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A submissives journey - The Submissives Twelve Steps of Humility
The Submissives Twelve Steps of Humility
Your decision to serve is a
commitment to a life of humility. To reach the
highest peak of humility, one must climb a ladder
much like Jacob's, upon which he saw angels climbing
up and down. Ascend the ladder by humbling yourself;
descend by praising yourself.
The first step of humility is prompt
obedience. This obedience must be without fear,
laziness, hesitancy or protest. Work done in a
dispirited or grudging manner will go without
reward, and may actually earn punishment.
The second step of humility is rejection of
self-will and self-pleasure. Careless and
self-serving ways have no place in your life.
"Self-will has its punishment, necessity its crown."
(Acta Martyrum)
The third step of humility is obedient
submission to your superiors in all things. You must
believe that your superiors know what is best for
you, and you must act accordingly.
The fourth step of humility is patient and
quiet acceptance of everything inflicted upon you,
whether painful, unjust, or even against your
nature. When struck on one cheek, turn the other;
when forced to carry a burden one mile, go two.
The fifth step of humility is to keep no
secrets from your superiors. Declare your offenses,
whether of thought or deed, openly and without
hesitation.
The sixth step of humility is
contented recognition of your station as a poor and
worthless workman who must always do his best and
try his hardest in all appointed tasks.
The seventh step of humility is confession of
your inferiority in the depths of your heart.
The eighth step of humility is seek only that
which the common good of the household you serve or
the example of your superiors demands.
The ninth step of humility is silence. Speak
only when asked a question or given permission to
speak.
The tenth step of humility is restraint from
laughter and frivolity. A sense of humor may be
highly valued by your superiors, but unrestrained
laughter and frivolity are disruptive to the
serenity of the household.
The eleventh step of humility is to speak
gently, without jests, simply, seriously, tersely,
rationally and softly. A few words well spoken are
more effective than rambling discourses.
The twelfth step of humility is to live with
humility in your heart, in your appearance, and in
your actions. Whether sitting, standing or walking,
keep your head down, eyes on the ground. Know in
your heart and show in your actions that you are
"bowed down and totally humbled." (Psalms)
When you have climbed all twelve steps you will find
the love which casts out all fear, by which
everything observed anxiously before will now appear
simple and natural.
