vixen, on limits...
There are many things in BDSM that are
slightly hidden
that fall into the category of fetishes. Some of
these
things you will absolutely love. The ones you look at and
say to yourself "gross! I'd never do that", or you
get sick
just thinking about, those would be considered your
limits.
Limits are those things you set
aside and stick a big "no"
tag on them. Those would be
considered as hard limits.
The ones you look at and say "I
don't really care for that",
would be your soft limits (the things
you don't care to do,
but will if it pleases your dominant, or you may
come to
enjoy eventually).
Before entering a Dominant submissive relationship, you
should first set your limits and share them with your Dominant in question. The best way to do this is to fill out a "BDSM checklist" and then spend time discussing the list with your
Dominant.
I know I was surprised when I saw my
first "checklist"
there were many things I had never even
heard of, a few
things were an absolute "no way", and others
that
interested me that I wanted to try. For me, as a slave, I
have no limits, but I do have my preferences and I am
able to inform my
Master of those preferences with my
checklist. Be sure when
setting limits, your Dom/me has
a full understanding of all of them to
avoid safety
problems as well as a future dilemma.
vixen
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