A submissives journey

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Chapter 1
The Asj Community


Chapter 2
Resource Information 




Chapter 3
Subbie's Couch



Chapter 4
The Dom's Lounge


Chapter 5

 The Library





Chapter 6




Chapter 7

 Useful Links





Chapter 8
Members share their thoughts



Chapter 9

 Members Only





Chapter 10
Asj's Site Index




Chapter 11
Asj's Book Store




Chapter 12
Recommended Reading List



Chapter 13
Asj submissive slave register




a commitment to myself

Author unknown 


I am the world’s best authority on the subject – ME.

More than any other person, I know what is best for myself.

I can be an individual, who lets things happen to me,

or I can determine to be in charge of my life,

to be an autonomous and free person.

I can dream and also plan,

make choices and decisions,

express my wants and needs,

assert my individual self, my rights, and ideas.

I can create, Play, and

share who I really am as a human being.


TODAY – I commit myself to be and act, as I know I can be:

the real me,

The best me possible.

I know I need to be close to another person – at times

I will seek to fulfill that need,

but love them no more than I love myself,

nor meet their needs at the sacrifice of my own.

In whatever conflict I experience,

I will meet the other person half way,

but will not be a loser that they might be a winner.

I will not put myself down or discount my feelings

or intelligence.

I don’t need my own criticism of myself.


TODAY – I make these commitments to myself,

to be my own best friend.


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