Chapter
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The Asj Community
Chapter
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Resource
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Chapter
3
Subbie's Couch
Chapter
4
The Dom's Lounge
Chapter
5
The
Library
Chapter
6
BDSM
Chapter
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Useful
Links
Chapter
8
Members
share their thoughts
Chapter
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Members
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Chapter
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Asj's
Site Index
Chapter
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Asj's
Book Store
Chapter
12
Recommended
Reading List
Chapter 13
Asj submissive slave register
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Asj Community Topics
Teaching a New Domme (Dominant)
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From:
WigLeeWendy (Original
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Sent: 1/15/2004 11:52 PM |
Dear Sirs,
I am looking for a Mentor to help me sharpen my skills as
a Domme Mistress.
I have a new sub who is very willful. My goals with her is
to build her self esteem and break her from being a
control freak.
Any advice and wisdom you could give would be greatly
appreciated.
With Kindest Regards,
Mistress WigLee
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From:
๕۵๖ทΐgђţţΐ๓έђΐþþσ๕۵๖ |
Sent: 1/16/2004 12:15 AM |
Good evening, Mistress WigLee, Ma'am!
I do not claim knowledge in all this but can only refer to
what CJ Sir has written and gathered at the site. To get
to His site should the links above not work, click on
LINKS to Your left of screen and copy the URL and paste it
in the ADDRESS box and press ENTER. You will have access
to this wonderful site written for the D/s and hopefully
this will help you.
Otherwise, I can only suggest checking the CHAT in the
morning to see if CJ Sir's sub--bel-- is online. I
understand the CJ Sir has been in the lifestyle awhile and
I am sure if He is around in chat, He would be able to
counsel You.
with regards,
--hippo |
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From:
WigLeeWendy |
Sent: 1/16/2004 2:37 AM |
Good Evening hippo,
Thank you for your help. I have read the site, pretty
throughly. When my sub comes tomorrow evening I will
present her with info. Must of my Info is from books. I
would like some person to person wisdom.
Thank you again.
Mistress WigLee
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From:
๕۵๖ทΐgђţţΐ๓έђΐþþσ๕۵๖ |
Sent: 1/16/2004 9:41 PM |
Good evening again. Ma'am!
I was wondering, Ma'am, if there is a r/l active lifestyle
in Your area or clubs that O/one could go to and "network"
w/ other Dom/mes. I am not sure where You are located. I
think www.alt.com may be of help in locating others in the
lifestyle.
I understand Your need for real life discussions w/
O/others like You for one-on-one counsel/techniques.
Perhaps there are workshops and seminars geared to
lifestylers? I am lucky in that my Master takes me to
them to further my understanding and for Him to be around
other Doms here where we are located.
I will attempt to set up a chat time this weekend and
hopefully O/other Doms/mes will drop by and discussions
can ensue. Also, I hope CJ Sir sees your posting and
tries to contact You
Be well, Ma'am!
--hippo
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From:
WigLeeWendy |
Sent: 1/18/2004 9:45 AM |
Greetings hippo,
Thank you so much for the site address. My sub lives
in SC and I NC and we are going to some munchs with
SC-Lock. Seems most of the clubs in Charlotte are geared
for gay men in leather, not BDMS. I am sure the web
address will be helpful resource.
Peace to you.
Mistress WigLee
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From:
๕۵๖ทΐgђţţΐ๓έђΐþþσ๕۵๖ |
Sent: 1/18/2004 4:57 PM |
Good
afternoon, Ma'am!
I did a quick Google and thought these sights may be of
help to B/both You and Your sub. I should have narrowed
it down to the Charlotte area but I am sure Y/you both may
have done so. If I may be of further assistance, please
leave me a posting. (I love researching, but cannot vouch
for what is found via Internet.) I may check w/ my
Master's organiztion to see if they know of places that
You seek.
http://www.bdsm-events.com/southcarolina/
http://www.unitedstatesofsex.com/South_Carolina/Society/BDSM/index.shtml
http://www.sandm.com/p/84.html
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From:
๕۵๖ทΐgђţţΐ๓έђΐþþσ๕۵๖ |
Sent: 1/18/2004 4:58 PM |
OOOPS! apologies for typos....
--hippo
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From:
๕۵๖ทΐgђţţΐ๓έђΐþþσ๕۵๖ |
Sent: 1/18/2004 11:57 PM |
Mistress WigLee, Ma'am --
a sister sub gave me another chat site that may be of
interest to You since is it run by a dom --
Master_Lord_Dom and seems to be an active chat which could
provide You with ongoing interaction w/ other Dom/mes. I
plan to check it out since my sister sub says I would be
safe and since I did ask my Master's permission, he has
given His approval for me to explore this chat --
http://groups.msn.com/MasterLordDomsroom
Be well, Ma'am
-- hippo
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