The Process of Selection
There is a general nostalgic and romantic
conception among Masters and slaves. It is the
conception of Masters going to a slave market,
and select a slave, or bid for a slave on
auction, after briefly inspecting them. The
selection of slaves here is made almost purely
on physical aspects and appearance.
While this might be an ancient tradition,
nostalgic and even romantic, it is a great
misconception in modern day consensual
slavery. A misconception so big that it leaves
many slaves, Masterless as a result.
It
is indeed the slave who first goes through the
selection progress, of carefully selecting a
suitable Master for her.
Yes, I know, this sounds absurd and upside
down, but this is the way it has to be.
The
process of selection is not unlike finding
employment. The employee (slave) first matches
her basic skills, capabilities, and experience
with those required by an employer (Master).
Once a suitable employer (Master) has been
located, the employee (slave) now proceeds in
applying (slave petition) for the employment.
After an application (slave petition) has been
received by an employer (Master), the employer
(Master) now proceeds to select the most
suitable applicants (slaves), for an
interview, and eventually hires (collars)
those, that match the employers (Master)
requirements, needs and wants.
As
unromantic as it sounds, the slave is
initially the only one who can properly judge
if she can meet, fulfill and serve a Masters
requirements, needs and wants, and match it
against her own desires.
Think about it realistically. With all the
demands, requirements and expectations a
Master has on a slave within an Absolute
Slavery, APE or TPE commitment, it is
imperative that a slave initially ensures
herself that she can meet what is asked of
her, without even being influenced by a Master
in any way or form.
No
Master, no matter how experienced or God-like
can initially make the needed judgments better
then the slave herself.
Once a Master has been located who service
requirements match the desires and
capabilities of the aspiring slave, she must
now start the most important task, to examine
the potential Masters values, principles,
standards, morals, ethics and beliefs and
contemplate in all seriousness if she truly
can serve the Master, absolutely and
unconditionally.
The
importance of the examination of character and
values of a potential Master cannot be
overstated, as a slaves live, health and well
being, might very well depend upon it.
A
slave needs to be aware that in Absolute
Slavery, or Absolute and Total Power Exchange,
the Master has the right to change, alter, or
modify his service requirements and
expectations, at any time, for any reason, and
at the Masters sole discretion.
A
Masters values, character, principles,
perceptions, etc. are therefore a must
important consideration, as they do not change
as easily as service requirements or kink.
Here are a few steps that might help the
slaves in their process of selection:
A.
Be aware of your own desires, needs and dreams
and write them down.
B.
Make a list of characteristics, values,
principles and conditions that you consider
most important in a Master.
C.
Make a list of characteristics and conditions
that you consider undesirable in a Master.
D.
Write down possible scenarios of a Master
slave commitment, that would be acceptable or
desirable to you.
E.
Be aware and write down what you have or can
offer a Master.
F.
Take the most important points from the
previous lists, and write them together as a
summary.
The
summary should now honestly reflect exactly
who you are, what your desires, needs and
dreams are, and what kind of commitment and
Master you are looking for.
Now
go and find a Master that matches with your
needs and desires, and once you found such
Master, do not hesitate for one moment, to
petition for service to the Master, and hope
that the Master now in turn will chose to get
to know you and ultimately will select you as
his slave from the petitions he receives.
Don't be afraid of rejection. It is not only a
process of selection, but also a process of
elimination. If a Master chooses not to accept
you as his slave, it might indeed be a good
thing. A Master too, does know what he needs
and desires. And if it doesn't fit for the
Master or the slave, there is little point of
trying to force it.
Posted here with permission of the author
Master Eso
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