A submissives journey - The Dom's Register

A submissives journey

Chapter 1
The Asj Community

Chapter 2
Resource Information

Chapter 3
Subbie's Couch

Chapter 4
The Dom's Lounge

Chapter 5

The Library

Chapter 6
BDSM

Chapter 7

Useful Links

Chapter 8
Members share their thoughts

Chapter 9

Members Only

Chapter 10
Asj's Site Index

Chapter 11
Asj's Book Store

Chapter 12
Recommended Reading List

Dom's Registry

As you've probably observed, there are many girls that come to A submissives journey to learn about this lifestyle and find their ultimate place within our midst. We all know, we've seen the "wannabe's" and "cyber jerks" that seem to abound on the internet. A novice submissive is generally quite vulnerable and frequently finds themselves inundated with whispers, e-mail messages and taunts from individuals claiming to be the one true "Master Almighty" that is here to take control of the girl and "teach" her of the lifestyle.

In an effort to help these novice submissives and slaves to find someone to mentor, teach, or guide them, and in some cases, to even take control of the girl, we have established our submissive / slave registry. Here a girl can provide basic information about herself. This information is compared to the information provided by Dominants participating in our Dom's Registry. Similar to the practices of what is referred to as a dating service, we try to match up a Dominant and a submissive with someone that has the potential of fulfilling their needs.

Assuming responsibility for a slave or submissive is a big step. This responsibility is an obligation and commitment that can easily be compared to the responsibilities involved with having a child. Time, energy and finances will be expended, you need to be aware of and prepared for this. A D/s relationship should not be entered into or taken lightly. If you are only looking for a one night stand, or someone to play with occasionally, you are not looking for a D/s relationship, rather you are looking to be a Top in a BDSM relationship. There is nothing wrong with seeking that type of relationship as long as you and the girl involved know the difference and both understand the intent of the relationship. These are two separate and completely different aspects of this lifestyle.

If you consider Yourself to truly be a Dominant, not just a Top and You're looking to either assist others in the lifestyle, or perhaps even looking for a girl, the Dominants Registry here on the Asj website might be just the place for you. Please consider taking the time to join our registry, but again, I urge you only to consider this if You are seriously interested in the lifestyle.

A submissives journey will take every reasonable effort to verify

information provided by an applicant, whether Dominant or

submissive/slave. Prior to applying, know and understand that

A submissives journey will contact you telephonically to verify information you have provided.   At our discretion, this may (and usually will) involve a personal face to face meeting AT YOUR RESIDENCE to verify you are who and what you say you are.   If you do not have adequate facilities to house a submissive or slave, an introduction will not be forthcoming.    Because of cost and travel restrictions, unfortunately at this time we are only able to coordinate a visit within the continental United States and some areas of Canada.

Your length of time in this lifestyle will not qualify you nor will it disqualify you for participation in our registry program. Priority in consideration will be given to those that have joined the Asj Members Only Community (regardless of whether a free trial, or paid member)as this will also provide us with an opportunity to get to know you in the online environment). However, do not waste our time applying if you meet any of the following criteria:

Do not apply if:

                       You have a history of physical or sexual abuse
                       You have any outstanding warrants for your arrest
                       You are married or separated and your spouse

does not know of your seeking a submissive

or slave

You have a history of alcohol or drug abuse
You are unwilling to provide a doctors statement

on request indicating you are free of any

sexually transmitted disease
You do not have the financial wherewithal to

provide for a slave or submissive

You are not at least 21 years of age

All information provided to Asj will remain strictly confidential and will not be shared with anyone without your prior consent. You are notobligated to accept any girl, submissive or slave unless you and the girl are in full agreement. No introductions will be coordinated without prior approval of both the Dominant and the slave / submissive.

Should you have any additional questions or comments about our procedures or the intent of this registry program, feel free to contact Me to discuss this further. If this program interests you and you meet the criteria indicated, I'll look forward to receiving your application.

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