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A submissives journey - Characteristics of a Slave
Characteristics of a Slave
A slave is strong, not strong
like a man, but strong inside. Her character is that of wanting
to please. She serves because it is pleasure to her. She has the
inner strength to go places inside herself that her Master
guides her. She cannot be weak emotionally, or these places
could push her over the edge.
A slave is respectful. The first portion of respect is
SELF-respect. If a slave does not respect herself, then no one
else will either. Self-respect most probably includes
self-esteem, taking care of herself mentally emotionally as well
as physically. Self-respect could include such things as getting
enough sleep, eating right, etc. A slave shows respect to her
Master by carrying out His orders as he wishes. She shows
respect to her Master and others by being polite, mannerly,
and pleasant.
A slave is loyal to her Master's wishes. She is also loyal to
herself.
A slave should never do anything that is against her own moral
standings. She also will never allow another to touch her in
ways that would be displeasing to her Master. She knows who owns
her and thrives in his ownership.
A slave is open and honest. She holds nothing back, revealing
all
that she is to her Master. Openness and honesty lead to better
communication, allowing her Master to do the job he should, and
to know what responsibilities he takes on. Her openness allows
Him also to be more open, thus building trust between them and a
deeper submission of the slave.
Spirit is difficult to describe. A slave must have spirit. I
don't speak of spiritedness, as that is different. Spiritedness
is feisty and bratty. Spirit refers more to a brightness
emanating from within. It is a light in her eyes, visible to a
few...those who understand her slave heart.
A slave needs to be intelligent. Serving includes the mind as
well as the body. She needs to be able to challenge her Master
mentally. To please Him and with her thoughts, ideas, and input
on things he wishes. She needs to be able to understand His
instructions and to carry on a conversation on a multitude of
topics, as they cannot
always be 'in scene'
Being a slave is not always easy. Keeping a sense of humor
when things seem insurmountable is paramount to focusing on
her submission. It also helps to balance the darkness of her
desires
at times.
A slave finds peace and contentment in serving her Master. She
is a reflection of Him. She is his property, his possession, his
responsibility. A slave shows focus, always keeping her Master
in the forefront of her mind. As she goes about her day, she
uses her own intelligence and strength to do things in ways that
are pleasing to her Master.
I am a slave because it is in my soul to be. I find pleasure in
the pleasing of another. I thrive on another's direction,
control, and presence in my life, and soul. Being a slave is not
something I choose to be, it is simply who and what I am. It is
my desire to serve a Master, to find the strength, courage,
openness, honesty, etc that it takes to be a good slave.
Lately, I have slipped. I have gone against who and what I
am....
out of an aching emptiness, a lonely pain. In my vanilla life, I
am happy. Things could be better, but they are not bad. I am
finding
some peace and contentment in my vanilla life. But the ache of a
slave to be used hard...is very painful for me. I have lost
focus, and control of my desires to the point where it
interferes with my dealings with others. I am struggling to
regain focus and balance. I will find it. I know it is there.
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