D/s Core Values
As you begin your journey into understanding what it means to be a submissive (or slave), amongst the first sign posts you'll find will be;
In the English language these words are common place, their meanings fairly well known. In a power exchange relationship, such as the Dominant submissive or Master slave lifestyle, much more so than in a 'vanilla' relationship, these words are more than just words, they represent the core values of any power exchange relationship. Without these words and adherence to what they represent, a true Dominant submissive relationship will be doomed to an early failure. Four of these terms, Honor, Respect, Communication and Trust also form the basic building blocks or foundation of any Dominant submissive (D/s) or Master slave (M/s) relationship.
Long before the submissive begins to consider a collar, she should be doing a bit of self evaluation, determining just exactly what it is these words represent to her and how they'll impact on her life. Take the time to visit these links, learn what these terms mean. Understand how these traits or characteristics fit into a Dominant submissive relationship. Develop a plan to integrate these actions into your day to day life and relationship(s). The Dominant or Master that ultimately claims you will be looking for these qualities, just as you will be looking for them in Him.
In no particular order, Communication, Respect, Honor, Trust, Honesty, and Consistency need to play a predominant role in your daily life and family values. As you continue your journey to submission, you'll find these words are or should be interlaced into almost everything you do or encounter.
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This website is dedicated to the belief and practice of “Absolute Submission” and “Unconditional Surrender” within the “Ancient” and “Biblical” documented and practiced “Natural Order” of women consensually submitting to men.
Examples of practices of the "Natural Order" can be found in many well known scriptures such as "The Hebrew Torah", "The Talmud", "The Holy Ouran", "The Old Testament", "The New Testament", and "The Book Of Mormon", to name a few.
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