A submissives journey

 

 

 

Chapter 1
The Asj Community


Chapter 2
Resource Information 

 

 

Chapter 3
Subbie's Couch

 

Chapter 4
The Dom's Lounge


Chapter 5

 The Library

 

 

 

Chapter 6
BDSM

 

 

Chapter 7

 Useful Links

 

 

 

Chapter 8
Members share their thoughts

 

 

Chapter 9

 Members Only

 

 

 

Chapter 10
Asj's Site Index

 

 

Chapter 11
Asj's Book Store

 

 

 

Chapter 12
Recommended Reading List

 

 

Chapter 13
Asj submissive slave register

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 



 

Asj Community Topics

Teaching a New Domme (Dominant)

 
 

      Message 1 of 8 in Discussion 
From: WigLeeWendy  (Original Message) Sent: 1/15/2004 11:52 PM
Dear Sirs,
 
I am  looking for a Mentor to help me sharpen my skills as a Domme Mistress.
 
I have a new sub who is very willful. My goals with her is to build her self esteem and break her from being a control freak.
 
Any advice and wisdom you could give would be greatly appreciated.
 
With Kindest Regards,
 
Mistress WigLee

 

      Message 2 of 8 in Discussion 
From: ๕۵๖ทΐgђţţΐ๓έђΐþþσ๕۵๖ Sent: 1/16/2004 12:15 AM
Good evening, Mistress WigLee, Ma'am!
 
Welcome to ASJ, a site that CJ Sir created.  If you haven't perused His site, there is a section that may be of interest to You:  http://www.asubmissivesjourney.com/page4.html
 
Please check out the site and have Your sub read http://www.asubmissivesjourney.com/subbie1.html
 
I do not claim knowledge in all this but can only refer to what CJ Sir has written and gathered at the site.  To get to His site should the links above not work, click on LINKS to Your left of screen and copy the URL and paste it in the ADDRESS box and press ENTER.  You will have  access to this wonderful site written for the D/s and hopefully this will help you.
 
Otherwise, I can only suggest checking the CHAT in the morning to see if CJ Sir's sub--bel-- is online.  I understand the CJ Sir has been in the lifestyle awhile and I am sure if He is around in chat, He would be able to counsel You.

with regards,

--hippo


 


      Message 3 of 8 in Discussion 
From: WigLeeWendy Sent: 1/16/2004 2:37 AM
Good Evening hippo,

 

Thank you for your help. I have read the site, pretty throughly. When my sub comes tomorrow evening I will present her with info. Must of my Info is from books. I would like some person to person wisdom.

 

Thank you again.

Mistress WigLee

 



 


      Message 4 of 8 in Discussion 
From: ๕۵๖ทΐgђţţΐ๓έђΐþþσ๕۵๖ Sent: 1/16/2004 9:41 PM
Good evening again. Ma'am!
 
I was wondering, Ma'am, if there is a r/l active lifestyle in Your area or clubs that O/one could go to and "network" w/ other Dom/mes.  I am not sure where You are located.  I think www.alt.com may be of help in locating others in the lifestyle.
 
I understand Your need for real life discussions w/ O/others like You for one-on-one counsel/techniques.
 
Perhaps there are workshops and seminars geared to lifestylers?  I am lucky in that my Master takes me to them to further my understanding and for Him to be around other Doms here where we are located.
 
I will attempt to set up a chat time this weekend and hopefully O/other Doms/mes will drop by and discussions can ensue.  Also, I hope CJ Sir sees your posting and tries to contact You
 
Be well, Ma'am!
 
--hippo


 


      Message 5 of 8 in Discussion 
From: WigLeeWendy Sent: 1/18/2004 9:45 AM


Greetings hippo,

 

Thank you so much for the site address. My sub lives in SC and I NC and we are going to some munchs with SC-Lock. Seems most of the clubs in Charlotte are geared for gay men in leather, not BDMS. I am sure the web address will be helpful resource.

Peace to you.

Mistress WigLee


 


    Message 6 of 8 in Discussion 
From: ๕۵๖ทΐgђţţΐ๓έђΐþþσ๕۵๖ Sent: 1/18/2004 4:57 PM
 Good afternoon, Ma'am!
 
I did a quick Google and thought these sights may be of help to B/both You and Your sub.  I should have narrowed it down to the Charlotte area but I am sure Y/you both may have done so.  If I may be of further assistance, please leave me a posting.  (I love researching, but cannot vouch for what is found via Internet.)  I may check w/ my Master's organiztion to see if they know of places that You seek.
 
http://www.bdsm-events.com/southcarolina/

 http://www.unitedstatesofsex.com/South_Carolina/Society/BDSM/index.shtml

 http://www.sandm.com/p/84.html

 

--hippo

 


      Message 7 of 8 in Discussion 
From: ๕۵๖ทΐgђţţΐ๓έђΐþþσ๕۵๖ Sent: 1/18/2004 4:58 PM
OOOPS!  apologies for typos....
 
--hippo


 


 
From: ๕۵๖ทΐgђţţΐ๓έђΐþþσ๕۵๖ Sent: 1/18/2004 11:57 PM
Mistress WigLee, Ma'am --
 
a sister sub gave me another chat site that may be of interest to You since is it run by a dom -- Master_Lord_Dom and seems to be an active chat which could provide You with ongoing interaction w/ other Dom/mes.  I plan to check it out since my sister sub says I would be safe and since I did ask my Master's permission, he has given His approval for me to explore this chat --   http://groups.msn.com/MasterLordDomsroom
 
Be well, Ma'am
 
-- hippo

 

 
 

 

 

                                        

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