just wanted to meet other like-minded people," and soon came to realize the need for a friendly Central Jersey establishment for socializing, learning, and safe and consensual play. We are a pansexual group and welcome singles as well as couples, age 21 and over.

• Fairlawn:
• New Jersey Dungeon Society; hosted by Ushers Keep, BDSM seminars, demos, parties.
• Farmington:
• Four Corners; pansexual munch, support, and party group, serving the four corners area of Az. Co. NM. and Ut.
• Freehold:
• Munch every third wednesday of the month. Casual, no play. Email kendra@subspace.cc for info.
• Iselin:
• Knot for Everyone; KFE, PO Box 672, Lebanon, NJ 08833 Email: knot4every1@aol.com
• Mt Laurel:
• The Mission; private pansexual BDSM club that operates munches, activities and play parties in Mt Laurel NJ, Ocean NJ, Atlantic City NJ, Bound Brook NJ, and Willow Grove PA.
• Passaic:
• The Couples Club; P.O. Box 325, Passaic NJ 07055.
• New Brunswick:
• PEP New Brunswick; call 908-281-8689.
• Silent Vow Society: BDSM munch group for BBW and admirers
• RUST; The Rutgers University student organization.

 

• Plainfield:
• North Plainfield Munch; strictly meet & greet, email TinaRock@aol.com for info.
• Somerdale
• A submissives journey - The host of this web site,  a monthly munch as well as get togethers and other lifestyle events and activities. Contact CJ atj@asubmissivesjourney.com for additional information.

 

• Somerset:
• Tri-State; P.O. Box 7205, Somerset NJ 08875.

   

• New Mexico
• Albuquerque:
• PEP National Headquarters; Phone: (505)260-1324

• Farmington:
• Four Corners; pansexual munch, support, and party group, serving the four corners area of Az. Co. NM. and Ut.

 

• Silver City:
•  
• Grant County Power Exchange Group

   

•  

• New York
• Albany:
• Albany Power Exchange (APEX); munches, events and information resource. Also email for more info.
• Buffalo:
• PEP Buffalo; People Exchanging Power of Buffalo NY is a sincere social and discussion group for all adults (21 and older). We accept all genders, sexualities, marital statuses, kinks, and fetishes, who are interested in BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism) and DS (Dominance and Submission).
• New York City
•  
• APPLEMUNCH
• Defenders NY; Catholic leather society, P O Box 1146, Old Chelsea Station, New York, NY 10011
• Conversio Virium; Columbia University
• DomSubFriends Society; Pansexual BDSM Society, with lectures, demos, e-magazine, and exclusive parties serving NY, NJ, CT and other areas of the East Coast.
• DS Desires: D/s & BDSM related parties, workshops and weekend getaways, email dsdesires@dsdesires.com.
• Gay Male S/M Activists
• The Eulenspiegal Society; P.O. Box 2783, New York, N.Y. 10163-2783 Phone: (212) 388-7022
•  
• Hellfire Club; 28 9th Ave. (14th St. and 9th Ave.), Manhattan Phone: (212)647-0063
• Lesbian Sex Mafia
• Long Island Ravens; women's group, c/o Long Island Eagles, 94 North Clinton, Bay Shore NY 11706.
• New York Area S/M Activists
• NLA New York; P O Box 488 Triborough Station, New York, NY 10035
• New York Bondage Club; PO Box 20064 West Village New York NY 10014, Phone: 212-620-ROPE(7673)
• New York Metro D&S Singles; #21 3395 Nostrand Ave. Brooklyn NY 11229.
• NY Renegades; (play parties, men's group)
• Paddles; clean, friendly BDSM club 250 West 26th Street, NYC (212) 629-1854
• Peter Boots' Gay Leather SM Fetish Guide to NYC
• Queens BDSM Munch
• Staten Island Munch; contact Mazie or call (718) 815-1358
• The Vault; (BDSM club) 565 West 23rd Street, Manhattan Phone: (212) 255-6758
• Without Restraint
• Long Island Munch: Mailing list at LIMunch@onelist.com
• Long Island Leather N Roses: pansexual weekly discussion group; parties. Contact LI_Leather_N_Roses@onelist.com for information.
• Rochester:
• Rochester Kink Society; RKS is a BDSM social organization in Rochester, NY where individuals network, teach, learn, share, discuss and safely practice BDSM and kink.Phone: 716-234-5295
• TrustBound; adult couple's group
• Poughkeepsie:
• Hudson Valley Munch; email Monstie114@aol.com for info
• Syracuse: 
• SyracuseDsSociety ~A local BDSM group with a Yahoo Group

