According to Kinsey's research,
18% of ladies find the idea of being spanked
erotic and actually have enjoyed being spanked. Who knows how many
more would like to be but have missed out?
Perhaps our starting point is defining our boundaries. Our parameters are the application of the hand,
paddle, cane or other mutually agreed instrument to the female
posterior. Striking anywhere else, using such force that skin is
broken or restraint is outside our limits.
One interesting aspect of this scene is the difference between the two sides of the bedroom door. Many ladies who enjoy being spanked are in high pressure, authoritative
jobs. Spanking is to them a marvelous escape; (Of course it works
the other way round as well!) a conceding of control to someone else
for a short period of time!
Of course to deny that spanking has strong sexual overtones is absurd. Any experienced spanker will vouch for
the fact that spanking generates powerful erotic responses. It is undeniable that many women, frigid in straight sex, will orgasm
rapidly following a spanking. Some women will even "cum"
during a spanking. Of course, some of it is a straight physical
effect. Writhing around clearly stimulates the clitoris, and the heat
of a red bottom flows through the body. But there is also a strong mental aspect, as the mixture of pain and pleasure acts as a massive cerebral stimulant. It is the basis of masturbatory fantasies for
weeks to come.
Hand spanking is the start of most games; Skin on skin is very powerful and very intimate. The
experienced spanker always starts slowly and builds, in speed and
intensity. A slowly warmed bottom increases the lady's pleasure in
every way; the final crescendo will be that much more satisfying!
Self-evidently, in a first session where the two people are in the early stage of a relationship, it may
be better to start with smacking over a dress or trousers, then move
onto the panties and finally the bare as a natural progression.
In due course, in any relationship, the participants will move onto heavier toys. Of course, the sensations will be that much more intense, leading to higher levels of pleasure. The idea of bending over for six of the best with the cane
can be a very exciting experience for a lady, perhaps also
representing a way of assuaging guilt, driven into her by religious
teachings. Watch her caress her stripes!
Anyone who thinks that spanking is a
form of misogynism should ask those ladies who finally experience long
awaited sexual pleasure after years of failure with straight sex! Make
no mistake about the sexual power of adult spanking!
