EVERYONE is entitled to EQUAL and COURTEOUS TREATMENT. Be
mindful of limits with respect to their Bodies, Property and
Privacy.
PROPER PARTY ETIQUETTE
A. Ask before touching. Do not touch another
person's body, clothing or equipment without his or her
specific permission.
B.
Do
not impose an unwelcome D/s interaction upon another person.
One is entitled to act Dominant or submissive to another
person ONLY after that person has agreed to it.
C. An offer to play is not an insult. If you must
decline an offer to play, please do so as politely as
possible.
D.NO pestering!
If your second offer to play with a particular person is
declined, please don't make a third offer during the
party.
If someone says to you, "Please leave me alone," treat
that as a social-safeword. Do not initiate further
conversation with him or her for the rest of the event.
Single people at an event are not necessarily there
looking for dates or partners. They may not be attracted
to your gender. Do not assume that they are. Do not act
in a manner which suggests that you assume they are.
E. Respect people's privacy
Some guests prefer to remain deeply "in the closet"
about where they live, their real names, their
professions, what company they work for, etc. Please
refrain from asking direct or probing questions about
these areas.
Disclosing another person's name, address, phone number
or other personal information without their specific
consent is extremely serious misconduct.
Photographing, taping or otherwise making any record is
generally discouraged and may be done only after
obtaining the consent of the Party Director and the
people involved.
F.NO violence, threats or challenges.
Starting a fight, over-reacting to provocation, threatening
another person in any way, or challenging then to a fight
either at the event or "outside" is extremely serious
misconduct.
Give PROPER RESPECT to SCENE SPACE and SCENES in
progress.
A. Watch from a non-intrusive distance.
B.
Keep all social and ordinary conversations to the social
areas. When in the play area, voices should be kept low. Do
not sit on or near play equipment unless you are using it or
are about to use it.
C. Do not interrupt a scene in progress. Do not
attempt to engage the participants with routine questions or
conversation. Do not attempt to join or in any way
participate in a scene without specific permission. Do not
ask if you can join a scene - if your assistance is desired,
they will ask you.
D. Do not make comments about a scene in such a way
that the players can hear. This holds doubly for negative
comments!
E. If you have safety issues or cencerns about a
scene in progress, please communicate them immediately to
the DUNGEON MASTER or to the PARTY DIRECTOR. DO
NOT TRY TO HANDLE THE SITUATION YOURSELF. Remember that
what looks very risky to you may be being done with an
acceptable margin of safety by more experienced players.
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