A submissives journey

TreyDaddy caused me to think with his post and he hit the nail on the head when I stopped and did some self-evaluation of how I go about being a Master. Of course, over time, I have learned some great lessons about keeping it simple. Thanks Brytta and M Carl for the lessons.

I do not take the route of thinking that dungeons and all the extra accoutrements are needed to help a slave learn submission. Oh, I use many different things myself and, like many, have my favorites because I am comfortable and familiar with them; however, I focus on the simple. The poem today is one such "simple" task and it required nothing extra to accomplish. The "simple" is sometimes the hardest to achieve especially as a slave journeys into their submission and is learning to TRUST their Master and what the rewards are for serving and pleasing. For me, it is not the sexual needs or wants that drive me. I CRAVE the submission. Seeing, feeling, touching, smelling pure and total submission is the reward. For my slave it becomes the total submission and all the things that come with that emotionally, mentally and physically and which I try and provide to them. Simple things can bring the greatest growth for the slave. It adds to their self worth and growth because they are able to accomplish what you have set out for them to accomplish. I am not easy on the slave but I know the importance of giving them things they can accomplish.

Yeah, I like simple.

(Written as a comment to different reactions to the poem

You are Pleasing to Me)

September 2000

Kaska

(posted here with permission of the author)

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