A submissives journey, Site Map
index to postings and pages
The Asj Website site index is currently undergoing a major revision, please have patience as these new changes are implemented. This listing may include topics other than the subject areas you are looking for. We hope to have this issue corrected shortly. Scroll down to see the list of articles and topics currently available on the Asj Website. Additional topics are continually being added so check back often.
For those of you of Gorean influence, I invite you visit our Gorean pages
There are so many things to read, so many resources available to you. Don't limit yourself to just the articles in this section, be sure to look at the articles listed in the section "for those in the lifestyle" and other topics as well. As your time permits, you'll find there are a great many resources available to you on this website as well as others. As you visit these pages, you'll find additional links to other pages here on the site.
CJ
The Acid Test ~ Finding a Real Dominant vs. a Wannabe..
Advice for the submissive (A must read if you are new online!)
A submissives creed (transcript of from chat log)
Accepting Collars to soon, A true story about
Dealing with your Anger as a submissive
The Distinct Phases of Stripping Away to Total Submission
Domestic Violence in the SM Community (BDSM D/s)
Domestic Violence Support Telephone Numbers
Dominance and submission ~ A Power Exchange Relationship
Do You Have a Dominant Partner?
The First Meeting (From virtual to real time)
Have you asked your Dominant,, ?
Kneeling...a few tips from the girls
Responsibilities of a submissive
Safe Calls, More on the subject
Safe Surfing - a story for children, yes, even those children over 21
Some thoughts for those seeking to know their submission
submissive reboundA submissive/slaves role
Temporary Consensual Agreement
Ten Things femsubs do to Mess Up Their Lives
Things to know about approaching a Dominant
Was That Dominant Or Was That Rude?
What Makes a Great Dominant Partner for a submissive
Writing a Kinky Relationship Into Being
Asj's Recommended journal website
Contracts ~ Do I really need a contract?
Discussion of Dominance and submission
Does D/s interfere with communication?
Domestic Abuse/Violence Help Resources
Dominance and submission: A Dom's Point of View
From virtual to real time, the first meeting
He said, she said; PMS and being a slave
Honorifics, Titles and Respect
How to enhance the Dominant or submissive traits of a vanilla partner
How (Some) Poly People Meet Each Other
Introducing your Partner to D/s
Is What I See On The Net Real?
Limitations and Personal Growth
Living D/s with children in the home
Living the Lifestyle within Reality: Part 1
Lubricant's - A Beginners Guide to
Polyamory - Asj's Community Message Board, a thread on the subject of Polyamory
Reducing the Risks of Meeting an Online Acquaintance
Service-Oriented Collar (Relationship)
slave vs. submissive, an opinion
The Pleasure of Pain - Why some people need S&M
(by Master Aegean)What is a D/s relationship? (by Rover)
What is and what makes a D/s relationship?
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