On The Kinky Side (BDSM)

Be Accountable for Your Safety and Your …

24-03-2011 Hits:767 BDSM Related Articles unknown - avatar unknown

Own your part. You may feel that you have no control over your situation. To a certain extent this is true; you cannot control the other person/people involved nor can you...

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Asj Summer Schedule

11-07-2014 Hits:243 Asj Site Related Content CJ - avatar CJ

  Summer is upon us and already it’s proving to be a hectic one.  With summer comes vacations, weekend get away’s!  Time to get up away from the computer and catch...

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From the Asj Library

The Dominants Council

28-02-2011 Hits:726 D/s Lifestyle Topics CJ - avatar CJ

The Dominants Council  Throughout our society we have many different resources we can turn to to settle disputes, arguments and claims.  In most cases, there are firm guidelines established to determine...

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The Asj Web Site hosts D/s and BDSM Lifestyle Classes and Discussions every Sunday and Wednesday evening at 9:00 PM (Eastern Time). Topics include all aspects of power exchange and BDSM relationships. These classes are free to attend and open to all members. Regardless of your lifestyle role, or level of experience, we invite you to attend.

 

Summer is upon us and already it’s proving to be a hectic one.  With summer comes vacations, weekend get away’s!  Time to get up away from the computer and catch some sun and maybe even some suntans!  If you’re getting a good suntan, why not consider posting a picture and sharing that tan with us!  Because of the summer schedules, including some traveling I’ll be doing, our weekly class/discussion schedule will be changing for the balance of the summer.  Our Sunday night and Wednesday classes will be changing from every week, to the first and third Sunday’s and Wednesday’s of July and August.  That is,, our Sunday classes will be July 20th, August 3rd and August 17th.  Our Wednesday evening BDSM classes will be July 16th, August 6th and August 20th.  We will resume our full regular weekly classes in September.

 

The Asj Web Site hosts D/s and BDSM Lifestyle Classes and Discussions every Sunday and Wednesday evening at 9:00 PM (Eastern Time). Topics include all aspects of power exchange and BDSM relationships. These classes are free to attend and open to all members. Regardless of your lifestyle role, or level of experience, we invite you to attend.

In BDSM different toys may have different purposes than you might think at first guess.  As an example, most would think a ‘gag” is obviously for silencing a girl.  Did you know a ‘Ball Gag’ actually isn’t very useful to silence a submissive/bottom?

 

A ball gag's purpose is more of humiliation rather than silence; the wearer can still be heard, but it renders their speech completely unintelligible, distorts their facial features, and, should the wearer attempt to talk, excessive drooling will result.

 

As you begin to use various toys, try to learn a little bit about them and how they are best used before you use them.

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