 

• Utica: 

      Utica Kink Society (UKS) is a social/educational group for the Central NY

      Region.  Founded in October 2000, our motto is "Consensual Kink".

      www.uticakinksociety.org  Contact us for information on our munches,

      parties and educational events. Email: Uticakinksociety@yahoo.com

• SyracuseDsSociety ~A local BDSM group with a Yahoo Group

 

 

• North Carolina

 

 

• Asheville:
• The Asheville Area Group; pansexual social group. Address: TAAG, PO Box 2372, Leicester, NC 28748.

 

     MaST (Masters and Slaves Together) - No contact information is available,

      however this is believed to be an active chapter.

• Western Carolinas Alternative Lifestyle Lovers
• Carteret/Craven County:
• CCMunch; pansexual munch/play group for those in the Carteret/Craven county area of North Carolina interested in the D/s BDSM lifestyle.
• Charlotte:
• Charlotte Area Power Exchange; a not-for-profit pansexual organization in the south central Piedmont area of North Carolina for people who share an interest in BDSM.
• Tradesmen, Inc; men's group, P.O. Box 36712, Charlotte NC 28204.
• Fayetteville:
• Fayetteville Area Power Exchange; Pansexual BDSM group in the Sandhills of North Carolina. Website requires Shockwave.
• Greensboro:

 

      North Carolina Littles Munch - Age Players

       

• Piedmont:
• SPANK; Southern Piedmont Advocates of Negotiated Kink, Email: spank@spank-nc.org
• Raleigh-Durham:
• Dark Shadow
• Triangle Area Munch and Social Group Mailing list: To subscribe to the mail-list, send email to majordomo@psicorps.org and put "subscribe triangle" for general list and "subscribe tri-ann" for the announcements only list without the quote marks in the body of the message. To UNsubscribe, same thing but use unsubscribe.
  Further questions to: mountain@magenta.com
• Wilmington:
• CROP
• Menamore Levi Leather Club; contact email Menamore@aol.com
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  North Dakota

   

• The Northern Munch Fargo - a non-threatening way to meet and talk with people in the lifestyle in a public forum. Casual nonfetish dress is appropriate and appreciated. Info: softgntl4u@aol.com

• TriState PX Group - Fargo - There will be munches and/or play parties and demos monthly. Most will be based in the Fargo area with some munches in Wahpeton and play parties

 

 

Did you know, the Asj Community hosts ‘Dominant submissive and BDSM Lifestyle Classes and Discussions’ here online every Sunday evening at 9:00 pm Eastern Time.  The Classes and Discussions are open to all and Free to attend.  Visit our Members Only Pages for more information, or click any of our “ask live” icons to ask for more information.

 

 

 

• Ohio

 

• Ohio Leather Festival
• PEER-Group: (formerly PEP-Ohio), email contact@BDSM-PEERGroup.com
• Akron:
• Leather & Lace Society, c/o Mike Price, 4758 Ridge Road #105, Brooklyn OH 44144
• Cincinnati:
• MAsT ( Masters And slaves Together), Cincinnati Chapter, P.O Box 6452 Florence, KY 41022 Phone: 606-283-2731, Email: MAsTCinti@aol.com

 

     PEER-Group (formerly PEP-Ohio) a support group for adults interested in Dominance and submission, Bondage and Discipline, fetish activities, transgender dressing, and other alternative lifestyles involve an erotic power exchange

• Cleveland:
• SMART; Email: ohiosmart@aol.com
• SMART OhioFemSub Special Interest Group: social and support group for female submissives in Northeast Ohio
• B.E.A.T. Productions: sponsors Monthly munches and Midweek munches in the greater Cleveland area.
• Leather & Lace Factory; an education, support and play group providing facts and fun of a D/s Lifestyle. Email leather_and_lace_factory@yahoo.com for info. (Note: While this website still appears active, there is no evidence of any updates since May 2000.  If you are aware of any information about this group/oranization please let us know)
• Columbus:
• Adventures in Sexuality -AIS is the Central Ohio Based, Social and Educational Fun Group! We are here to bring support, excitement, interest, and a forum for those who have their interests in both open and honest relationships / polyamory and Kink / B.D.S.M. Furthermore, this is a group for those who express themselves in whatever "Kink" or manifestation they desire.
• Briar Rose; women's group, P.O. Box 16235, Columbus, OH 43216
• NLA Columbus; National Leather Assoication Columbus, PO Box 2763, Columbus, Ohio, 43216 Phone: (614) 898-6266
• Mid Ohio Rose and Leather (MORAL); meetings, munches, parties & more
• Dayton:
• Dayton BDSM Support Group

