There is a
general nostalgic and romantic conception amongst Masters and
slaves. It is the conception of Masters going to a slave market, and
select a slave, or bid for a slave on auction, after briefly
inspecting them. The selection of slaves here is made almost purely
on physical aspects and appearance.
While this
might be an ancient tradition, nostalgic and even romantic, it is a
great misconception in modern day consensual slavery. A
misconception so big that it leaves many slaves, Masterless as a
result.
It is indeed
the slave who first goes through the selection progress, of
carefully selecting a suitable Master for her.
Yes, I know,
this sounds absurd and upside down, but this is the way it has to
be.
The process of
selection is not unlike finding employment. The employee (slave)
first matches her basic skills, capabilities, and experience with
those required by an employer (Master). Once a suitable employer
(Master) has been located, the employee (slave) now proceeds in
applying (slave petition) for the employment. After an application
(slave petition) has been received by an employer (Master), the
employer (Master) now proceeds to select the most suitable
applicants (slaves), for an interview, and eventually hires
(collars) those, that match the employers (Master) requirements,
needs and wants.
As
unromantically as it sounds, the slave is initially the only one who
can properly judge if she can meet, fulfill and serve a Masters
requirements, needs and wants, and match it against her own
desires.
Think about it
realistically. With all the demands, requirements and expectations a
Master has on a slave within an Absolute Slavery, APE or TPE
commitment, it is imperative that a slave initially ensures herself
that she can meet what is asked of her, without even being
influenced by a Master in any way or form.
No Master, no
matter how experienced or God-like can initially make the needed
judgments better then the slave herself.
Once a Master
has been located who service requirements match the desires and
capabilities of the aspiring slave, she must now start the most
important task, to examine the potential Masters values, principles,
standards, morals, ethics and beliefs and contemplate in all
seriousness if she truly can serve the Master, absolutely and
unconditional.
The importance
of the examination of character and values of a potential Master
cannot be overstated, as a slaves live, health and wellbeing, might
very well depend upon it.
A slave needs
to be aware that in Absolute Slavery, or Absolute and Total Power
Exchange, the Master has the right to change, alter, or modify his
service requirements and expectations, at any time, for any reason,
and at the Masters sole discretion.
A Masters
values, character, principles, perceptions, etc. are therefore a
must important consideration, as they do not change as easily as
service requirements or kink.
Here are a few
steps that might help the slaves in their process of selection:
A. Be aware of
your own desires, needs and dreams and write them down.
B. Make a list
of characteristics, values, principles and conditions that you
consider most important in a Master.
C. Make a list
of characteristics and conditions that you consider undesirable in a
Master.
D. Write down
possible scenarios of a Master slave commitment, that would be
acceptable or desirable to you.
E. Be aware and
write down what you have or can offer a Master.
F. Take the
most important points from the previous lists, and write them
together as a summary.
The summary
should now honestly reflect exactly who you are, what your desires,
needs and dreams are, and what kind of commitment and Master you are
looking for.
Now go and find
a Master that matches with your needs and desires, and once you
found such Master, do not hesitate for one moment, to petition for
service to the Master, and hope that the Master now in turn will
chose to get to know you and ultimately will select you as his slave
from the petitions he receives.
Don't be afraid
of rejection. It is not only a process of selection, but also a
process of elimination. If a Master chooses not to accept you as his
slave, it might indeed be a good thing. A Master too, does know what
he needs and desires. And if it doesn't fit for the Master or the
slave, there is little point of trying to force it.
Posted here with permission of the author
Master Eso
