On The Kinky Side (BDSM)

Something To Tallk About

28-01-2013 Hits:1191 BDSM Related Articles Rover - avatar Rover

Like most of you, I belong to several online bulletin boards and enjoy the give and take associated with the sharing of divergent opinions. Most often they’re a general amusement...

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A 'FREE' Months Membership...

13-10-2014 Hits:1882 Asj Site Related Content CJ - avatar CJ

Do you have a blog, a web site, or a Facebook page?    Would you like a month’s free Gold membership on Asj?   If you have one of these pages and you’ll...

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From the Asj Library

Finding a Kinky Partner ~ Part 1

23-03-2011 Hits:1031 D/s Lifestyle Topics Tamar Kay - avatar Tamar Kay

Part 1 - Knowing yourself and your values This article begins a discussion of how you might go about finding a kinky partner, now that you've decided you want one. Since...

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The Asj Web Site hosts D/s and BDSM Lifestyle Classes and Discussions every Sunday and Wednesday evening at 9:15 PM (Eastern Time). Topics include all aspects of power exchange and BDSM relationships. These classes are free to attend and open to all members. Regardless of your lifestyle role, or level of experience, we invite you to attend.

Asj has long recognized the various styles or forms of Power Exchange Relationships.  Included in these is the Gorean (Gor) lifestyle.  Although originally based on a series of science fiction books by John Norma, modified a bit to allow for reality, Gor is a very viable form of the Lifestyle, both online and off.  Gor is considered to be a very black or white type structure, filled with protocols, traditions and rules.  It is also considered to be very sensual.  A girls obedience and loyalty in Gor is considered to be absolute. Asj’s Gorean Community is referred to as “The Sanctuary Vidrew” (SV).  If your interest is towards Gor, we invite you to visit the Gorean sections in the Library and to visit the SV Chat Room. 

The Asj Web Site hosts D/s and BDSM Lifestyle Classes and Discussions every Sunday and Wednesday evening at 9:15 PM (Eastern Time). Topics include all aspects of power exchange and BDSM relationships. These classes are free to attend and open to all members. Regardless of your lifestyle role, or level of experience, we invite you to attend.

Share Your Needs And Feelings With Your Partner.  If you can't ask them for what you want in bed, you shouldn't be sleeping with them. Good sex happens when we feel safe and at ease. If we're afraid to ask for something or to tell our partner that we don't like something, sex will never be more than mediocre.

Once we identify what we want and don't want, we have to express these things clearly. It's unfair to expect our partner to be a mind-reader and "prove" that they care by somehow knowing what we want without our having to tell them. Healthy sex comes out of healthy communication.

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