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A submissives journey - CJ Suggests

CJ Suggests is a monthly feature we've added to the A submissives journey website. D/s and BDSM Lifestyle items featured here have been personally scrutinized by CJ, and are suggested for inclusion in your library or toy collection.

Each month we'll feature one book recommended by CJ, and one toy or BDSM type item recommended for your Dominant - submissive or BDSM Lifestyle Collection or as a gift to others in the D/s Lifestyle.. When possible, we'll include a link to where the item can be purchased or obtained.

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August 2010, CJ Suggests

D ominant submissive Lifestyle Book or Reading

This Curious Human Phenomenon:

An Exploration of Some Uncommonly Explored Aspects of BDSM [Paperback]

Peter Masters (Author)

The actual mechanics of much of BDSM---otherwise known as S&M or leather---is well-documented in numerous how-to books, various movies, and numerous novels. It is often seen as kinky sex, and is commonly portrayed as involving skin-tight black leather clothing, chains, ropes, and nude or semi-nude participants writhing in delicious erotic ecstasy while being flogged or whipped by domineering "masters" and "mistresses". And maybe this is what it is to many of the people involved. And, in fact, it doesn't really sound half bad. But there's much more to it than this. In reality there are wants, needs, and hungers being explored and satisfied by BDSM participants which often they aren't even aware of themselves. "This Curious Human Phenomenon" looks under the hood to find out what's really going on, at why people "do" BDSM, at what makes it so enticing, at what needs it meets, and at why these can't readily be met elsewhere. This is not a how-to book. Instead, it is designed to be a bridge to understanding for people who want to take their BDSM to that mythical "next step".

About the Author

Peter Masters lives in Sydney, Australia. Exploring domination and control of members of the fairer sex is a life-long passion. Since the mid/late 90's, Peter has written and published a number of articles on dominance and submission. He also participates in local conferences, and runs an occasional workshop. For a number of years he also chaired or co-chaired-sometimes-weekly and sometimes-monthly-D&S discussion meetings based in Sydney. He is the author of The Control Book and Look Into My Eyes (a book about hypnosis and sex)

Keywords: bdsm, leather, kink, Master, slave, dominant, submissive, Mistress, DOM, Domme, Dominant, Top, bottom, service, protocol,
Review: OK, I'll admit that I'm a Peter Masters fan. Masters' The Control Book is another I consider a core-reading for any library on D/s or M/s relations. After spending a few chapters making sure we're all on the same page, Masters moves on to provide some truly insightful ideas. To my utter astonishment, reading Chapter 7 changed the way I kiss when involved in a power exchange setting. Chapter 12 prompted me to introduce a new pair of protocols that has vastly helped get my partner into the head-space she needs in order both to go to work in the mornings, and to come present with me when she returns from work every day. (As my M/s structure is very "protocol heavy," I was delighted to see how Masters' ideas could immediately be translated into a new and very helpful process in my own life.)

I highly recommend this book. It's one of the few available that actually causes a reader to stop, reflect, and move to action. br />
Nicely done, Peter.

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Fancy Nipple Sensation Vibrating Suction Cup

If you're one of the many who have an inexplicable attraction to or arousal from erect nipples, these Nipple luscious attachments are sure to provide loads of nipple fun with their simultaneous suction and vibrating functions.

Keywords: bdsm, nipple play, nipple, nipple cup, nipple torture, adult toy, vibrator

Product Features:

The vibrations are conducted through the soft and nubby ticklers inside the nipple cup, made all the more sensual due to the supple jelly material the entire cup is made out of.
The design couldn't be more compact: an easy-to-use and tiny hand-pump is directly attached to the suction cup, as is the battery (watch-sized) pack, which believe it or not also sports a multi-speed dial for the vibrations.
Talk about nanotechnology-these little guys definitely make the most of their size, and you can even control how gentle or rough you want the vibes. So try introducing a little nipple action into the mix-it's a great way to spice things up and explore sensual alternatives
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