A submissives journey

A Master is an extension of a Dominant male; A Mistress is an extension of a Dominant female. I am just going to refer to the male Dominant (Master) in this section, but remember, this also applies to the Mistress.

Basically, you take a Dominant, give him years of experience and even more knowledge in the D/s lifestyle and you have a Master. To be titled a Master, it takes a lot of

years, many resources and countless experiences pertaining to and with submissives and slaves. A Master takes full advantage of the power he has obtained, but knows how to share the pleasure that comes from that powerful knowledge and control. He is traditional enough to be a bit of a chauvinist, yet modern enough to respect his submissive or slave. The master is well experienced in all aspects of the Dominant submissive (D/s) lifestyle and in BDSM, including safety. This is what I call a true Master

Many submissives/slaves in the lifestyle will call their Dominant "Master", once they receive his collar. This is not the "type" of Master I am referring to, if it were based on that, Master's could be as inexperienced as they like. A true Master is well experienced.

Many will claim to be a Master, but have only been practicing in the lifestyle for a little while, these are what I (and many others) will call wannabe Masters, and I feel they can be quite dangerous intentional or unintentional.

A true Master does have plenty of experience and immense knowledge, but he is always open minded and willing enough to learn new things

Let me clarify quickly, the difference between a true Master and a wannabe Master. A wannabe Master gets his title by taking it, a true Master gets his title by earning it.

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