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Chapter
1
The Asj Community
Chapter
2
Resource Information
Chapter
3
Subbie's Couch
submissives Creed
Chapter
4
The Dom's Lounge
Chapter
5
The
Library
Chapter
6
BDSM
Chapter
7
Useful
Links
Chapter
8
Members
share their thoughts
Chapter
9
Members
Only
Chapter
10
Asj's
Site Index
Chapter
11
Asj's
Book Store
Chapter
12
Recommended
Reading List
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If you want to be a slave
If you want to be a slave,
If you want to be enslaved,
You must show him your inner strength as well
as your unquestioning trust.
If you wish be found
pleasing to him, you must struggle to please him and not yourself.
If you wish to devote your life to him, you
must learn that your role is not as his peer.
If you would consider yourself his, are you
prepared to be slave even when its not easy or fun?
If you call yourself slave, will you obey even
in fury or tears?
Do you eliminate the "If"s from your
vocabulary, and realize that slavery is not conditional?
A slave gives from the heart, she doesn't
consider it a "gift"
Its not all wrapped up in rainbows and pink ribbons,
Its bound in determined sacrifice and decorated
with her tears of pain, effort, and bliss
Its the sheerest, most primitive, raw
expression of self she can give
She gives only what is left, after the pride
and defenses crumble and she is left exposed to his eyes
She gives herself, because she could not
imagine not giving to him.
She is bound by own need, as strongly than the
steel around her neck.
You have no right to expect to be respected, to
expect love in 'return' for your slavery.
You have nothing to expect, except that he will
do as he pleases. You
have no right to censor your slavery, or your thoughts or deeds.
Are you ready to be treated
as a slave? Are you
ready to put someone's happiness above your own?
Do you put aside your own
desires and accept that they will only be fulfilled if he chooses to
do so? Are you ready
to strive always to please, and to not grow lazy and ride on past
successes? Do you have
the ability to lose your selfishness, your sense of looking after
yourself first?
Can you leave your pride
behind?
Consent is given once, when the collar is
begged. For a slave,
there is no limits or conditions on consent.
Everything is given then, in that one moment,
when a girl crawls to beg for ownership,
regardless of whether it is denied or not.
Consent doesn't involve negotiating, a power
you gave up the moment you felt his ownership.
You have no power once you
surrender all.
Never give what is most sacred to you, if you
cannot trust this person with your life.
Never forget, it's not about you anymore.
Never lose sight that it is a privilege to be
owned, and a huge
responsibility to those who own you.
Never forget to be grateful if someone does
take on you as a possession.
Can you be truly,
hopelessly, absolutely owned?
Are you worth being owned? Only he knows.
Ownership is not taken lightly by either side.
And if you impose limits on the Master you
claim to be owned by...
You only own yourself.
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