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Rules for a submissive
A BDSM or Dominant submissive (D/s) relationship is an intensely personal
You'll no doubt see many lists
rules and requirements for submissives.
are some who do follow these rules,
find fulfillment in that role. That's great
them, and maybe for you too... but
You and the
to serve will in all probability have a very unique
relationship. A Dominant submissive relationship that
is tailored to match your needs and desires with His.
Having a set of generic one size fits all rules won't insure
that your needs as a submissive are met, nor will it
guarantee compliance with His wishes and desires. As
you begin the process of communication with your Dominant,
He's almost certain to start making you aware of his
expectations and desires. He'll also start to become
aware of your needs. Based on these things as well as
others, your Dominant will begin to formulate His particular
list of rules for a submissive that are applicable to you
and you alone.
agree to follow a set of generic rules prepared by
that's your own decision, but bear
mind, there is no one right way except
one you find for yourself.
There are a few specific submissive rules that are pretty
much applicable to any submissive, especially a novice.
When you find that one special Dominant in all probability,
He will be expecting you to have been adhering to these
guidelines, or rules for a submissive. These
submissive rules can be found on our web page entitled
Rules for the submissive" another page you may find
related to rules for the submissives is our page entitled
Do's and Don'ts for the submissive. (click on the title to
follow the link)
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