A submissives journey

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Chapter 1
The Asj Community


Chapter 2
Resource Information 

 

 

Chapter 3
Subbie's Couch

 

Chapter 4
The Dom's Lounge


Chapter 5

 The Library

 

 

 

Chapter 6
BDSM

 

 

Chapter 7

 Useful Links

 

 

 

Chapter 8
Members share their thoughts

 

 

Chapter 9

 Members Only

 

 

 

Chapter 10
Asj's Site Index

 

 

Chapter 11
Asj's Book Store

 

 

 

Chapter 12
Recommended Reading List

 

 

 

 

 

 

 
 
Rules for a submissive

A BDSM or Dominant submissive (D/s) relationship is an intensely personal  experience. You'll no doubt see many lists  of rules and requirements for submissives. There are some who do follow these rules,  and find fulfillment in that role. That's great  for them, and maybe for you too... but  maybe not.

 

You and the Dominant you choose to serve will in all probability have a very unique relationship.  A Dominant submissive relationship that is tailored to match your needs and desires with His. 

 

Having a set of generic one size fits all rules won't insure that your needs as a submissive are met, nor will it guarantee compliance with His wishes and desires.  As you begin the process of communication with your Dominant, He's almost certain to start making you aware of his standards, expectations and desires.  He'll also start to become aware of your needs.  Based on these things as well as others, your Dominant will begin to formulate His particular list of rules for a submissive that are applicable to you and you alone. 

 

If you  jointly agree to follow a set of generic rules prepared by  others, that's your own decision, but bear  in mind, there is no one right way except  the one you find for yourself. 

 

There are a few specific submissive rules that are pretty much applicable to any submissive, especially a novice.  When you find that one special Dominant in all probability, He will be expecting you to have been adhering to these  guidelines, or rules for a submissive.  These submissive rules  can be found on our web page entitled "Some Rules for the submissive" another page you may find related to rules for the submissives is our page entitled Do's and Don'ts for the submissive. (click on the title to follow the link)

 

 

Did you know, the Asj Community hosts ‘Dominant submissive and BDSM Lifestyle Classes and Discussions’ here online every Sunday evening at 9:00 pm Eastern Time.  The Classes and Discussions are open to all and Free to attend.  Visit our Members Only Pages for more information, or click any of our “Member/Visitor Support” icons to ask for more information.

 

                                             

      

The meaning of submission             submissive - slave registry

A submissives creed                     submissives Do's and Don'ts

Responsibilities of a submissive     Finding your Dominant  

Questions for your Dominant        Safety in the lifestyle  

A submissives journal                        Asj Chat Rooms

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