 

 

• Toledo: 
• Power & Trust; Email: PWRnTRUST@aol.com
• Tri State Area Power Exchange(TAPE): new munch for the WV/KY/OH area
• Oklahoma
• Oklahoma City:
• PEP Oklahoma; pansexual BDSM & fetish group
• OPEP; Oklahoma People's Exchanging Power--pansexual , panfetish BDSM group.
• NLA-OKC

 

     Tribal Fire - An annual event produced by the Oklahoma City Chapter of

       the National Leather Association.  See website for schedule and details.

 

• Tulsa:
• Tulsa Dungeon Society; munches and play parties - Tulsa Dungeon Society is the oldest pansexual BDSM and Leather organization in Oklahoma. Our goal is to be a communication, information, education and support network for members of the local BDSM/Leather community.
• Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association; T.U.L.S.A. is a place for people interested in leather, uniform and levi lifestyles to meet and socialize.

   

• Oregon
• Oregon State University:
• The Evangelical Perv Association
• Portland:
• Bad Girls; women's group, P O Box 17254, Portland, OR 97217-0254 -Bad Girls of Portland, Oregon is a social and educational group for women interested in BDSM with other women. We welcome self-identified women over 18 of all sexual orientations who are interested in consensual BDSM with other women.
• Blackout Leather Productions
• Chaps; men's group
• Portland Leather Alliance; PO Box 5161, Portland, OR 97208 Phone: (503) 727-3148  This organization was formerly known as National Leather Association-Portland.
• Portland Leathermen; c/o Blake Walker, 5418 N. Amherst St., Portland OR 97203.
• Rose City Discussion Club
• MAsT: Pacific Northwest; MAsT is a support group for individuals involved in, or interested in, the Master/slave, dominant/submissive lifestyle. It is an opportunity and forum for like-minded individuals to come together for discussion of issues of concern, to share ideas and gain/share knowledge of the M/s, D/s lifestyle. Everyone is welcome. There is no requirement to be in a M/s or D/s relationship to attend meetings.  MAsT: Portland serves the Portland metropolitan area including Southwest Washington. Open to all who are interested in M/s, D/s relationships. Meetings third Sunday of the month from 4:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m., held at The Catalyst Art & Cultural Space, 4810 NE Garfield St., Portland, Oregon. Contact slave candiace for more information.

   

• Whipper-Snappers is a group dedicated to welcoming and mentoring the 18-30 crowd into the local BDSM community, and promoting education for all ages. Whipper Snappers is a pan-sexual group open to all ages and has events every month. Anyone is welcome to attend public events, but some events are for members only.

• 
• Pennsylvania

 

 

• Allentown:
• Leather, Bondage & Whips
• Apollo:
• Woodsstocks; 

  WoodsStocks is a pan sexual and sex- positive BDSM camping event located just an hour south of Pittsburgh PA.  Every July, the event opens on 50 acres of private property and includes 4 days and 3 nights of camping, playing, workshops, vendors, games, and socialization. Attendees from 9 states and Canada have come to call WoodsStocks their kinky vacation get away. Whether you are a seasoned WoodsStocker, or an unseasoned newbie, you are welcomed into the biggest, friendliest, and welcoming family this side of the Ohio River

