Subspace
A submissives journey
A submissives journey
Probably the toughest thing to describe to the uninitiated is that elusive thing that many call "subspace." It's also known as "headspace" or "flying" or "floating" but while those of us who are experienced know just what this means within our own context, it is a very difficult thing to define.
Subspace
is that place between the conscious and
unconscious states. It is the world within the
mind and body, of pure sensation and emotion,
devoid of intellectual thought and reasoning. The
journey to subspace is achieved by the
relinquishment of control and will on the part of
the submissive. The Dominant will, through a
variety of means guide the submissive on the
journey. Think of your state of mind when you are
having an orgasm. We all tend to lose control to
some degree. We lose our reasoning and sense of
self. We are in the moment. Similarly, think of
your state of mind when you meditate. Loss of ego,
absence of thought, connecting on a non-verbal
level with the universe. Put these two states of
mind together and square them, and you will have a
fairly good idea of what subspace is like.
Christians have flagellated themselves throughout
history to achieve this state of mind. Victims of
torture, have gone into this state to be able to
endure their torment. Starvation will create a
similar state of mind. Buddhists have meditated to
achieve this transcendental state and hypnotists
induce it as a matter of course, for both healing
purposes and entertainment.
How does the
Dominant create this? One way is pain. The
submissive will convert the sensation of pain into
one of pleasure, crossing that thin line. The Dom
will enhance this effect by administering soft,
gentle pleasurable sensations before, during and
after the administration of the pain. The Dom will
warm up the sub and gradually build up the level
as the sub gets used to incremental increases in
the pain. Another way is pleasure or the denial of
pleasure. Multiple orgasms, piled one upon the
other will help take a submissive woman to
subspace. Similarly, the denial of orgasms will do
the same thing if repeated relentlessly. Sensory
overload or sensory deprivation. In the case of
male subs, denial of orgasms is the preferred way
due to the inability of most men to have
consecutive multiple orgasms.
Fear will
disorient the submissive and aid in the journey.
Bondage robs the submissive of the freedom to move
and creates vulnerability and fear. Trust becomes
an issue between the Dom and the sub. Verbal,
aural and visual threats may be made to increase
fear in the submissive. Part of the mind is
fearful, and part knows the Dominant will not harm
them. This paradox blows rationality out and
allows sensation in.
The submissive also
is absolved of all responsibility for what occurs
during the scene as the Dom is responsible for his
or her emotional, physical and mental well-being.
This alone gives the sub the freedom to soar.
There are five senses and unlimited ways for a
creative Dominant to create the conditions within
a scene for the submissive to fly in subspace.
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