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Essence Of Submission
To understand the power of submission, one
must first understand where it comes from and how it is expressed. True
submission comes from deep within a person and is an essential part of
their nature. It is something expressed from the soul and as such, goes
much deeper than the offering of oneself to a Master for mere
A person can behave in a submissive
manner but it does not mean they are a "submissive".
oneself completely to another, to surrender all power and choice
requires an exceptional inner strength. Embracing and expressing ones
submissive nature can bring to one powerful opportunities to find the
deepest levels of trust, power and the intimacy that can only arise from
the bond between a Master and submissive. It is the ultimate expression
of balance, the archetypal opposition of Yin (the relative principle) and
Yang (the active principle). Both sides being perfectly equal yet
together forming the perfect whole.
As a submissive, one should
come before ones Master a empty chalice to be filled..or a empty canvas
to be painted..formless clay to be molded. Thru this exchange, one will
become more than what one was. The Master takes the raw material, the
blank canvas, the unpolished gemstone and brings out the inner luster.
Many may think the Master imposes His will upon His submissive but that
is not true. The Master brings out the qualities of the submissive in a
more pronounced way. Rather than being told to act submissive, it is the submissives role to remove veil after veil until who she becomes is the
perfect reflection of her service and duty to her Master. She finds an
inner joy and balance in knowing that with each veil removed, each
boundary crossed, she is more of what she is already. When i feel, see
and hear my Masters pride in me, i am elevated above all other women. i
have truly given the gift of my soul to Him and He in return becomes as
bound to me as i am to Him. That is the beauty of submission. There is a
dynamic that exists where the more my Master asks of me, the more i am
able to give and the deeper our bond grows. The perfect Yin/Yang where
the Master is the active principle in taking and the submissive is the
relative principle in the giving.
My submission is expressed in
many ways, on a physical, emotional, spiritual and mental level. Without
all of these levels it becomes only a physical act. There is a
sacredness to submission for me. Like prayer or other acts of devotion,
it is living my life with an intention and focus that always strives for
the highest, purest expression. Putting the relationship first, always
searching within for ways to offer myself and give more than i think i
can. It is this going beyond and pushing limits that can become the most
important reward...the place of empowerment, self reward, and the
resulting inner strength/transformation. It is also dancing with the
inner shadow self...the parts of me that are about fear and taking a
journey with someone (my Master) who will be there to catch me so i
never really fall.
The most special part of submission to me is
the level of intimacy and soul connection to another. Each veil that is
removed, each boundary crossed, each lash accepted and begged for, each
time of being taken to the outer most regions of letting go of
control,...all this is the glue that binds Master and submissive
together. To become completely naked and vulnerable on every level, and
then give more than i think i can, to see the pride, love and devotion
in my Masters eyes..that is the greatest gift imaginable.
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