A submissives journey

Chapter 1
The Asj Community

Chapter 2
Resource Information

Chapter 3
Subbie's Couch

Chapter 4
The Dom's Lounge

Chapter 5

The Library

Chapter 6
BDSM

Chapter 7

Useful Links

Chapter 8
Members share their thoughts

Chapter 9

Members Only

Chapter 10
Asj's Site Index

Chapter 11
Asj's Book Store

Chapter 12
Recommended Reading List

P.M.S. AND THE SUBMISSIVE

When the word "PMS" is heard, most think, yea right! To a female and especially a female submissive this can be an extremely trying time. Along with the normal bloating, headaches, body aches, chills and cramping, she has mood swings just like any other female. The only difference is, she has rules to follow as far as to her attitude and mannerisms. This can cause a major problem if the Master or Mistress is unaware of her mental state at this time.

A sudden snappy remark may be misconstrued as a sign of disrespect. When in fact it is not. The chemical changes a females body goes through are tremendous and effect her in more ways than one. She may take statements made by her Master or Mistress the wrong way and get her feelings hurt. Though the Master or Mistress never meant it to come across that way. The submissive may become withdrawn and say things that she later regrets and finds embarrassing to recall. Not knowing how to explain the reason for her actions she feels a bit ashamed for something that she really had no true control over.

This is something to many neglect to discuss with each other, both the Master/Mistress as well as the submissive. A smart thing might be to make a note of " THAT TIME OF THE MONTH" and place it near by so one can always keep in mind what is going on with the body of the submissive at that point. During this time it would be to both parties benefit to exercise extra caution. This is a not one way street and both the Master/ Mistress and the submissive must share the road. Neither party should feel that they are being shoved into the ditch. Instead walking hand and hand is a much better alternative.

Did you know, the Asj Community hosts ‘Dominant submissive and BDSM Lifestyle Classes and Discussions’ here online every Sunday evening at 9:00 pm Eastern Time. The Classes and Discussions are open to all and Free to attend. Visit our Members Only Pages for more information, or click any of our “ask live” icons to ask for more information.

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