The Asj community offers a wide range of resources available to anyone within the D/s lifestyle, regardless of role or level of experience. Whether as a Dominant, or a submissive / slave, this knowledge and the benefits of the community are here to be shared. While the focus of this site may seem to be oriented towards the female submissive, most will also apply to male submissive or slave as well. Here on the Asj site, you'll find well over 500 pages of information regarding the D/s lifestyle and related topics. Explore the site Index to find many of these pages, or click on the various links you'll find on pages throughout the site. Don't hesitate to click on any of the "Ask Live" icons you'll find throughout the site. Spend some time and visit our chat rooms, forums and members blogs. The information is here for you to learn, discuss and utilize as you wish. You'll find that those that are truly serious about this lifestyle will be more than wiling to help you to find your way on your journey in discovering your role in the Dominant submissive (D/s) lifestyle. I wish you well on your journey.
CJ
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Since you are here, it's obvious you've taken the first step to discovering your submissive side. This site is intended to assist and guide you in achieving your self fulfillment as a slave, or submissive within the D/s (Dominant~ submissive) lifestyle. As you begin your journey, the rewards, personal satisfaction and the individual happiness you have sought for so long will begin to be apparent.
The first step has been taken, you think you may have, or you've discovered you do have a submissive side that is all your own. What is submission, what does it mean to be submissive? Are you a sub or are you a slave? Is this normal, or is there something wrong with you? Where can this journey lead you? Can this journey bring you to the ultimate fulfillment of your happiness? What lays ahead of you as you continue your journey?
Here within the boundaries of this site and its affiliated communities, you'll find maps to show you the path to follow, guides to lead you and show you safely past the dangers. As you take your journey, feelings and emotions you've only dreamed of will carry you to the many wonders to be explored.
This journey is not an easy one, but you knew that when you began searching for your special place as a submissive in this lifestyle. As a novice, the efforts you expend to learn, and assimilate every bit of information available to you will return tenfold in pleasures that await you as you find your place as a submissive or slave within this lifestyle . Don't look to the shortcuts, they aren't there. Don't let stumbling blocks hold you back. This is your happiness, your dream, and your journey.
Take the time to prepare yourself. Don't run blindly to the first Dominant that offers you solace in your search. Accept yourself for who you are. Learn who you are, share what you have learned about this lifestyle with others, just as they will share with you. Regardless of who, or what you are, you are still you. Each of us is unique, just as each Dominant / submissive relationship is unique. Find the relationship that exists exclusively for you. Don't settle for second best, exert the efforts and expend the time to insure you are the best. Whether a submissive or a slave, involved in BDSM or not, the Dominant that ultimately claims you and your submission will deserve the best, and that is you and what you have to offer to Him.
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Did you know, the Asj Community hosts
‘Lifestyle Classes and Discussions’ here online every Sunday evening at
9:00 pm Eastern Time. The Classes and Discussions are open to all
and Free to attend.
Visit
our Members Only Pages for more information, or click any
of our “ask live” icons to ask for more information.
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This website is dedicated to the belief and practice of “Absolute Submission” and “Unconditional Surrender” within the “Ancient” and “Biblical” documented and practiced “Natural Order” of women consensually submitting to men.
Examples of practices of the "Natural Order" can be found in many well known scriptures such as "The Hebrew Torah", "The Talmud", "The Holy Ouran", "The Old Testament", "The New Testament", and "The Book Of Mormon", to name a few.
This website contains absolutely No Pornography. Nothing Obscene, Threatening, Defamatory, Harmful, or Illegal. No content is in any way or form Racially, Ethnically or Morally objectionable. Nor is any content meant to Insult, Offend, or Demean. No Illegal or, Forceful, Involuntary, Unconsensual activities are encouraged or supported.
Amongst other rights, this website is protected by the Bill Of Rights and the First Amendment to the United States Constitution with the Freedom Of Religious Practices Act and the Right of Freedom Of Speech.
Due to the mature nature of this website, you MUST be of legal age of over 18 years of age to enter.
If the subject matter of this website, or the discussion thereof offends you in any way or form, or if you are not of legal age, you may not enter the website and MUST LEAVE NOW.
By entering this website you declare that you are of legal age of 18 years or older and agree to the terms and conditions of this website.
This Dominant submissive/slave lifestyle website first became active on about February 1, 2002. The Asj community has been online in one form or another since approximately early 1985.
Copyright © 1998 - 2010 [A submissives journey]. All rights reserved. Revised: May 03, 2010
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- For those of the Gorean (Gor) persuasion, yes the Asj chat rooms include a Gorean Chat room, considered to be a safe zone.
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Can't find what you're looking for, have a question about the Asj community, or the lifestyle in general, click the icon to chat live with one of our site monitors. We're proud to be one of the few D/s or BDSM sites to offer this feature.

