Domination and submission: Christmas Gifts for your Dominant
by Cheryl Williams
Christmas is a time of the year when we want to give a special gift to the important people in our lives. If you are a submissive, your dominant will be at the top of your list. When choosing a gift for your dominant, there are several things you should take into consideration. You must take his likes and dislikes into consideration. Think about things he has expressed a need or a desire for. If you are a submissive, you should know your dominant well enough to know what will please him. Here is a list of gift ideas you may want to consider:
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His favorite cologne. Any submissive will tell you that she can get instantly aroused from the scent of her dominant. If he has a specific cologne that he likes to wear, this would make a great gift. Be sure to include a note with it, letting him know of the effect that it has on you whenever he wears it.
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New leather belt. Any dominant will appreciate the gift of a new belt from his submissive, especially if she includes a card expressing her desire to have it used on her. Before buying, make sure you know his preferred size and color.
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Sensual massage kit. This gift will please any dominant, especially if it comes with a card promising a long and sensual massage from his submissive. Include some sensual massage oils, a nice thick towel, and some soothing Soundscape music to make the experience a totally sensual and erotic experience.
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Candles. Candles have a special place in any dominant/submissive relationship. Not only can they be used to add romance to a scene, they can also be used to add some kink if you are involved in wax play. Make sure you buy the type of candle appropriate for the purpose you have in mind. Better yet, buy a variety of candles to incorporate in both kinds of scenes.
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Favorite CD. Music is always a great gift. Your dominant will love to find a CD from his favorite artist sitting under the tree.
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Surprise toy. If you want to really surprise you dominant, give him a toy that you have been especially hesitant about having him use on you. It could be a flogger, a new paddle or a cane. By giving him this kind of gift, you are also giving him a gift of submission and trust, showing that you are putting his desire ahead of your fear.
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A new robe. If your Master likes to wear robes, Christmas is the perfect time to buy him a nice one. Every time he puts it on after his shower, he will think of you.
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Books. If your dominant enjoys reading, he will surely enjoy a book from his submissive. Take his interests into consideration. Does he enjoy traveling or photography? Perhaps his interests lie in learning more about being a better dominant. Maybe he is into the latest fiction. Whatever he enjoys, take the time to buy something that you know he will enjoy.
To buy the perfect gift for your dominant, take the
time to get to know what will truly please him. After all, as a
submissive, that is your responsibility.
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