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A submissives rule...
A BDSM or Dominant submissive (D/s) relationship is an intensely personal
experience.
You'll no doubt see many lists
of
rules and requirements for submissives.
There
are some who do follow these rules,
and
find fulfillment in that role. That's great
for
them, and maybe for you too... but
maybe
not.
You and the Dominant you
choose
to serve will in all probability have a very unique
relationship. A Dominant submissive relationship that
is tailored to match your needs and desires with His.
Having a set of generic one size fits all rules won't insure
that your needs as a submissive are met, nor will it
guarantee compliance with His wishes and desires. As
you begin the process of communication with your Dominant,
He's almost certain to start making you aware of his
standards,
expectations and desires. He'll also start to become
aware of your needs. Based on these things as well as
others, your Dominant will begin to formulate His particular
list of rules for a submissive that are applicable to you
and you alone.
If you
jointly
agree to follow a set of generic rules prepared by
others,
that's your own decision, but bear
in
mind, there is no one right way except
the
one you find for yourself.
There are a few specific submissive rules that are pretty
much applicable to any submissive, especially a novice.
When you find that one special Dominant in all probability,
He will be expecting you to have been adhering to these
guidelines, or rules for a submissive. These
submissive rules can be found on our web page entitled
"Some
Rules for the submissive" another page you may find
related to rules for the submissives is our page entitled
Do's and Don'ts for the submissive. (click on the title to
follow the link)
Did you know, the Asj Community hosts
‘Dominant submissive and BDSM Lifestyle Classes and Discussions’ here online every Sunday evening at
9:00 pm Eastern Time. The Classes and Discussions are open to all
and Free to attend.
Visit
our Members Only Pages for more information,
or click any
of our “LIve Chat” icons to ask for more information.
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