A submissives journey


Chapter 1
The Asj Community

Chapter 2
Resource Information 



Chapter 3
The Subbie's Couch


Chapter 4
The Dom's Lounge

Chapter 5

 The Library




Chapter 6




Chapter 7

 Useful Links




Chapter 8
Members share their thoughts



Chapter 9

 Members Only




Chapter 10
Asj's Site Index




Chapter 11

Online Store




Chapter 12
Recommended Reading List




Chapter 13
Asj submissive slave register









Real Time Meetings and Getting Together for those in the Dominant ~ Submissive/slave lifestyle


The Asj community has long recognized the importance of having a support system in place.  Regardless of your role in the D/s  lifestyle, whether Dominant, submissive or slave it’s important to know there are others in the lifestyle you can turn to for support, someone to talk to, or just others to be around that can relate to your situation.  For this reason, in addition to our online activities, the Asj Community hosts opportunities for those in the lifestyle to get together with others in the lifestyle.   Most of these real life activities are scheduled here in the Southern New Jersey area (about 15 minutes from Philadelphia).  Activities are occasionally coordinated and scheduled at locations throughout the United States.   Many of these get togethers' are small groups of people, usually less than ten, often as few as three or four.

These meetings can provide an opportunity for sharing concerns or issues, times for social gatherings, and opportunities to meet others in the lifestyle.


We invite you to join us at these meetings get togethers'.  Although most of  these gatherings are by invitation only, an invitation is relatively easy to obtain.



Thursday night get together ~ Every second Thursday evening of the month thru December 2016, we will be conducting a small get together at CJ’s home.  Each meeting will be a different agenda or topic.  The get togethers will consist of a wide range of activities including discussion topics, demonstrations, social gatherings and other activities.  Send an e-mail to CJ  if you’re interested in attending.  Usually these get togethers will be restricted to groups of 12 or less.


Tuesday Morning Coffee ~ 2nd Tuesday of the month, A  morning coffee will be hosted by bel  “just for the girls”.  Attendance is restricted to submissive/slave females.  The “coffee” is held at a local area restaurant.  Send an e-mail to  CJ for more information about this gathering, including times and places.  This is an excellent opportunity for girls to get together and discuss various issues. Note:  This coffee frequently repeats on other days besides just the 2nd Tuesday 


Monthly Munch and get together  ~ Although the date varies, at least once each month the Asj Community hosts a Munch, usually on a Saturday afternoon or evening.  Almost always, this is followed by a get together later in the evening.  Generally, most people attending the munch will be invited to join us at the evening get together.  These munches and get togethers are open to all in the D/s or Poly lifestyle.  Check here on our website for more information on our monthly munch. 

( http://www.asubmissivesjourney.com/munchsched.html )



Other Asj Activities and events can frequently be found added on this page.  I hope you'll check back her often. 



Questions about our site?    Click the ask live icon to chat live or leave a message with our site host.  CJ isn't always available, but generally you can find Him here from about 8:30 - 11:00 pm Eastern time. Your questions about the site, the Asj community or just about the lifestyle in general are always welcome.  If nothing else, take a moment and tell us what you think of this feature!  





    Did you know, the Asj Community hosts ‘Lifestyle Classes and Discussions’ here online every Sunday and Wednesday evening at 9:00 pm Eastern Time.  The Classes and Discussions are open to all and Free to attend.  Visit our Members Only Pages for more information, or click any of our “Member/Visitor Support” icons to ask for more information.




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