• Central PA:
• Central Penn Alternative Lifestylers
• Erie:
• Erie Power Exchange; email KS for info.
• Greensburg:
• The Alpha Group; support and education group based in Westmoreland county.
• Harrisburg:
• Harrisburg_PA BDSM; munch group, meets RL, but also runs a mailing list and IRC channel.
• Hazleton:
• Hazelton munch group in development, contact Mistress Dawn.
• Indiana:
• Female Supremacy; P.O. Box 1048, Indiana PA 15701
• Lancaster:
• Alternative Expressions ; Pansexual online/rl support/social organization based in south central Pennsylvania. Holds bi weekly munches and bi monthly socials/parties, as well as monthly workshops.
• Morrisville:
•  PEP New Brunswick; P.O. Box 812, Morrisville, PA 19067 Phone: (215)552-8155
• Philadelphia:
• Dark Sanctuary; pansexual couple's BDSM group.
• Behind the Scenes; private pansexual BDSM & alternative lifestyles organization
• Defender's Philadelphia: catholic gay/lesbian leather group
• Obzine; free monthly alternative newspaper, also holds parties for different lifestyles, including BDSM.
• Female Trouble; women's group, P.O. Box 2284, Philadelphia, PA 19103-0284
• PAP; monthly member-only play parties, email papmeeting@hotmail.com for details
• PAST; femdom munch group, email for info
• Philadelphia Bondage Club; men's group, P.O. Box 40602, Philadelphia PA 19107. Email: philabc@aol.com
• Pocono Warriors; men's group, P.O. Box 54138, Philadelphia, PA 19105
• Tribes; femdom private play & meeting group
• Pittsburgh:
• Woodsstocks; (Apollo, PA) pansexual munch group
• Pittsburgh Bondage Club; P.O. Box 8033, Pittsburgh PA 15216.

 

     PLAN - Pittsburgh Leather Archives for Newcomers PLAN is a Pittsburgh

      based pansexual, social, and common interest organization that serves as

      a gateway to the D/s, Leather, and Alternative lifestyle communities. It is

     non-commercial, non-profit and dues-free. It exists to provide a positive and

     dynamic environment for people to meet others with a similar interest in

     bondage, domination, submission, sadism, masochism, body art, and

     other erotic or related topics. 

• Three Rivers Munch; pansexual fetish group with meetings the 2nd Monday of the month.
• Tri-State Couples Club; Suite 258 20120-Rte 19, Cranberry Township, Pa 16066 Email: geotscc@sgi.net
• Cranberry Meet & Greet; meets once a month, email darkchyldesgirl@hotmail.com for info.
• Wild-O; munch group based in the South Hills.
• Bartonsville (The Poconos):
• Scranton:
• NE PA Leathermen; PO Box 1492, Scranton, PA 18501
• York:

 

 

• Rhode Island
• Providence:
• Aces; P.O. Box 261, Annex Station, Providence RI 02901.
•  
• RI Enforcers: leather group for gay men, bi people, TGs and lesbians, dedicated to being a brotherhood/sisterhood in leather and raising funds for local AIDS charities.
• Social Eyes; private BDSM club
• Yielding To Be Bound; dungeon parties every Friday night
•  

   

 

• South Carolina
• Charleston:
• 3D Munch Group; discussion list & munch group
• Clemson:
• Columbia:
•  
• This Thing That We Do; a pansexual BDSM support and education group serving Columbia, SC and the surrounding area. Subscribe to the e-mail list or e-mail T3WD@hotmail.com
• BDSM at the University of South Carolina ; pansexual bdsm discussion group
• Greenville:
• LOCK; Email ListmgrSCLOCK@Aol.Com for more info.
• Greenwood County:
• Comp'ny Good Haven; a safe place for folks of Greenwood County, S.C., and the surrounding area, who share a common interest BDSM to come together to share information and ideas.
• Myrtle Beach:
• MBBDSM; mailing list, online chat & munches
•  

   

 

• South Dakota

 

 

• sdbdsm - Sioux Falls - This is a group for people interested in sharing ideas and thoughts about BDSM, and any other alternative lifestyles, that live in the general area of Sioux Falls, SD with monthly munches and weekly chat nights on Thursdays at 9:00PM CDT.
• South_Dakota_BDSM A mailing list for all those interested in the BDSM Lifestyle who live in South Dakota, this list is pretty much a howdy get to know you kinda thing for people like my self to meet others interested in the lifestyle so come on in pull up a chair and stay a while

• TriStateBDSM_lifestyle - This is a local BD/SM-alternative lifestyle group based mainly out of Sioux Falls, SD. We welcome members from SE South Dakota, SW Minnesota, NW Iowa and NE Nebraska. 18+

 

 

• Tennessee

 

 

• Central TN:
• Central TN Spankers; email traynedman@traynedman.com for info.
• Chattanooga:
• St. Bethlehem:
• PEP Tennessee; P O Box 174, St. Bethlehem, TN 37155
• Knoxville:
• The Smoky Mountain Power Exchange - The Smoky Mountain Power Exchange (SMPEx) is a pansexual organization of people 21 and over. The goal of SMPEx is to provide a forum for the BDSM (B/D & D/S & S/M) and Fetish communities in East Tennessee and surrounding areas. We do this by sponsoring support, education, and social events that demonstrate safe, sane and consensual activities.
  
