Rules for a submissive
A BDSM or Dominant submissive (D/s)
relationship is an intensely personal experience. You'll
no doubt see many lists of rules and requirements for
submissives. There are some who do follow those rules,
and find fulfillment in that role. That's great for
them, and maybe for you too... but maybe not.
You and the Dominant you choose to
serve will in all probability have a very unique relationship.
A Dominant submissive relationship that is tailored to match
your needs and desires with his.
Having a set of one size fits all
rules won't insure that your needs as a submissive are met,
nor will it guarantee compliance with His wishes and desires.
As you begin the process of communication your your Dominant,
He's almost certain to start making you aware of His
standards, expectations and desires. He'll also start to
become aware of your needs. Based on these things as
well as others, your Dominnt will begin to formulate His
particular list of rules for a submissive that are applicable
to you and you alone.
If you jointly agree to follow a set
of generic rules prepared by others, that's your own decision,
but bear in mind, there is no one right way except the one you
find for yourself.
There are a few specific submissive
rules that are pretty much applicable to any submissive,
especially a novice. When you find that ne special
Domiant, in all probability, He will be expecting you to know
and have been adhering to these guidelines, or "rules for a
submissive". Examples of these submissive rules
can be found here on the Asj web site on our page "Some Rules
for the submissive". Another page you may find of
interest and related to "Rules for the submissive" is our page
entitled "Do's and Don'ts for the submissive (click on the
title to follow the link)..
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