Requirements for Your Slave or Submissive
a Dominant's Guide
(A note from CJ: As a
reminder, each D/s or M/s relationship is unique. This is
posted as nothing more than a guide or suggestion, something to
start you thinking and deciding what is best for you! These
requirements may or may not be right for you or your relationship.
Use this as a guide, nothing more. Implement it, modify it,
ignore it… that choice is up to you and what is right for your
I have given you a lot of tips on how to
train your sex slave or submissive and what tools to use. Today I
will be sharing the protocols normally reserved for 24/7 submissives
and slaves. Some of these will be fairly standard and have been
taken from erotic fiction but some of these are
very unique to the owner and should show you that deciding what
the rules and protocols are should be the owner's decision. I will
be breaking up the requirements in different categories and in some
instances, when something is clear I will not even use further
explanation. It is my hope that this guide will help you enhance
your submissive or slave's service to you.
In private/ At home with no one else present:
1. Slave should always remove
clothing as soon as she/he gets home unless Master/ Mistress has
laid out clothing for the slave or submissive to wear.
2. Slave should fold clothes
neatly or place them in the laundry whenever he/
3. The slave or submissive is to
kneel in present posture whenever the Master/ Mistress is due to
arrive and wait quietly.
4. Whenever the Master/ Mistress is
present in a room, the slave must ask permission to enter in the
following fashion: "Would it please you if your slave entered
5. The slave will kneel in the room
until the Master/ Mistress gives permission that he or she may
move or proceed with cleaning.
6. The slave or submissive will wear
and gratefully accept any toys the Master/ Mistress chooses to
insert or adorn her or him with while cleaning or in any other
7. The slave will not speak unless
spoken to and may request an opportunity to speak if there is
something pressing to discuss during those periods of time when
the Master/ Mistress commands silence.
8. The slave or submissive may
request an opportunity to serve the Dominant in the following
way: "Would it please you to have your slave serve you?"
9. The slave does not sleep with the
Master/ Mistress unless it is the express wish of the owner and
then this must be seen as a privilege. It can be taken away as a
form of punishment.
10. The slave or submissive will
always thank the Master/ Mistress for an opportunity to serve
whether it was doing a chore or being flogged.
11. The slave will keep their eyes
averted unless it is the wish of the Master/ Mistress to have
their slave look them in the eyes.
12. The slave will address the
Master/ Mistress not by their first name, but by the title
preferred by that dominant.
1. A slave will receive visitors at
the door with whatever clothing the Master or Mistress
2. A slave will greet visitors in
whatever way the Master/ Mistress commands - this may include
just taking coats and putting them away, kissing the hand of the
guest or kneeling in front of them.
3. A slave will not refer to anyone
using his or her first name. A slave will use the title Sir or
Ma'am combined with their name to differentiate and to make sure
that he or she remembers her or his place.
4. A slave will serve every person
with food and drinks as requested, kneeling to each as the food
or drinks are presented.
5. A slave will not use furniture
and will kneel on the floor until her or his services are
6. A slave will not speak unless
7. A slave will remain attentive to
make sure that no one has to ask for additional food or drink. A
slave should be ready before the command is issued.
8. A slave must use high protocol
when commanded to do so. This means that the slave will not use
first person language when referring to him or herself and will
address everyone present with the honorific given to those free.
1. A slave must always ask
permission before using the bathroom or taking a shower.
2. The bathroom door may never be
closed in private, as a slave has no right to privacy.
3. The slave must accept it calmly
when the owner decides that a bathroom break will not be allowed
at that very moment.
1. Punishment and or discipline take
precedence over any other command.
2. A slave must show gratitude for
punishment and or discipline.
3. A slave must take correction
gracefully and maintain a grateful presence around the house
after the fact.
4. A slave must confess to
disobedience and take responsibility even when the dominant is
not present and beg for punishment and or discipline.
5. A slave must always maintain the
punishment position in these cases.
1. The slave must be available for
sexual service whenever the dominant or his guests require it.
2. The slave must always be ready
for any form of sexual service, which would mean that her or his
body must be prepared in order to make it easy for the dominant
or guests to use him or her.
3. The slave will not be allowed to
have an orgasm without permission.
4. The slave will shave any body
hair and maintain this at all times. Failure to do so will
result in punishment.
5. The slave will be clean and
pleasant to all the senses at all times.
6. The slave is not allowed to touch
her or his owner's property without permission in any sexual
These are but a few of the requirements
that some slaves live by. The list is extensive and could be
lengthened quite easily. It is always a good idea to have
requirements regarding online privileges and privacy, interaction
with others not in the lifestyle, which would include hand signals
etc. In the end it is the decision of the dominant what this list
would include. My dominant makes me read my list of requirements
daily to ensure that I do not fail in my service to him.
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