A submissives journey

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Chapter 1
The Asj Community


Chapter 2
Resource Information 

 

 

Chapter 3
The Subbie's Couch

 

Chapter 4
The Dom's Lounge


Chapter 5

 The Library

 

 

 

Chapter 6
BDSM

 

 

Chapter 7

 Useful Links

 

 

 

Chapter 8
Members share their thoughts

 

 

Chapter 9

 Members Only

 

 

 

Chapter 10
Asj's Site Index

 

 

 

 

Chapter 11
Asj's Book Store

 

 

 

Chapter 12
Recommended Reading List



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The Asj community offers a wide range of resources available to anyone within the D/s lifestyle, regardless of role or level of experience.  Whether as a Dominant, or a submissive / slave, this knowledge and the benefits of the community are here to be shared.  While the focus of this site may seem to be oriented towards the female submissive, it is intended for all equally.  I wish you well on your journey.

                                                             CJ

 

 

Since you are here,  it's obvious you've taken  the first step to discovering your submissive side. This site is intended to assist  and guide you in achieving your self fulfillment as a slave, or submissive within the D/s (Dominant~ submissive) lifestyle.  As you begin your journey, the rewards, personal satisfaction and the individual happiness  you have  sought for  so  long  will  begin to be apparent.

 

The first step has been taken, you think you may have, or

you've discovered you do have a submissive side that is

all your own.   What  is submission,  what does it mean to

be submissive?  Are you a sub or are you a slave?  Is this

normal, or is there something wrong with you?  Where can

this journey lead you?   Can  this journey bring you  to  the

ultimate  fulfillment  of  your happiness?  What lays ahead

of you as you continue your journey?

 

Here within  the boundaries of this site and its affiliated communities, you'll find maps  to show you the path to follow,  guides to lead you and show you safely past  the  dangers.    As  you  take your journey, feelings and emotions you've only dreamed of will carry you to the many wonders to be explored.  

 

This journey is not an easy one, but you knew that when

you  began  searching  for  your  special  place  as  a

submissive in this lifestyle.  As a novice, the efforts you

expend to learn, and assimilate every  bit of information

available to you will return tenfold in pleasures that await

you as you find your place as a submissive or slave within

this lifestyle .  Don't  look  to  the  shortcuts,  they  aren't

there.  Don't let stumbling blocks hold you back.  This is

your happiness, your dream, and your journey.

 

Take the time to prepare yourself.  Don't run blindly to the

first  Dominant  that  offers  you  solace  in  your  search. 

Accept  yourself  for  who  you  are.   Learn  who you are,

share  what  you  have  learned  about   this  lifestyle with

others,  just as they  will share  with you.   Regardless of

who,  or what you are,  you are still you.   Each of us is

unique, just as each Dominant / submissive relationship is

unique.  Find the relationship that exists exclusively for

you.  Don't settle  for  second  best,  exert the efforts and

expend the time  to insure you  are  the best.  Whether a

submissive or a slave,  involved in  BDSM  or not,  the

Dominant that ultimately claims you and your submission

will deserve the best, and that is you and what you have to offer to Him.

                                                                 

 

 

NOTE:  While  this site consistently  refers to a  submissive or slave in

the female gender, most things are equally applicable to a male slave

or sub.  In a similar fashion, references to Dominants, Master or Dom

are easily interchangeable with Mistress or Domme. 

 

Questions about our site?  We've added something new on our site..  Click the ask live icon to chat live or leave a message with our site host.  CJ isn't always available, but generally you can find Him here from about 8:30 - 11:00 pm Eastern time. Your questions about the site, the Asj community or just about the lifestyle in general are always welcome.  If nothing else, take a moment and tell us what you think of this feature!  

 

 

 

 

 

Copyright © 1998 - 2008  [A submissives journey]. All rights reserved.
Revised: November 05, 2008

                                                

 

 

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