• Memphis:
•  
• Nashville:
• Nashville Dungeon Society; contact: Jamese@bellsouth.net
• Rose-N-Thorn; support & social group
• Nashville Alternative Lifestyle Group; pansexual munch group, meets twice a month. Contact Dellicate@aol.com,
•  zidestiz@aol.com, or NashAltLife@yahoo.com for more info.
•  Tri-Cities Tennessee Munch Group
  

   

   

• TEXAS
• Austin:
• The Group With No Name
• NLA Austin
• Central Texas-TNG; pansexual support /discussion /educational/social group for people age 18-35 who are into or interested in BDSM.
• Beaumont:
• Dallas:
•  The Bound Rose Society; The Bound Rose Society based in the Dallas area.  The Bound Rose Society is a pansexual group of mature adults that practice safe, sane, and consensual behavior in regards to all BDSM activities
•  
• Flying W's; women's group, P O Box 345485, Dallas, TX 75234

 

• Knot Just Leather: munch and playparty group
• NLA-Dallas; P.O. Box 7597, Dallas TX 75209
• PEP-Dallas; Phone: (214) 504-8899 Email: dallaspep@hotmail.com
• Spankee's: swinger's club, but hosts BDSM nights every other Sunday
• WICK'D: Women In Control of Kink--Dallas; femdom and male sub group, meets 2nd saturday of every month.
• El Paso:
• El Paso Coffee Munch; email elpasomunch-owner@yahoogroups.com for info
• Friendswood:
• Houston:
• Crystal Rose Society; seminars, discussions and play parties
• Eden Social Club; private social & party club
• Eros; Erotic Rose Society
• Life after the Cross: monthly group discussion
• Houston People Exchanging Power
• NLA-Houston: P.O. Box 66553, Houston TX 77266
• Houston BDSM/Fetish page (see Houston People Exchanging Power)
• Third Friday: dinner events, with a playful evening afterwards
• Lubbock:
• BDSM Lubbock; email discussion list.
• McAllen-Brownsville-Harlingen area
• :Rio Grande Munch; email SirHam@aol.com for information or call (956)686-6436
• Pasadena
• :
•  Gulf Coast Power Exchange Group
• Rio Grande Valley:
•  Southern Jade; email southern74@xanadu2.net
• San Antonio:
• San Antonio S/Munch; P. O. Box 28361, San Antonio, TX 78228 Phone: 210-641-8153
• Central Texas Couples: D/s bdsm lifestyle group for committed couples.
• Waco:
• Whips and Chains of Texas; pansexual social group, hosts munches and private parties.

  Utah

   

• Utah
• Salt Lake City:
• Utah Powerplay, PO Box 521754, Salt Lake City, Utah 84152-1754
• Utah Power Exchange (UPEX); pansexual r/t group
• Wasatch Leathermen; men's group, P.O. Box 1311, Salt Lake City, UT 84110

 

•  

   

• Vermont
• Brattleboro/Keene NH:
• The Great New England Power Co-op; pansexual BDSM group, monthly munches and socials.
• Rose & Thorn Northern Vermont BDSM Parties; contact Submissive Sadie for details. This is a friendly gathering of people who are active in the Dominant/submissive lifestyle. This is an opportunity to meet friends (and singles) who are on the same page. This is NOT a "play" party but an opportunity to build a community of like-minded people.

•  

• Virginia
• Arlington:
• Black Rose; PO Box 11161, Arlington, VA 22210-1161. Phone: (202) 686-5880
• Blacksburg Munch; email for info
• NoVA Munch; Northern Virginia Munches, email for info
• Charlottesville:

 

     Charlottesville Underground Fetish Fellowship (CUFF) - a pansexual

      BDSM social and support organization based in Charlottesville, Virginia

 

 

• Richmond:

 

     Phyxios Mystique -  a Pansexual adult organization for persons interested

      in alternative lifestyles in Virginia and the surrounding states. You must

      be  21 years of age or older to participate. The goal of Phyxios Mystique is

      to provide people practicing BDSM and related lifestyles an outlet for self

      expression through education, social gatherings and networking

 

• Tidewater:
• The Power Exchange
• Tidewater Individuals Exploring Domination
• Tidewater BDSM; support group with play parties, chats, munches and demo's every month.

