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A submissives journey - CJ Suggests
CJ Suggests is a monthly feature we've added to the A submissives journey website. D/s and BDSM Lifestyle items featured here have been personally scrutinized by CJ, and are suggested for inclusion in your library or toy collection.
Each month we'll feature one book recommended by CJ, and one toy or BDSM type item recommended for your Dominant - submissive or BDSM Lifestyle Collection or as a gift to others in the D/s Lifestyle.. When possible, we'll include a link to where the item can be purchased or obtained.
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CJ Suggests
May 2010, CJ Suggests
Dominant submissive Lifestyle Book or Reading
The Compleat Spanker is a thin little book... 12 chapters in 70 pages, plus four appendixes. It is surprisingly thorough despite the small size, and actually has solid coverage of many striking implements beyond the traditional hand-spank.
This is a well-written book. The text is tight, precise, and easy to read. Green claims an interest in spanking to be very widespread, and attempts to write a book that's approachable even without an acceptance of broader SM. Although I'm too steeped in BDSM culture to say for sure, I think she has succeeded.
The main body of Compleat Spanker is well organized, structured in the order a scene would progress: communication, warm-up, implements, positions, and afterwards. Position illustrations are minimalistic, inoffensive line drawings that compliment the text nicely. Overall, the contents are generally basic. As an experienced spanker, I didn't gain much new information from the book. The chapter Tips, Tricks, and Fun Things to Try was an exception, and I did find some new tidbits there. It was, however, a very fast and entertaining read.
Who should read the book? As implied above, an experienced spanker probably won't gain much beyond entertainment. For less experienced folks interested in spanking better, I doubt there is a better guide anywhere. Even if you don't want to have anything to do with SM, this book won't offend.
- Keywords: D/s, dominant submissive, lifestyle, bdsm, spank, spanking, dominant, submissive, Mistress, DOM, Domme, Dominant, Master, relationship
- Review: The author, Lady Green, who admits early in the book that she is actually Catherine A. Liszt of Greenery Press, along with Dossie Easton, has written two other highly informative and popular books aimed at those dabbling with B & D or entirely into the scene and wishing to refine their skills, The Topping Book and The Bottoming Book. This primer on spanking is written from the point of view of the dominant, though I believe a submissive might also learn from it's contents. It covers the release of edorphins and enkaphalins into the bloodstream, a description of the human rear anatomy, how a dom(me) warms up a spankee, the use of the hand, the paddle, straps, the birch, floggers, canes, and crops, positions the bottom may be put into, troubles that may crop up, how to end a scene and how to nurture after the fact. Then she gets into ideas for scenes and things you might do during a scene, how to clean implements, how to combine bondage with spanking, and how to find others in the scene.
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