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A submissives journey - CJ Suggests

CJ Suggests is a monthly feature we've added to the A submissives journey website. D/s and BDSM Lifestyle items featured here have been personally scrutinized by CJ, and are suggested for inclusion in your library or toy collection.

Each month we'll feature one book recommended by CJ, and one toy or BDSM type item recommended for your Dominant - submissive or BDSM Lifestyle Collection or as a gift to others in the D/s Lifestyle.. When possible, we'll include a link to where the item can be purchased or obtained.

CJ Suggests

January 2011, CJ Suggests

D ominant submissive Lifestyle Book or Reading

Over the Knee (Nexus Enthusiast)

[Mass Market Paperback]

Fiona Locke (Author)

This is the life story of a girl addicted to the sensual pleasures of spanking. A girl who feels compelled to manipulate and engineer situations in which older authority figures punish her, over their knees. As Nexus Enthusiast publishes convincing and exciting literature, written by the devotee of a fetish for the large number of enthusiasts, the author is a fully qualified and active participant of the S&M scene.

About the Author

Fiona Locke is a popular short story author from the Black Lace Wicked Words series, now transferring her talents to the novel.

I really loved this book. It is so clear that the author is actually into her subject matter, and that makes all the difference. I know personally I have gotten very tired of reading spanking erotica that is clearly written by someone who does not understand the kink. Well, I can tell you that Fiona Locke *gets it* (no pun intended).

Truly, I could not put this book down and recommend it to anyone who has an interest in spanking. This has such a wide range of scenarios, I think there something in it for every person who shares the kink!

Product Details

Mass Market Paperback: 256 pages
Publisher: Virgin Nexus (April 22, 2010)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 0352340797
ISBN-13: 978-0352340795

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For the BDSM Toy Bag

Note: Updated June, 2011 - This product no longer available thru Amazon.com

Heavy Black Leather Laced Paddle

Product Features

Heavy Black 13-15 oz Full Grain Leather
Strong leather lacing and wrist band
All edges are beveled and burnished
2.5" wide by 14" long

PProduct Description

This unique paddle delivers a good wallop and makes a nice loud crack when applied correctly... You can have some real fun with this one. I've been making these for many years... Mainly to satisfy my own and my friends tastes... we like Very Heavy Rugged Black Leather. All edges on the collars, cuffs and paddles are beveled and burnished so there will be no sharp edges. Just Heavy Leather on bare skin...

Product Review:

This baby can really lay a blistering to your backside or just a nice warming depending on how you use it. Love the way it fits and feels in my hand as well. Very happy I purchased this one!

Keywords: paddle, spanking, bdsm, kink, submissive, leather, collar, cuff, skin, sensual spanking, a submissives journey, dominant, submissive, sub, slave