BDSM Nipple Play
A submissives journey
Nipple play or nipple torture as it is also
called, with the acronym, NT, or even,
Tit Torture, is intriguing
and exciting for just about anyone, in one form or another! Many women and men
alike, enjoy the stimulation of their breast area during sexual contact or
during BDSM play activities. Each person prefers different types of stimulation
of their nipples/breast area, obviously. Some like pain, others like gentle
licking and others like non-painful, varying pressure. Some like only the
being worked on, others like the entire area around the nipple being played
with, and others like manipulation of the entire chest or breasts being cupped
and fondled. There are some who like to be licked, bitten, chewed, sucked,
nursed (a combination of extended sucking and chewing), massaged, pulled,
twisted, clamped, slapped, whipped, poked, punched, pierced or, of course, any
combination of these done within an infinite variety of intensities. The best
approach is trying out various techniques, toys and sensations and go from
there... Always start out with a warm-up period, first. Start lightly, then
gradually, with fingers, tongue, and teeth. Then add more intensity with clamps
or suction or wax.
Quite simply, nipple clamps are items that pinch the nipples. Some have adjustable settings so the pressure can be customized or varied. Others work only by a single spring mechanism and do not allow for pressure adjustment. Nipple clamps can also be used on other areas of the body, such as the labia lips, ball sack, ear lobes... well you get the idea... It's a good idea to test the clamps on the skin of the inner wrist or the webbing between the thumb and forefinger, to get an accurate "reading" of the level of intensity. If it's bearable and tolerable within that threshold of pain/pleasure, they should be fine for the nipples or labia or balls!
One of the best clamps is the "Japanese" clover clamps. Clover clamps are intricately curved spring mechanisms, which closes when released from being squeezed open. The tips which make the direct contact on the nipple have rubber coverings. The pressure they yield is quite intense and cannot be adjusted. They do, however, tend to close and clamp even tighter when the chain attached to the clamps is pulled. Many find them extremely exciting for exactly those reasons! They have a very attractive look , which makes them even more popular, hence their nickname, "Japanese Nipple Clamps", since they are used quite frequently in Japanese bondage films. They also work overtime as labia or ball sack clamps!
Another popular style of nipple clamp is the Tweezers Clamps, which comprises of matchstick-thin tweezers with small rubber coverings on the tips and a sliding ring allowing adjustment of the tightness. They work very well for many nipple sizes and types, as well as the labia and balls. The chains that attach to this style of nipple clamps (and the Clover Clamps above) have a variety of uses. They can be pulled, weights can be hung from them, or they can be used to lead the "patient" around or tie them off!
If your fingers need an especially good grip on the nipples because you'll be pulling and twisting exceptionally hard, clean the nipples with rubbing alcohol, which removes any oily substances that might make your fingers slip. Or just grasp the nipple with a cloth or tissue rather than with your bare fingers.
Rubber tipped forceps, tight squeezing tweezers and other medical devices which squeeze or clamp are great nipple play toys, too. Just let your imagination run wild...
When clamping, seat the clamp on the tit before pulling on it. Allowing it to squeeze into the tit helps it to get a firm grip. Place the clamp toward the back of the tit, away from the tip. A clamp on the tip can easily slide off when it is pulled.
Nipple clamps, like other tight binding, reduce
circulation. The rule of thumb is no more than ten or fifteen minutes of use at
a time. Coldness, numbness, and discoloration are signals that it is time to
release the clamp. Releasing the clamp often brings
more pain than
placing the clamp on in the first place because of the sudden inflow of
circulation to the blood vessels. If you want to reduce the sudden pain, you can
press your warm palm or squeeze the tips of your fingers on the clamped area as
you release the clamps. The pressure slows the blood return, which eases the
sudden fierceness of the pain. Of course, sudden pain may be the goal, but it is
always nice to have options.
Another great way to do nipple play is with suction... and cupping sets work just perfectly! The plastic cups in the sets with a vacuum pump device are very handy and easy to use. And many seeking a more dramatic flair to their BDSM play, will use the Fire Cups, which add a certain ritualistic effect to the scene, since it incorporates the use of fire to heat the air inside the globe, before covering the nipple and breast area with the cup!
Using suction on nipples pulls the blood to the surface very rapidly, thus making the nipple tissue sensitive and swollen. With repeated use, many have enlarged their nipples with this technique. Always be safe and sane... leave the suction on only for a few (10-15 minutes) minutes at a time. Light bruising may occur, which is normal. Remember, though the area where cups are applied need to be hair- free! Otherwise the hair leaves pockets of air space which breaks the seal for the vacuum!
Tying or placing small rubber bands around the base of the nipple to force its protrusion, is another form of BDSM tit torture! One method for doing this, is to first use the suction on the nipple to make it erect, then tie and thin string around the base of the nipple. This will keep it erect and is very stimulating to the "patient" as the nipple is so sensitive at this point. Another method is to use a device called the Elastrator (used on animals...), which stretches a small, thick rubber band wide open and allows it to be put on the base of the nipple, then releases, and the rubber band is left in place. This is a technique many use for "training" the nipple to stay firm and erect or protruding.
Another sensual nipple play scene is
Candles without perfumes are the best. Again, test the "heat" of the melted wax
before applying any to sensitive nipple areas! If it is so hot that it is
burning the skin on the back of the hand, just think how hot that will be on the
soft tissue of a nipple or breast! If the melted wax is a very hot type of wax
(there are different variations of wax, and thus the temperatures at which they
melt also vary and the resulting melted wax may hold the higher temperature
longer) just hold candle higher over the area and it will cool a bit as it
falls. Dripping is the best way... Try dripping an inch or so of wax over the
tit, which makes a cast of the nipple when you peel it off. Use ice to harden
the wax quickly which also adds another sensation! Some, who are more
experienced with playing with hot wax, like to let votive candles build a small
pool of wax and then pour it all at once, but this too can burn, so it is not
recommended unless one is experienced with this sort of "waxing" method. Be
safe... practice first!
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