   

   

• Washington
• Bellingham:
• The Triskeli Guild
• Bremerton:
• Leather Thorn Society
• Olympia:
• Olympia Leather/SM Group; P.O. Box 11494, Olympia WA 98508.
• South Sound SM Leatherfolk; P.O. Box 11494, Olympia WA 98508.
• Seattle:
• C-Space Educational Forum; P.O. Box 28021, Seattle WA 98118.
• The Edge Forum
• Kinky Couples; 65 Southcenter Mall, Seattle, WA 98188
• Knights of Malta Jet Chapter; P.O. Box 21052, Seattle WA 98111.

 

• Northwest Bears; men's group
• Northwest Bondage Club; 1122 E. Pike Street #1212, Seattle WA 98122.
• Northwest Leather Goddesses; 1122 E. Pike Street, #687, Seattle WA 98122.
• Outer Limits; women's group, P.O. Box 22805, Seattle, WA 98122
• The Men's Welcoming Committee
• Renegade Bears; men's group
• The Rose n Thorn Society
• Seattle Femme Domme society: holds munches, invitation-only workshops. Contact ms_thorn7@yahoo.com or dosmtrs@yahoo.com
• Seattle Men in Leather
• Seattle Munch
• Sisters in Slavery; sub fem group
• Sisters of Sin (SOS)
• Southend Social Club; holds munches in Auburn and Tacoma
• The Wet Spot; community center, has men's, women's, and pansexual events
• The Women's Welcoming Committee
• Spokane:
• SPeX & Co. BDSM; pansexual BDSM munches
• Townsend:
• New World Rubbermen; 1602 Lincoln, Townsend WA 98368.
• Tri-Cities:
• Tri-Cities WA BDSM; pansexual munches, seminars and demonstrations
• MAsT: Pacific Northwest; Masters and slaves support group for Washington & Oregon

 

 

• Washington D.C.
• Black Rose; PO Box 11161, Arlington, VA 22210-1161. Phone: (202) 686-5880
• Bound: fetish, Goth, Industrial club, light BDSM play and lots of fetish gear and vendors. Locations in DC and Baltimore, home base is in DC.
• The Crucible: BDSM nightclub, email or call 202-310-2100
• DC Spanking; pansexual email list
• Defenders; Catholic Leather Group, P O Box 33098, Washington, DC 20033
• First of the Month Munch; email for info.
• The Men of Discipline; PO Box 21090, Washington, DC 20009
• PEP-Washington DC; P.O. Box 1160, Arlington VA 22210
•  
• The Power Exchange
• The Resource Pool; education and discussion group for the DC, VA, and MD area. Also holds workshops.
• SIGMA; men's leather/bdsm/bondage social group, call (202)728-7589 for the Hotline, or email Sigmadc@aol.com for more info.

   

• West Virginia
• Clarksburgh/Bridgeport:
• WELTS; pansexual munch & support group
•  
• Glengary:
• WHIP; educational and social pansexual leather group
• Tri State Area Power Exchange(TAPE): new munch for the WV/KY/OH area
• Wheeling:
• WV Meet and greet, email bbw4urcmnd@aol.com for info.

   

   

• Wisconsin
• Madison:
• Satyricon; non-profit, pansexual group that supports the free and open exploration of safe, sane, and non-exploitative BDSM as practiced by consenting adults.
• Milwaukee:
• DAMES; women's group, P O Box 1272, Milwaukee, WI 98122
• Oberon's Levi/Leather Club; gay leather club
•  

   

 

• Wyoming

 

 

• The Cheyenne Munch Club The club was formed to create a safe and comfortable setting for people in the BDSM and D/s community to join together, exchange ideas, and hopefully to make new friends. Munches usually 3rd sat of each month

 

     ClubFEM (Central Wyoming Chapter) -  ClubFEM® is a social

      organization composed of individuals who want to develop sincere Female

      dominant/male submissive relationships.

 

• LICKS - Local In Casper Kink Scene - A BDSM, D/s, Fetish Group that is centered in Casper, Wyoming. The group meets casually on Thursday nights in a local lounge for drinks and conversation. There is a monthly Munch/Play Party/Demo on the first Saturday of most months. This group is about real life, living in the Lifestyle, and most of the members are 24/7. LICKS is about developing Community and Support, and there is a yahoo group that is open to all, and a FemDom group, (FDOM). Your profile must contain age, gender and general location. The Thurs night Meets are open to anyone in or interested in the lifestyle.

 

 

 

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