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Chapter 3
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Chapter 4
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Chapter 5

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Chapter 6
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Chapter 7

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Chapter 12
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What is a Master? 

                                   by vixen

 A Master is an extension of a Dominant male; A Mistress

 is an extension of a Dominant female. I am just going to

 refer to the male Dominant (Master) in this section, but

 remember, this also applies to the Mistress.

 Basically, you take a Dom, give him years of experience

 and even more knowledge in the D/s lifestyle and you

 have a Master. To be titled a Master, it takes a lot of

 years, many resources and countless experiences

 pertaining to and with submissives and slaves. A Master

 takes full advantage of the power he has obtained, but

 knows how to share the pleasure that comes from that

 powerful knowledge and control. He is traditional enough

 to be a bit of a chauvinist, yet modern enough to respect

 his submissive or slave.  The master is well experienced

 in all aspects of the D/s lifestyle and in BDSM, including

 safety.  This is what I call a true Master

 Many submissives/slaves in the lifestyle will call their

 Dominant "Master", once they receive his collar.  This is

 not the "type" of Master I am referring to, if it were based

 on that, Master's could be as inexperienced as they like. 

 A true Master is well experienced.

 Many will claim to be a Master, but have only been

 practicing in the lifestyle for a little while, these are what I

 (and many others) will call wannabe Masters, and I feel

 they can be quite dangerous  intentional or unintentional.

 A true Master does have plenty of experience and

 immense knowledge, but he is always open minded and

 willing enough to learn new things

 Let me clarify quickly, the difference between a true

 Master and a wannabe Master. A wannabe Master gets

 his title by taking it, a true Master gets his title by earning

 it.

Dom's Creed

So You Want to be an Owner

What is a Dominant?

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