A submissives journey

If one is not completely honest, the communication isn't total. The trust is put in jeopardy, damaged or hindered, along with causing a tension in the relationship, which may even break it.

If one is completely honest, it reduces the chances of misfortune and disappointment, while continuing and adding to the already

recognized trust and communication, resulting in development of the

couples relationship.

Dishonesty not only hurts the "victim", but the instigator as well. It can leave the "victim" feeling used and disrespected, and leave the

individual who was dishonest, or deceptive, feeling guilty.

A word of waning, there are many individuals on the internet who are dishonest because they feel they are protected by their computer screen, like they are in fantasy land and no-one will ever know different (from what they lied about). Think before you lie to someone, maybe you will end up meeting that person someday, or the truth will eventually slip out and you'll find yourself in a sticky, uncomfortable situation and it may be you that ends up getting hurt from the deception. **I'm not saying you would lie, I just would like to get this out because I have been taken into this trickery on occasions and it caused a lot of problems**

Furthermore, honesty contributes to one's own safety. For example, if one lies about the things on their BDSM checklist, just so it says what the Dom/me wants to hear, they'll end up being pushed through some limits they are uncomfortable with and get hurt either emotionally or physically.

As a slave, I can tell you that getting everything out, even the bad or embarrassing, not only strengthens the relationship, but also can be very freeing to ones mind and soul.

~ vixen

TRUST

RESPECT

COMMUNICATION

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